Owning, Starting & Running a Swinging Site.

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Bit of a long-ish read this one, so have a cuppa and take 5.
We were on another very well known site, some time ago and on there for some time.
We joined there about 12-13 years ago and after a few years, we decided to start this after some seriously bad things we were witnessing.

Our good RL friend went through the mill on there. She had an issue where a guy was bombarding her constantly with very aggressive messages.

He was sending aggressive and vile messages, always pushing it one step more. Every time she blocked him, he would create a new account and do it again. He would make accounts of single gent, couple and lady - to negate her filters. I will come back on this.
He threatened her with a deeply heinous sexual act which I cannot mention here and that day was the day my mind was made up. We are going to do it.
She posted on their forums pleading for help and the response was "but you're doing it to yourself right now, by posting in the forums asking for help and drawing attention to yourself"
Seriously?!

Anyway after lots of friends saying to me all the time, do your own site, make your own site, we know you can do it - we decided we'd go for it.

We spoke to our friends, did what we needed to and started the ball rolling in August 2014. By the March in 2015 - the 1st being St David's Day and us being Welsh (okay plus a birthday there somewhere too) we launched and were online after months of preparing and building.

Some of this above is nicked from our article which you can read here; Why we started our own swinging site. But this is a blog, so won't be close to what's written in that article.

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There we have it, domain sorted, cheap webhosting sorted (back then), software framework sorted.. Next we needed members & parties to attend.
Which is what we did.

A few of the - then close group - came with us, a sort of exodus if you will. We attended parties, threw cards everywhere and the numbers started to really build up nicely.

What we didn't want, was the hassle, riff-raff and trouble that comes from elsewhere. Make no mistake though, we had more than our fair share of it, and, to this day still do to a degree.
But nothing to the extent of what we have dealt with.

That said, to the flip of that coin, we've also got some fantastic & amazing members here too.

Can you put a price on solidarity, loyalty, trust and reliability? I don't think you can..

Safety of members has always been of the utmost importance. Without question and unequivocal. Safety is paramount and comes first. Always has and always will do.
If you look back in the first few paragraphs, you will see that the sole reason for starting it, 7 years ago, was because a friend of ours suffered horrific abuse. This is why safety has always been a top priority.

7 years' later, here we are. A small site, with a fantastic group of members.
From then to now, is what is coming up in the following blog entries, but take note - I won't be adding to this every day. Some days I may, others it will be sporadic.

What you will learn is some of the experiences of owning, starting & running a Swinging Site and what that entails.
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Lips_Pearls
Lips & Pearls. Just ordinary people, in a fun and entertaining lifestyle choice of Swinging.

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I joined Social Swingers many years ago but found it very difficult to navigate ( now better)and very small on numbers. A genuine site not full of fakes and chancers.
Away I went and worked my way through other websites eventually forming a nice group of "friends" but frankly I would not recommend it. So here we are nicely established, a few friends in a group to play with and go to clubs with, but it would be good to meet new people thus my return as a less desperado solo man who also has the luxury of female playmates, returning to a genuine site and here we have authors message " as a reliable genuine man who enjoys playing with single women and
couples" and would welcome contact from interested parties.
Geography is Oxford- Luton- Rochester, London- Reading area.
Clubs frequented with my long term FB female friend being usually Kestrals/Abfabs,
Silverleigh, VA. Chams Birmingham.
 

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