Always seems a little taboo for a bloke to have a sex toy! Well perhaps I'm breaking the mold a little, or perhaps bold enough to admit it. haha. The Fleshlight was a rather pricey but oh so pleasing purchase. For someone who travels a reasonable amount, a little something to relieve the tension is always good after a days work. Amazed by the feeling and also of the ladies I've shown it to they were surprised by the semi-realistic feel of the material! Whilst its designed to look light a torch, its the biggest bloody torch you've seen, so not entirely discreet....but quite fun. So anyone else had experience, or want to admit or maybe just curious?