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MOTM

24 October 2018
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Hello sexy people..how often do you like to arrange meets..do you like meets in clubs every weekend or do you prefer 2 or 3 meets a year where you get to know people..we prefer to get to know people first and chat but what about you horny lot??
 
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Great thread we prefer Quality every time, we would rather have 2 or 3 great quality meets/play dates/ liaisons than 20 crap ones.

Our last liason took over a year to get us all in the same place and time and boy was it worth every single second of it! Those are the kinda meets we enjoy, where we get to know the folks before hand, that way the actual liason is a simple natural progression of the chat.
 
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MOTM

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Hello sexy people..how often do you like to arrange meets..do you like meets in clubs every weekend or do you prefer 2 or 3 meets a year where you get to know people..we prefer to get to know people first and chat but what about you horny lot??
This year started off ok but had dropped off again which is quite a usual pattern....
It’s good to meet as often as possible my preference had always been individual meets , it’s no secret I’m not a big fan of clubs , but I do attend some ...
All the meets I’ve had have been through here this will probably be quite controversial and haters will hate but the onus on social rather than swinging has been one of the big changes happening on the site since I’ve joined ..... :tiphat:
 
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MOTM

24 October 2018
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Great thread we prefer Quality every time, we would rather have 2 or 3 great quality meets/play dates/ liaisons than 20 crap ones.

Our last liason took over a year to get us all in the same place and time and boy was it worth every single second of it! Those are the kinda meets we enjoy, where we get to know the folks before hand, that way the actual liason is a simple natural progression of the chat.
We love all the sexy chats and the build up to it all. Talking about what you want to do with each other and really get to know them before you even meet.. Our last 2 meets have took about 3 months of chatting and swapping pics before we met.. Rl also plays a big part..W..x
 
12 July 2019
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Although this is a swinging site (yeah we fuck people sometimes) it’s more of a SOCIAL thing for us... making FRIENDS before anything else.

One night stands was when we were teenagers, I’m sure most of you will agree, the quality of a friendship with the added bit of fun at times is way better than a one off fuck just to get our cocks (and Fanny’s) wet.
 
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In all honesty we prefer quality over quantity. We struggle with time and also how far away people are so getting together can be an issue.
It's the initial chat, the sexy messages that leads onto the next best thing!
We spent our time getting to know people, find it better to build a bit of a friendship up first found that makes the rest just a natural sexy progression S xxxxx
 
27 April 2015
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Hmmmm, Great question, we've been really greedy over the years, (Swinging is very addictive in the early years) but as with all things, you calm down, and start to enjoy quality over quantity, and then as time goes on, you really get picky, as after many sexy meetings, you've now acquired specific tastes and skills, that (as a couple) really hit both of your sexy spots. So for us, we no longer really plan anything, but meet many people whilst they are on holidays here (and not all of them swingers) and if we get on well, gel with humour, and have an attraction as well, then spontaneity takes its course/or not, but either way, the friend's we make now, last, rather than disappear after a few months and never to be heard of again.....
So for us nature and spontaneity takes its course, be it only once a month, or a few times a year....
The-A-Team