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Discussion in 'BDSM & Fetish Forums' started by Admin, 12 January 2016.

  1. Admin

    Admin Administrator Admin

    Hello Sexy Peeps,

    Well it's about time we added this and there's enough kinksters out there for us to do so.
    Long awaited and I will admit I was nagged to do this, but dragged my heels due to workload - but this forum is all about BDSM, fetish and the lifestyle.

    Feel free to add content and discuss anything about the lifestyle.
    I have always maintained and tried to encourage the fact that the two lifestyles can crossover and meet.
    Granted the far ends of the spectrums don't meet and never will, but the lower ends of the spectrum do meet and we genuinely believe it should be promoted more.

    So for all you swinging kinksters out there - or as I phrase it; Swinkies & Swinksters - this is for you.
    Usual forum rules apply please.


    Admin :) x
     
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  2. Pearls

    Pearls Site Owner Staff Admin

  3. Thanks @Admin and @Pearls, As we (@Mz-Zebo and myself) came into swinging through BDSM we thought it might be nice to help swingers who are curious about BDSM. As @Admin mention quite a few members are already dipping their toes in the water, some have been in the scene for quite a while, and i would encourage those members to help out in this part of the forum whenever possible.
    As there are listings recommending swinging events, we would also like members to recommend BDSM and fetish events too, quite a lot of the swinging clubs you frequent, also run kink nights, some like Townhouse also run specialist crossover events introducing swingers to BDSM and vice versa.
    Just as this site promotes and encourages the social side to swinging, we would like existing kinksters to show the social side to BDSM too, we all know how daunting it was to go to your first swinging event, and its much the same going to your first Kink event, so we would would welcome anything to make the impact :whistle: of attending your first kink event, a little less traumatic.

    The Buddy System

    Existing kinksters who go to BDSM or fetish events, maybe you could take a curious swinger to an event local to you and show them the ropes :whistle:, its a lot easier going to an event if you go with friends or acquaintances who you know from here. Swingers . . if you want to go to a BDSM event, we would encourage you to post a thread here asking about events and kinky swingers in your area.

    Clubs & Events

    If there is an event you go to regularly and love, then post a thread about it, or maybe ask the organisers is they wish to advertise it on here.

    Singles

    BDSM is much the same as swinging, single male's are not welcomed with the same exuberance as single females, so you kinky couples, why not 'adopt' a single male to take to a BDSM night, you don't have to play with him, but you can socialise with him and introduce him to your friends, we all know Domme's who want more victims :)
     
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  4. Admin

    Admin Administrator Admin

    Excellent information Zebo :)
     
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  5. I can recommend a few clubs with good BDSM/Fetish events in the Northwest.
    Townhouse - they have some superb equipment and dungeon and regularly hold events.
    Partners/The Kage - Dave the Butcher holds a great event on the last Sunday of every month.
    Gatehouse - Not been for a while, but it's a good place for beginners.
    The Unit - Great for all kinksters, from beginners to advanced.

    and in the West Midlands, Xtasia - especially the Cirque events and thenn The Attic in Derby, has some great people attending with various peer groups, such as rope, violet wand etc etc.
     
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  6. The buddy system sounds like a really good idea for peeps now to parties. Would have been less 'scary' when we first went along to one.
    We go to Pleasures in kent occasionally, it's very welcoming and relaxed. X
     
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  7. Yes it sure does we are thinking of going to a club just for a peek... under the wings of a couple of buddies!@ x
     
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  8. Vex

    Vex PV Sprtr

    I am NOT into BDSM. I am a completely normal, meat and potatoes type guy. :whiplash::whip2::lashes::lashes::bondage_buddy::doggystyle::Ohyessir::whipping:

    I'm fucking serious! No BDSM! ehhehehehe
     
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  9. Admin

    Admin Administrator Admin

    Ahahaha yeah right! :D :D
     
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  10. Pearls

    Pearls Site Owner Staff Admin

    :whistle::whistle:
     
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  11. Vex

    Vex PV Sprtr

    Okay maybe a little. But I'm not a freak like @Pearls ! hehehe
     
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  12. Pearls

    Pearls Site Owner Staff Admin

    Oh I say :eek:xx
     
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  13. Vex

    Vex PV Sprtr

    hehehehehe
     
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  14. Oh Vex . . . . you fibber !! although i recon you are right about @Pearls :)
     
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  15. Pearls

    Pearls Site Owner Staff Admin

    Shush you :rolleyes:xx
     
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  16. just telling it as i see it :)
     
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  17. Pearls

    Pearls Site Owner Staff Admin

    Well Im a good girl :whistle:xx
     
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  18. well thats another cup of coffee i am wearing instead of drinking :(
     
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  19. Fetishswingers

    Fetishswingers VIP Member PV Sprtr

    Wish you well Zebo xx
     
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  20. Fetishswingers

    Fetishswingers VIP Member PV Sprtr

    Zebo very well presented Hun xx

    We offer and invite interested parties to our home in North West Essex too, if of help interest to this thread if some are a little too nervous to brave a public scene club event first, which we have had explained many times. Yes we do ask question, We can make a cup of tea too for you lol, show you the furniture equipment, Double sided St Andrews Cross, Stocks, kneeling bench, horses, benches, Iron chair etc. Cuffs, chains, crops, floggers, paddles, blindfolds, oh and event the favs the Wands three various to choose from lol, all of which we take along when we hold the monthly hosted fetish swing event at Mingles Colchester each 1st Thursday of the month.
    We do not do the extreme pain etc we are more the pleasure tease denial erotic sensation etc, Our play at home or introductions at the club event is not about making a person go to there knees and submit. We enjoy introducing people to experience and explore the wonders of kinky fuckery lol. There is never no pressure to play just an open opportunity in a home environment instead of maybe many eyes you think would be watching. Everyone that has visited has said how wonderful the private induction was lol.

    Hope this is suitable for this thread and of help.
    Any questions feel free to Private message Us anytime.
    Lots of Love
    Raewyn & Alan xx
     
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  21. Therapon

    Therapon Admin Admin Sprtr

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  22. Admin

    Admin Administrator Admin

    You are such lovely people Alan & Raewyn.. @Fetishswingers - you really are. x
     
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  23. Fetishswingers

    Fetishswingers VIP Member PV Sprtr

    ?? ??
     
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  24. Admin

    Admin Administrator Admin

    o_O
    lol because of this?

    :D
     
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  25. @Fetishswingers thanks for contributing to the thread, and letting us all know what you are all about, i hope you will continue to add comments and information, so we can entice some of the curious but nervous to our little 'pastime' :)
     
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