Now that’s been one of the worst weekends ever !
A friend of mine met a (so called) dom (small d) a few weeks ago and she fell totally for his shite, he’d been caught out on some stuff, and even though I kept warning her something wasn’t right , she maintained her subs faith in him and eventually convinced me he was ok and I actually met him a couple of times and yes he seemed very plausible !
Well this week the two of them had a huge split because he wouldn’t / couldn’t commit to a Ds relationship with her, there is a massive back story I won’t bother you with, but to say the girl was devastated is an understatement she’s totally wrecked.
Now yesterday I met him on a one-to-one for a proper chat to try and get her some answers at least for why he couldn’t commit , got a load of BS about how he had an ex sub that he still had a commitment to even though they weren’t together now !
So kind of explored the reasons for why that meant he couldn’t commit to my friend ! And it was down to the 1% chance this ex sub might need him again, which I kind of got ! And relayed this to my friend and whilst it wasn’t what she wanted to hear she sort of accepted it !
Fast forward to this afternoon and he announced that him and a girl he had been “daddy dom / friends” with and only yesterday assured me that nothing was going on they were just friends, are now in a Ds relationship !
Well this has just about finished my friend off and made her physically ill, she now feels that the last few weeks have been a total fabrication and all of the spin and lies that came out of his mouth were just a game !
Appalling behaviour from a guy that if he was a Dom has to realise you cannot run ramshackle through people’s lives and that subs invest a huge amount of emotional trust in Doms and leave themselves vulnerable and fragile and unable to process this type of behaviour !!
Opinions welcomed !
A friend of mine met a (so called) dom (small d) a few weeks ago and she fell totally for his shite, he’d been caught out on some stuff, and even though I kept warning her something wasn’t right , she maintained her subs faith in him and eventually convinced me he was ok and I actually met him a couple of times and yes he seemed very plausible !
Well this week the two of them had a huge split because he wouldn’t / couldn’t commit to a Ds relationship with her, there is a massive back story I won’t bother you with, but to say the girl was devastated is an understatement she’s totally wrecked.
Now yesterday I met him on a one-to-one for a proper chat to try and get her some answers at least for why he couldn’t commit , got a load of BS about how he had an ex sub that he still had a commitment to even though they weren’t together now !
So kind of explored the reasons for why that meant he couldn’t commit to my friend ! And it was down to the 1% chance this ex sub might need him again, which I kind of got ! And relayed this to my friend and whilst it wasn’t what she wanted to hear she sort of accepted it !
Fast forward to this afternoon and he announced that him and a girl he had been “daddy dom / friends” with and only yesterday assured me that nothing was going on they were just friends, are now in a Ds relationship !
Well this has just about finished my friend off and made her physically ill, she now feels that the last few weeks have been a total fabrication and all of the spin and lies that came out of his mouth were just a game !
Appalling behaviour from a guy that if he was a Dom has to realise you cannot run ramshackle through people’s lives and that subs invest a huge amount of emotional trust in Doms and leave themselves vulnerable and fragile and unable to process this type of behaviour !!
Opinions welcomed !