I just realised I haven't posted a thread before...well here's one question / topic for discussion that I couldn't see mentioned here already. I'm curious to know about if / when people 'go public' to the non-swinging world about being swinger(s). Especially people who are relatively new to swinging (e.g. in their first year). Are you happy for everyone to know? Are you more like a secret agent living a double life (swinging and non-swinging)? (This is where I am right now) Or, are you somewhere in between (e.g. some people outside of swinging know but it's not full public knowledge). For me, I've become comfortable with many aspects of swinging since I've started, but relating this to people outside of the community is not something I want to do yet. I'm interested to get the opinions of everyone, both couples and singles. Is this different for couples than for singles? Has anyone got any interesting or funny stories about this?!