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Hi, been a while since we popped in.
Here's a question though. How many of you actually PREFER going along to a club with no fixed plans? Rather than an arranged meet (we are open to this once our 'freedom' returns) instead do you prefer the unknown? Arranged is good but we also love just going to a club and seeing what the night brings.
 
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MP386

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SteLinda said:
Hi, been a while since we popped in.
Here's a question though. How many of you actually PREFER going along to a club with no fixed plans? Rather than an arranged meet (we are open to this once our 'freedom' returns) instead do you prefer the unknown? Arranged is good but we also love just going to a club and seeing what the night brings.
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Although I’ve attended clubs my preference has always been arranged meets because of distance usually at an agreed hotel... since joining all the meets I’ve had have been this way ....
 
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MP386 said:
Although I’ve attended clubs my preference has always been arranged meets because of distance usually at an agreed hotel... since joining all the meets I’ve had have been this way ....
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There are some reasons why I prefer meets this way ^^^ ...
since joining I’ve attended clubs for the birthdays and socials even when as we know with the surplus of single blokes , clubs have your pants down just to get in the door ....it’s economics it makes revenue for the club that aside a couple I chatted with (long since departed I should add ! ) we had an arranged meet at a club ... everything was going ok , then they started trying to put me off going which I thought was a little odd , horror stories about the type of event ... any way being to stupid to read between the lines , I went .... said couple were pleasant enough then a visit to the hot tub they couldn’t have sat further away from me if they tried... then got out and went and played with another bloke .....
Fair enough that’s their prerogative... they came back said good bye and left .....
hence anyone offering just club meets tends to be not high on my list of priorities much rather a private meet in a hotel ..,,
If that’s a single lady I’m quite old fashioned I like to sort the room and dinner as part of the evening .... couples tend to be a “ going Dutch” situation ...
#swingingexperiences
 
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MP386 said:
There are some reasons why I prefer meets this way ^^^ ...
since joining I’ve attended clubs for the birthdays and socials even when as we know with the surplus of single blokes , clubs have your pants down just to get in the door ....it’s economics it makes revenue for the club that aside a couple I chatted with (long since departed I should add ! ) we had an arranged meet at a club ... everything was going ok , then they started trying to put me off going which I thought was a little odd , horror stories about the type of event ... any way being to stupid to read between the lines , I went .... said couple were pleasant enough then a visit to the hot tub they couldn’t have sat further away from me if they tried... then got out and went and played with another bloke .....
Fair enough that’s their prerogative... they came back said good bye and left .....
hence anyone offering just club meets tends to be not high on my list of priorities much rather a private meet in a hotel ..,,
If that’s a single lady I’m quite old fashioned I like to sort the room and dinner as part of the evening .... couples tend to be a “ going Dutch” situation ...
#swingingexperiences
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Why do they call it “going dutch” :D
 
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So it’s all a bit 50/50 then really. Some prefer the more intimate experience at home, whilst others prefer the fun and go with the flow approach of clubs. It’s great that everyone has so many different ways of enjoying this lifestyle. :)
 
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Personally I'd prefer meeting at home. It's a more inimate and a more relaxed experience than a club.
 
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We normally prefer to have a pre-arranged meet either ours or the other couples.
When we go to a club, we never go with any arrangements, we go for a chilled out evening and if anything happens then that’s a bonus
 
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I prefer meeting in a bar or for food somewhere....or at least somewhere pleasant. I prefer meeting less people but having more time and privacy to chat and get to know each other properly. The more successful arrangements and experiences I've had have almost always been through meeting people in person somewhere with plenty of time to drink, eat and get to know each other. But then again I like being wrong so I'm open to whatever really
 
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