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Steed99

Oldest Swinger In Town
15 September 2015
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We love our occasional visits to VA and love dressing up, so the idea of coming to Chic this Saturday (29th July) really appeals. Yvonne can certainly do elegant lingerie and I can do black tie, but what is black modern tie? Or does that just mean I'm not to wear my wing collar and tailcoat?
The event announcement suggests we need to book ahead, is that the case?
Thanks for your replies, we are looking forwards to them.
Yvonne and Dave
Do an internet search for CHIC-EVENTS. The dress code is explained there. Places can be booked either directly with the party organiser or via VA.
 
24 July 2017
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Do an internet search for CHIC-EVENTS. The dress code is explained there. Places can be booked either directly with the party organiser or via VA.
Thanks Steed. We've now found the Chic website and sent our booking request off to VA
 
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The Vanilla Alternative
The VA team work hard to create a relaxed friendly venue, that welcomes everyone. We are always on hand for a chat or to settle new members nerves or to answer any queries. Come and join us at our fully licensed bar for a drink.


The Vanilla Alternative, an entirely new and exciting experience that adults across the UK are flocking to experience.

With our huge hot tub, open and private play areas, fully licensed bar, our own hotel and gorgeous decor, you'll see why more and more swingers are choosing to become members at The Vanilla Alternative.
 

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You missed something out both as your reply is missing.
Welcome to the site and welcome to the forums x
 
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Spent 2 consecutive nights at the VA for the SS birthday party. Staff were all welcoming and friendly, great venue, well set out. But since then the staff gave me the run around with trying to get tickets for the FoF. Shame as I was feeling positive about the club.
 
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Steed99

Oldest Swinger In Town
15 September 2015
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Kettering
So much going on over the next couple of weeks; Dark Desires, CHIC 11, Festival of Fun, MILF Club, Spicy's Bi-Night, Saturday Soiree, Twisted, Insatiable, Ménage Et Trois and MILF Club Friday. Who says things wind down during the school holidays?
 
11 September 2016
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A really wonderful club. Not just because it's my local (well LE is technically closer) club but the effort and money put into the decor shows. A bar with soft seating plus an open seating area, adjacent, for more socialising. A dance floor, with pole, for those with the required flexibility! A couples only area, some new kinky play features (no spoilers here.. .go check it out!) and lots of big beds, not to mention a huge hot tub.

I've been going for years and always leave wishing I could go more often. Definitely recommended.
 
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I'd like to personally send huge thanks to the VA for hosting again, and a massive thanks to all the staff and members here who made our 3rd Birthday Bash! We'd also like to thank those who helped with other members - especially those who may be completely new to the whole lifestyle and club scene. Thank you for all you have done over this weekend. x
 
5 March 2018
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We went here on Saturday first time we have tried this club and how amazing really good people in their felt very welcome and very comfortable and even got to have some really good fun will be back soon thanks again x
 
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14 February 2017
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Another fun filled sexy night at The VA on Saturday night.
Lots of fun was had by many.

Club was clean, well presented and inviting as always.
@Steed99 was a fantastic host and such a gentleman, a credit to the club. The bar staff were as attentive as ever and provided an excellent service.

Well done to all at The VA for keeping up the good work and providing a safe environment for us to meet other like minded people.
 
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KinkyConsent

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28 March 2018
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Admin submitted a new link:




The Vanilla Alternative
The VA team work hard to create a relaxed friendly venue, that welcomes everyone. We are always on hand for a chat or to settle new members nerves or to answer any queries. Come and join us at our fully licensed bar for a drink.


The Vanilla Alternative, an entirely new and exciting experience that adults across the UK are flocking to experience.

With our huge hot tub, open and private play areas, fully licensed bar, our own hotel and gorgeous decor, you'll see why more and more swingers are choosing to become members at The Vanilla Alternative.

We have heard great things about the VA.. As Party night organisers for Bdsm parties its fantastic that the VA has such a good reputation within the scene. hopefully we can discuss having a calibration soon
 
15 February 2018
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Tamworth
What a beautiful club. It's spotlessly clean, the hosts put me at ease the minute they greeted me at the door. I loved the hot tub, it made a huge difference being chlorine free and I happily spent a large chunk of the night in there. From being a bit nervous about attending a new venue so far away from home, I soon found that everyone was really friendly and fun. I will definitely be back, can't wait.
 
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16 October 2015
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Nuneaton
Although I’ve not been for 12 months this club is in my top 5 in the UK. It would be a serious contender for Top spot if only they had access for private play areas.
Best club for asphetics though
 
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10 May 2018
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I have visited this amazing club on numerous occasions and always have a fantastic time, the club itself is spotlessly clean, classy and the staff always welcoming....
 

Steed99

Oldest Swinger In Town
15 September 2015
2,286
18,279
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Kettering
The remaining December events at The Vanilla Alternative are as follows:

Sunday 9th - Twisted fetish party 2-10pm

Wednesday 12th - Milf Club 11am-3pm

Friday 14th - Christmas Party 8pm-2am

Saturday 15th - Christmas Party 8pm-2am

Monday 31st - New Year's Eve Party from 8pm

PLEASE NOTE: THE CLUB WILL BE CLOSED ON 21st, 22nd, 28th & 29th (we know there is a listing on the EVENTS page of the club's website for the 21st but that will not be happening).

Club owner, Jules, and the whole staff team thank everyone who has attended events during 2018 for their support. We know the club's website has been problematic recently and that is being sorted.

Have a great break over the holiday period and we look forward to seeing you at events during 2019 that will be posted on Social Swinging in due course.
 

Steed99

Oldest Swinger In Town
15 September 2015
2,286
18,279
City
Kettering
Here is the full list of events that will be taking place during the rest of January.

Wednesday 9th - Milf Club 11am-3pm (Ring the club to book in please)

Friday 11th - Ménage et Trois for singles and couples 8pm-2am

Saturday 12th - Saturday Soiree for couples and single ladies 8pm-2am

Sunday 13th - Twisted - Our monthly fetish event 2-10pm (Contact the club to book in please)

Friday 18th - The Mix - Our monthly event for all. Singles and couples, Bi, fetish, straight, TV/TS are all welcome 8pm-2am

Saturday 19th - Saturday Soiree for couples and single ladies 8pm-2am

Wednesday 23rd - Milf Club 11am-3pm (Ring the club to book in please)

Friday 25th - Ménage et Trois for singles and couples 8pm-2am

Saturday 26th - Saturday Soiree for couples and single ladies 8pm-2am

The club has 12 onsite hotel rooms. For bookings or more details please telephone or email the club.

On Friday nights single guy numbers are restricted to a maximum of 10. Single guys need to register online via the club's website and receive 2 emails back. One confirming that the request has been received and another that the registration has been approved. Once that has been completed, single guys need to telephone the club in the week of the Friday they wish to attend to get on the guest list. You will need to get confirmation that you are on the list to get in. Without this you will not be admitted.

Everyone attending for the first time needs to bring and show photo ID.

Lockers are available (and towels are provided for Friday and Saturday nights). As a deposit for the locker key we ask for either £20 in cash or a bank card.

The club office is usually open between 11am and 8pm every day except the Wednesdays when the club is closed and Sundays apart from the 13th. Emails are reviewed regularly but do not expect an instant reply.
 

Steed99

Oldest Swinger In Town
15 September 2015
2,286
18,279
City
Kettering
To help with planning, here is the full list of events that will be taking place during February.

Friday 1st - Spicyminx's Bi-Night 8pm-2am

Saturday 2nd - Saturday Soiree for couples and single ladies 8pm-2am

Friday 8th - Ménage et Trois for singles and couples 8pm-2am

Saturday 9th - Saturday Soiree for couples and single ladies 8pm-2am

Sunday 10th - Twisted - Our monthly fetish event 2-10pm (Contact the club to book in please)

Wednesday 13th - Milf Club 11am-3pm (Ring the club to book in please)

Friday 15th - Valentine Party for singles and couples 8pm-2am

Saturday 16th - Valentine Party for couples and single ladies 8pm-2am

Friday 22nd - Ménage et Trois for singles and couples 8pm-2am

Saturday 23rd - CHIC 20 for couples and single ladies 8pm-2am

Wednesday 27th - Milf Club 11am-3pm (Ring the club to book in please)

The club has 12 onsite hotel rooms. For bookings or more details please telephone or email the club.

On Friday nights (with the exception of Bi-Night on the 1st) single guy numbers are restricted to a maximum of 10. Single guys need to register online via the club's website and receive 2 emails back. One confirming that the request has been received and another that the registration has been approved. Once that has been completed, single guys need to telephone the club in the week of the Friday they wish to attend to get on the guest list. You will need to get confirmation that you are on the list to get in. Without this you will not be admitted.

Everyone attending for the first time needs to bring and show photo ID.

Lockers are available (and towels are provided for Friday and Saturday nights). As a deposit for the locker key we ask for either £20 in cash or a bank card.

The club office is usually open between 11am and 8pm every day except the Wednesdays when the club is closed and Sundays apart from the 10th. Emails are reviewed regularly but do not expect an instant reply.
 
27 January 2019
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Banbury
Having been a member for 4 years and visiting most Fridays, The Vanilla Alternative is almost my second home. The club attracts nice people of all ages, shapes and backgrounds, all intent in having some fun in a wonderful clean and safe environment. The massive hot tub is a great addition to the bar and lounge areas for socialising whilst the choice of play areas allows for completely open or more secluded fun. Party nights on Fridays and Saturdays are always good fun with the option of staying over in one of the 12 onsite hotel rooms (ideal if having a few drinks from the well stocked licensed bar).
What's the price range on the hotel rooms?