1. The added closeness we, as a couple, have found since being in the lifestyle
2. Being able to fulfil lots of fantasies
3. Meeting likeminded people, from all sorts of backgrounds, that we probably would have never met otherwise, and from that making some truly fantastic new friends.
1 The best friends we've ever had! (Ooo-errr missus!) Nowhere outside the lifestyle have we met so many people who think about the world like we do.
2 Piracy. We've both got a huge recidivistic streak, and delight in doing things that would send "Society" into paroxysms of righteous disapproval.
We also like rum.