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A quick guide to finding your way around the site
So you are new, you came from a different site and trying to navigate around this site.

Firstly you will find the site a little different from any other, it really isn’t that difficult to find your way around but like anything new, take your time to look around and familiarise yourself with the Menu which is located at the top left of your screen.The Menu provides links to all areas of the site. It is simply point and click.

Note: If you haven’t yet completed all the joining steps (adding media and Photo Verified) then you may not be able to see some of these options

So what’s on the menu?

Home: Click this to take you back to the websites Home page

Member Search: Click this to search for members. For example you can search by location, age, Using the site as etc. You will also see a list of newly registered users.

Members: Similar to Member Search but here you can see the most active users on the site as well as searching and a list of the newest members.

Events: This page lists all events from both clubs and individual members. You can create your own events here.

FAQ: The first place to go to if you need help. Remember you can also tag any staff member from a post on your profile and we will respond as quickly as we can.

Forums: This is the main social area of the site where you can join in the discussions. There is a wide range of topics, some serious some hilarious and of course you can create your own threads. If you are new then why not create an Hello thread to introduce yourself. The forums are the best place to get yourself known.

Gallery: Here you can add your own media or look at others media (unless they have limited who can view their photo’s). To get full access you will need to add a minimum of 3 photo’s of yourself and have been Photo Verified. Access to the galleries is limited to full members

Members Meets: This is where you can see what meets have been created. These may be individual meets or social events at clubs.

Swinging Clubs: A list of Swingers clubs by name, locations etc.

Recent Activity: Here you can see what the most recent posts on profile or threads.

Your Profile Page: Click this to take you to your profile page.

Your Profile Page.

This is your shop window. This is where you add information about yourself, see your recent posts, your media, albums and verifications. The more details you add the better, people like to know who you are, what you like, your preferences etc. Of course you only need to add the minimum information but many members will simply skip over a blank profile, so try to make it interesting, tell other members about yourself. It really does make the difference. If you're stuck take a look at some other profiles to get an idea of what to add.

Chat and the Chatrooms

Accessed via the blue tab at the bottom right of your screen. Here you can either have a 1-to-1 chat or enter one of the chat rooms (General chat and The Cockwell Inn).

The General chat group is exactly what it says, a general chat area for all members. The Cockwell Inn is normally used for games, such as the quiz night, guess the member, truth or lie. The quiz is usually held at 8pm on a Thursday, Guess the member or Truth or lie are usually on a Friday at 9pm. It is not always possible to run these games and information about them can be found in the forum area.

Anyone is welcome to join in the games but when running none participants will not be allowed in the Cockwell Inn as chat interferes with the games. If you have an ideas for online chat games please discuss with Admin.


Click on the messages tab at the top right of the screen (message are often referred to as a PM or Private Message). Using this tab you can chat with individuals or a group, maximum 5 participants. All chats are private and can only be read by the message participants.

General Info

We expect all members to show respect to others. Harassment, flaming or bullying will not be tolerated and anyone found to be involved in this may receive a warning, temporary or permanent ban. This applies to the forums, chatrooms and private messages.

Media must comply with all UK laws, any media found to be in breach of the law will be deleted immediately and the poster will receive a warning, temporary or permanent ban.

If you do find something that you believe should be dealt with by the staff then you can either contact them directly via a PM or 1-to-1 chat. Please note some staff members are not contactable by chat or PM. If you need to report the content of a PM then please do not delete the message as this may be required later for investigation.
You can also use the Complaints section in the forums and finally you can simply add a profile post to ask for help.

So add your personal information, join in the forums and good luck. Enjoy.

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