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    First Time in a Swinging Club - What to Expect

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    By @meet_the_fockers - I've been messaged on a couple of occasions, asking for advice from people, hoping to visit a club for the first time. So i thought id throw a few words together.. I am by no means an expert. Although.. we have been to a fair few clubs/socials. These have been Manchester/Wirral N.West based clubs. Clubs in other parts of the country maybe slightly different?

    I will try to give some of the answers to some of the questions I've been asked...Everyone is different everyone has different expectations.. but here are some of mine.
    Take a deep breathe before you go in.. This is sometimes the hardest part.

    1 First Time in a Swinging Club - What to Expect

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    I've been messaged on a couple of occasions, asking for advice from people, hoping to visit a club for the first time. So i thought id throw a few words together.. I am by no means an expert. Although.. we have been to a fair few clubs/socials. These have been Manchester/Wirral N.West based clubs. Clubs in other parts of the country maybe slightly different?

    I will try to give some of the answers to some of the questions I've been asked...Everyone is different everyone has different expectations.. but here are some of mine.
    Take a deep breathe before you go in.. This is sometimes the hardest part.

    If you tell the owners/ management its your first time, they will more than likely give you the option of a guided tour, explaining the rules as you stroll around.
    Some clubs are immediate dress down, some ask that you dress down by say 22.00 23.00?
    Some only ask that you dress down, when you leave the lounge area..
    Its not polite to wander around amongst play rooms in your wellies and parker. when others are scantily clad.
    Right drinks..
    some have liquor licenses but... the drinks are usually very cheap.
    Some don't... they all sell soft drinks and coffee.
    You are usually permitted to take your own alcohol, to unlicensed venues. It will be kept behind the bar for you.. your locker key usually has a number on which will correspond, with the drinks you placed behind the bar complicated? its not.
    Etiquette
    .. much like your usual night out.. smile. If someone makes a bee-line for you drop it into the conversation, what it is your looking for.
    They may only be looking to chat?
    You will know the difference.
    Mingle.. remember the other club goers are just like YOU. They are like minded.
    You don't have to run round naked all night waving your hands in the air.. ;D
    you may prefer to sit and chat in the lounge area and socialise all night..
    Its up to YOU.
    Finally only do what you are comfortable doing.. a polite no thankyou is all it takes.. if the advice isn't heeded speak to the owner/manager.
    there's a misconception re clubs being full of writhing bodies.. in the rooms maybe so?.. in the lounge/bar area not so.
    Above all enjoy.
    treat it like a fun night out..
    towels are provided for dress down alternatively gents can take their own shorts.
    Ladies dress down..
    Basques tiny skirts.. lacey see through dresses, underwear. Depends what you feel comfortable in.
    Lockers are provided usually for a deposit. Think locker ..wristband ..swimming..

    No photography!!
    ☆☆☆☆☆ important☆☆☆☆☆
    Please check the clubs website, before heading out..
    what's on, on the night before you visit.
    prices
    licensed or unlicensed.
    ID TAKE SOME FORM OF ID..
    We have had some of the best crazy social nights ever in clubs.. danced laughed, chilled in a jacuzzi or swimming pool with a drink. Even played pool all night.
    Relax enjoy. Go with no expectations..
    Hope this helps elivate some of your fears, and answers a few of the questions ive been asked. Happy Clubbing♡♡♡

    Also check out our Wiki page on Swinging Clubs Etiquette

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