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Discussion in 'FAQ's, Help & Suggestions' started by Dave&Krissy, 2 January 2017.

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  1. Does anyone else think its time we had Bi-Comfortable as an option?
    For the sake of the classifying Herself at the start Krissy put herself as Bi-curious. Her sexuality is still for the sake of this and other sites still Bi-curious even though the curiosity has long since gone.
    Even though Krissy is comfortable 'playing' with other women when we meet couples its not her thing really so doesn't consider herself Bi-sexual.
    Therefore she considers herself as More Bi-Comfortable than straight.
     
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  2. Admin

    Admin Administrator Admin

    I've moved the thread to suggestions and help.
    If you and others agree that Bi-comfortable is a worthy option, or something similar thereof, then of course I will add it and build into what we have.
    Thank you
    Admin :)
     
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  3. Miss-Sexy-Legs

    Miss-Sexy-Legs Moderator Staff Sprtr

    If krissy is bi comfortable then thats what you state each to their own both , hope you have a great time on this amazing site both xx
     
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  4. Love this site, told loads about it just hope they join. They all seem to use fab.
    We have done. But when setting your personally details there's only two options. Either your Bi-sexual or Bi-curious no middle ground.
     
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  5. meandlis

    meandlis Admin Admin Sprtr

    You could always specify further in your profile info (y)
     
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  6. Miss-Sexy-Legs

    Miss-Sexy-Legs Moderator Staff Sprtr

    Yes agree with you and this does really needs addressing x
     
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  7. :threesum: :lol:just wanted to gauge opinion really. Bi-curious is great when you first start out.
    Its not this site their all the same. (y)
     
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  8. Would biplayful be a good halfway house term?
    It suggests more than bicurious but not bisexual.
    I understood what was meant by bicomfortable once it was explained but if I'd seen it in isolation I'd probably have thought it meant that you were comfortable around bi people.
    Totally agree that you can't be bicurious forever, once you've tried it a couple of times you're either not keen or you're OK with it. Either way you're not curious anymore.
    Also agree that bisexual may be too strong a term
     
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  9. Agree, bi-playful is a good description for where we are now. Rose has been bi-playful for a long time and I have moved out of the bi-curious stage, but it's probably too much to say we're completely bisexual as we much prefer opposite sex play. Also agree that curiosity doesn't last longer than the first couple of 'tries' - you'll know by then if it's for you.
     
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  10. Admin

    Admin Administrator Admin

    Yes if this were to be implemented then this is something I'd sway more towards as it does encapsulate the essence of bi-play without being bisexual fully. (y)
     
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  11. If you ask the question
    If you split from your partner, would you consider a relationship with either a man are a woman? If the is no. Your not bisexual.
    Just because your willing to sleep with either men or women doesn't make you bi-sexual.
     
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  12. Admin

    Admin Administrator Admin

    Can you explain a bit more so I can understand what you mean?
    I mean, if you are happy sleeping with all sexes, then you are classed as bi-sexual or at least = fluid, pansexual...
    Bisexuality - Wikipedia
    Do you mean in relation to adding the option 'bi-playful' .. Just unsure. I do agree with the OP and will consider adding bi-playful most definitely.

    So this would in effect or should be classed (if classed as anything) bi-playful. Which I think is a great idea/addition.
     
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  13. Admin

    Admin Administrator Admin

    Okay I agree with @Dave&Krissy , @Bump-n-Grind and @peakcouple
    So I have added an extra field option = 'Bi-Playful'
    All members will need to amend their accounts if they wish to choose this option and please all, allow some time for this to show in search results as it will take some time to populate and flush through. (y)
    Thank you for the suggestion @Dave&Krissy - added. :)
    Click this image for more;

    bp.png

    You can edit your preferences here;
    https://socialswinging.com/account/personal-details
    Thanks all!
    Admin :) x
     
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  14. how to word this. While getting ready for work.
    . May have to wait till I'm on my break, 3am
     
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  15. Must I say what a good thread I myself am bi curious and comfortable at the fact I can enjoy the pleasures of female n male but my preferred option is male but I think it's down to each individual but I would be happy using the bi comfortable than curious gets my seal of approval x
     
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  16. Admin

    Admin Administrator Admin

    You are welcome. Thank you for the suggestion. Implemented.
    I will send an alert site-wide now so people can adjust their preferences accordingly and I agree with you.
    If you're not fully bi-sexual, but past the curious stage, then what are you? Fluid, Pansexual? Or like a touch and a feel..? Then on here at least, it's bi-playful.
    Excellent suggestion. (y)
     
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  17. Can I have a special, "I'd have you all,"
    Section?

    Only kidding. :)
    I think it's a great idea.
     
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  18. Admin

    Admin Administrator Admin

    :D I will see what I can do.. :whistle:
    But I agree with @Dave&Krissy and it needed to be implemented. Job done. :)
     
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  19. Admin

    Admin Administrator Admin

    Oh it's already showing in search results. Fantastic!
     
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  20. Nice one Admin! I have switched to it already!! :)
     
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  21. What a super option.x
     
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    Pearls Site Owner Staff Admin

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