My partner & I have been talking a lot about playing with others over the past few years & took the opportunity a few months ago to try out a club, during a short winter sun break in the Canaries. We haven't stopped talking about it since!
Was a little scary to start with & we had some clear rules:
Well - we had two nights in "Secrets" (Cita club, Gran Canaria) and we both found it an AMAZING experience!
Spent the evening in the couples section both nights & had a few experiences of being watched (we both loved this - to our surprise!). Also ended up with 2 or 3 couples both nights, where she ensured I touched & sucked several sets of boobs, she played with some boobs & had hers played with by both women & a man (and LOVED it) and we generally had some great fun sex. We didnt strike up any conversations & it was purely us playing alongside & with other sexy couples.
So - we now know a lot more about what we like & what we want to do - which is rock up to a sexy place with sexy music, sexy couples and low lights, strip off & jump on a big bed with other couples and play with each other, while joining in with a few others. Not interested in chatting or building relationships really (worked well for us to not talk to anyone other than some sucking & stroking!) so think club would be better than arranging meets with couples - but would like to go further than we did before. She still wants another woman to play with us & have sex on the same bed, with lots of mutual touching. Would prefer to get more involved with each other but still soft swing.
I have a fantasy is to get together with a couple and have a series of threesomes where one sits out to watch & we keep taking it in terns to be the centre of attention. She's keen on this as well as the kind of club play we enjoyed so much in Secrets.
So - since were new to all of this, does anyone have any recommendations for places we can visit in the UK? (we would look to travel)
Was a little scary to start with & we had some clear rules:
- soft swing only
- playing together
- No swapping fluids!
- My partner particularly wanted another woman to join us in playing with me & for me to play with both of their boobs. She was up for a little fun but wasnt sure how she would react to another guy playing. She was happy for us to have sex together next to others but didnt think she wanted anyone near her bits!
- I just wanted to experience a general play & have a great time. Keen on my partners desires and thought I'd like to see her playing with boobs, and maybe a little cock play if she was feeling brave.
Well - we had two nights in "Secrets" (Cita club, Gran Canaria) and we both found it an AMAZING experience!
Spent the evening in the couples section both nights & had a few experiences of being watched (we both loved this - to our surprise!). Also ended up with 2 or 3 couples both nights, where she ensured I touched & sucked several sets of boobs, she played with some boobs & had hers played with by both women & a man (and LOVED it) and we generally had some great fun sex. We didnt strike up any conversations & it was purely us playing alongside & with other sexy couples.
So - we now know a lot more about what we like & what we want to do - which is rock up to a sexy place with sexy music, sexy couples and low lights, strip off & jump on a big bed with other couples and play with each other, while joining in with a few others. Not interested in chatting or building relationships really (worked well for us to not talk to anyone other than some sucking & stroking!) so think club would be better than arranging meets with couples - but would like to go further than we did before. She still wants another woman to play with us & have sex on the same bed, with lots of mutual touching. Would prefer to get more involved with each other but still soft swing.
I have a fantasy is to get together with a couple and have a series of threesomes where one sits out to watch & we keep taking it in terns to be the centre of attention. She's keen on this as well as the kind of club play we enjoyed so much in Secrets.
So - since were new to all of this, does anyone have any recommendations for places we can visit in the UK? (we would look to travel)
