Am I thinking with my dick, again?

[Ymichael14]

I am almost 63 years old.
Met a woman who just turned 25 ,at work. She has been here for a year but we never worked together or talked before.
She put in for a transfer to my department and I was assigned to train her. They train to see of you can do the job before they let you transfer. We got along great. She starts talking and we discover we have the same perversions and fantasies .
And she wants me, bad.
As in bad porn movie .
We end the night by exchanging cell numbers and she sends a topless pic as soon as she gets home.
Now she wants to come over to my place, now, or tomorrow or both.
Sounds great right?
The problem.
She mentioned she liked to see older nen as a father figure. As in , in control.
She calls them daddy.
In an effort to get laid , I referred to myself in a text as Daddy. She practically had an orgasm. And responded with ,she was my little girl.
I'm concerned she really fantasizes about doing her father.
So, on one hand, she is young enough to be my grand daughter, has big tits, and is willing to drive an hour to my place to fuck for an hour before driving another hour back to go to work and she wants a threesome and she does girls so I can probably get her to go to a swing club with me, BUT, on the other hand, I'm concerned she is an unstable freak.
So, has anyone been in this situation before? Do you draw a line between being called daddy and being treated like dad , her believing she is with her father?
And a question for the women, if she was a friend of yours and she told you what was going on, would you be happy for her, or concerned something was wrong?
Like an abused woman who stays in the relationship because she belives she deserves the beatings.
As a guy I think it is worth the risk that she will try to kill me, but, of course, as a guy I'm thinking with my dick.

 

[Colin]

If your happy and comfortable with the situation then why not your both adults and share the same fantasies then things could work out and maybe try out your fantasies together what have you got to loose but a couple of litres of cum .. I say go for it

 

[Ymichael14]

If your happy and comfortable with the situation then why not your both adults and share the same fantasies then things could work out and maybe try out your fantasies together what have you got to loose but a couple of litres of cum .. I say go for it

I agree.
But it is too easy.
It can't be real.
She must be crazy and has men tied up in her basement.
I will still meet her, of course, just in case it is real.

 

[mrclouse]

I mean go for it if it's consensual but well the other issue is she is gonna be working with you and you are I assume in a higher rank than her, so to be honest I would just cover your own back minimum. If you can inform HR and make sure that it's on the record as something consensual. Try to get anything that involves discussions about her off your hand so you can't be implicated for anything

 

[Guru G]

I am almost 63 years old.
Met a woman who just turned 25 ,at work. She has been here for a year but we never worked together or talked before.
She put in for a transfer to my department and I was assigned to train her. They train to see of you can do the job before they let you transfer. We got along great. She starts talking and we discover we have the same perversions and fantasies .
And she wants me, bad.
As in bad porn movie .
We end the night by exchanging cell numbers and she sends a topless pic as soon as she gets home.
Now she wants to come over to my place, now, or tomorrow or both.
Sounds great right?
The problem.
She mentioned she liked to see older nen as a father figure. As in , in control.
She calls them daddy.
In an effort to get laid , I referred to myself in a text as Daddy. She practically had an orgasm. And responded with ,she was my little girl.
I'm concerned she really fantasizes about doing her father.
So, on one hand, she is young enough to be my grand daughter, has big tits, and is willing to drive an hour to my place to fuck for an hour before driving another hour back to go to work and she wants a threesome and she does girls so I can probably get her to go to a swing club with me, BUT, on the other hand, I'm concerned she is an unstable freak.
So, has anyone been in this situation before? Do you draw a line between being called daddy and being treated like dad , her believing she is with her father?
And a question for the women, if she was a friend of yours and she told you what was going on, would you be happy for her, or concerned something was wrong?
Like an abused woman who stays in the relationship because she belives she deserves the beatings.
As a guy I think it is worth the risk that she will try to kill me, but, of course, as a guy I'm thinking with my dick.

If it was me she would’ve been over my house 48 hours ago

 

[Guru G]

I mean go for it if it's consensual but well the other issue is she is gonna be working with you and you are I assume in a higher rank than her, so to be honest I would just cover your own back minimum. If you can inform HR and make sure that it's on the record as something consensual. Try to get anything that involves discussions about her off your hand so you can't be implicated for anything

Slut

 

[Ymichael14]

I mean go for it if it's consensual but well the other issue is she is gonna be working with you and you are I assume in a higher rank than her, so to be honest I would just cover your own back minimum. If you can inform HR and make sure that it's on the record as something consensual. Try to get anything that involves discussions about her off your hand so you can't be implicated for anything

I'm not her superior in the sense that I'm her supervisor or manager. I have no authority over her, other than she needs me to say she passed the training and recommended her. But I don't have the final say, my opinion is only considered by management while making thier decision. If I was, company would not tolerate it and one of us would have to move to another shift or department.
She could , of course, get mad at me over something and lie and say I sexualy harassed her.
But, a guy can, and has, gotten in trouble for just asking a woman on a date. Just asking once. So you really cant avoid those claims. Plus, she could say I sexually harassed her if i refuse to do anything with her. Hell hath no fury....

 

[Ymichael14]

If it was me she would’ve been over my house 48 hours ago

But you are younger.
It is believable when there isn't 38 years between the two of you.

 

[Guru G]

But you are younger.
It is believable when there isn't 38 years between the two of you.

If there was a lady 38 years older than me I would’ve been there a month ago

 

[mrclouse]

I'm not her superior in the sense that I'm her supervisor or manager. I have no authority over her, other than she needs me to say she passed the training and recommended her. But I don't have the final say, my opinion is only considered by management while making thier decision. If I was, company would not tolerate it and one of us would have to move to another shift or department.
She could , of course, get mad at me over something and lie and say I sexualy harassed her.
But, a guy can, and has, gotten in trouble for just asking a woman on a date. Just asking once. So you really cant avoid those claims. Plus, she could say I sexually harassed her if i refuse to do anything with her. Hell hath no fury....

That's why I said try to cover your back with anything you can

 

[Ymichael14]

If there was a lady 38 years older than me I would’ve been there a month ago

No, 38 years younger.
Which in your case would probably be illegal. But if she was 18 and you were 56.

 

[Guru G]

No, 38 years younger.
Which in your case would probably be illegal. But if she was 18 and you were 56.

No I’m talking as if I was her lol. She’s 25 ffs not a teenager

 

[Ymichael14]

No I’m talking as if I was her lol. She’s 25 ffs not a teenager

Yes, I get that she is 25 and she can do 90 year olds, if she likes, but I just dont think it is normal and I'm afraid she is not normal.
But, it looks like I'm the only one here who thinks that way.

 

[Ymichael14]

We are planning on a motel, (i dont want her to know where I live, just in case) on Saturday night after work, (we work nights so it would be about 1am. ) then sunday before work. Then sunday after work. I dont think she is planning on spending the night.
So, I will find out if she is crazy or not.
If you dont hear from me by monday, she eithier murdered me, it was a trap and her friends murdered me and took my money, it was too much for me and I died, or I am still tied up in her basement.

 

[Ymichael14]

Nobody has an opinion on her wanting to be called my little girl and wanting to call me daddy?
That wouldn't bother any of you if it happened to you?

 

[mrclouse]

Nobody has an opinion on her wanting to be called my little girl and wanting to call me daddy?
That wouldn't bother any of you if it happened to you?

Nope had someone call me daddy during as a joke to put me off or something let's just say she regretted it and I think I gained a new kink

Some people have a daddy kink if your uncomfortable tell her, I'm all for honesty to be honest so be upfront about it but it's not a weird kink. As for the age well she is old enough to decide so it's all good aslong as you don't find an issue with that.

 

[mrclouse]

We are planning on a motel, (i dont want her to know where I live, just in case) on Saturday night after work, (we work nights so it would be about 1am. ) then sunday before work. Then sunday after work. I dont think she is planning on spending the night.
So, I will find out if she is crazy or not.
If you dont hear from me by monday, she eithier murdered me, it was a trap and her friends murdered me and took my money, it was too much for me and I died, or I am still tied up in her basement.

Enjoy your murder, try to make your last words something either wise or funny

 

[Guru G]

Nobody has an opinion on her wanting to be called my little girl and wanting to call me daddy?
That wouldn't bother any of you if it happened to you?

Take a taser you’re safe either way

 

[mrclouse]

i think there is a section of the forum you can put details of the meet there if you are ever gonna be going to a meet you are not sure of just incase
Admin did i dream that

 

[Admin]

in all honest i think there is a secton of the forum you can put details of the meet there if you are ever gonna be going to a meet your not sure of just incase
Admin did i dream that

Hi Mr C,
You are correct;

https://socialswinging.com/forums/safety-on-meets.249/

 

[Ymichael14]

You guys are no help.
I was looking for someone to talk me out of it.

 

[Ymichael14]

As for a daddy kink, playing , like role playing, is fine with me.
But I think she really does want to fuck her father .
Guess I will find out.
Met her Sunday. She was off Monday and Tuesday. She is working tonight but I dont know if I'm training her again yet.
So, one way or the other, I'm going to find out if she is crazy or not.
I just hope I get laid before she kills me.

 

[Ymichael14]

We met in the Motel.
I got laid
She didn't kill me.
But there is something wrong with her.
The sex was like when a woman sleeps with you because she owes you money. She does it, but she is not into it .
The excitement at work was gone.
Maybe she thinks she needs to be punished and entices older men so she is not attracted to them and just let them use her.
Whatever. We will see what happens next.

 

[tricky-dicky]

We met in the Motel.
I got laid
She didn't kill me.
But there is something wrong with her.
The sex was like when a woman sleeps with you because she owes you money. She does it, but she is not into it .
The excitement at work was gone.
Maybe she thinks she needs to be punished and entices older men so she is not attracted to them and just let them use her.
Whatever. We will see what happens next.

Glad you're still with us. Does this young female happen to have a partner do you know? It's not un heard of where one partner encourages the other to seek a particular type of person to have sex with ie. an older man and then tell all to their partner. This might explain why you got the feeling you did when you got down n dirty with her, espescialy if she's doing it to please someone else and is not really into it.

 

[Colin]

Glad it worked out for you