Hermaphrodites/intersex

  • Please check your spam/junk folder after registration, for your email. Thank you
Welcome to our Swinging Community
Join now to meet other like-minded swingers.
Sign up

Admin

Admin
15 September 2014
39,136
95,612
I've seen a post recently and it made me think for a minute..
So I was wondering, have any of you experienced fun with or spoken to anyone who is a Hermaphrodite or as it's modernly known now, a person of Intersex.

If so what was your experience and did you both/all enjoy?
If not is it something you'd like to pursue?.
;) x
 
D

Deleted member 3870

Intersex? That sounds lame as shit. Hermaphrodite actually sounds like a cool word. Could call yourself Herma or Herman :p
 
  • Like
Reactions: Pearls and Admin
D

Deleted member 3870

On a serious note, I really hate how Hermaphrodites have become a lot of peoples fetish. The same way that lesbians or bisexual people have. I appreciate the fact that society is more accepting at times and finds sexualities and that a turn on, but it's also just not right in my opinion. The amount of times I've had people tell me it's hot that I'm bisexual is ridiculous. It's not like you choose to be a certain way to fit someone's turn ons or fetish. I just wish that the way people are didn't have to be a turn on or a fetish. If I met someone who was a Hermaphrodite, I wouldn't say it's hot that they are because it just seems a bit rude and offensive..
 
D

Deleted member 3870

Also I wouldn't pursue someone who is a Hermaphrodite. I think people are just people, we're all different in lots of ways so to me it's just another person who is different to me, as every person I meet is different to me, yet sometimes they're also similar.
 
Pearls

MOTM

18 July 2015
55,094
120,662
Everyone is different, we like people for who they are, I like joe bloggs because they have dark hair and a cute bum, that is who we are, it is human nature to fancy others no matter what or who, I see this as no difference, we are who we are.
On the outside I think many people look gorgeous, its only when you get to know them that we see the true person, would I fancy that person knowing they had double genitals, of course I would, It makes no difference, Im not categorising just being me xxx
 
D

Deleted member 3870

Everyone is different, we like people for who they are, I like joe bloggs because they have dark hair and a cute bum, that is who we are, it is human nature to fancy others no matter what or who, I see this as no difference, we are who we are.
On the outside I think many people look gorgeous, its only when you get to know them that we see the true person, would I fancy that person knowing they had double genitals, of course I would, It makes no difference, Im not categorising just being me xxx
I know hun, just voicing my opinion that's all. Wasn't targeting anyone :)
 

Admin

Admin
15 September 2014
39,136
95,612
On a serious note, I really hate how Hermaphrodites have become a lot of peoples fetish. The same way that lesbians or bisexual people have [....] The amount of times I've had people tell me it's hot that I'm bisexual is ridiculous. It's not like you choose to be a certain way to fit someone's turn ons or fetish.
This I completely agree with. It seems to be a huge porn thing now too..
Such is life sadly. But I definitely agree - the whole porn thing and fetish thing now with certain things and situations like this, is ridiculous! (y) x
Also I wouldn't pursue someone who is a Hermaphrodite. I think people are just people, we're all different in lots of ways so to me it's just another person who is different to me, as every person I meet is different to me, yet sometimes they're also similar.
Agree but somewhat also disagree as we also all have tastes etc.. :) x
Have never had an experience with someone who has both sexes but i think id give it a go. You dont knw unless you try right? Xxx
Yeah I think so.. I mean everything has to be tried once doesn't it?
I somewhat feel too much expose has happened too.. Which is what @TheBrunetteandtheSexToy has mentioned too, I think there's also been too much exposure and deliberate promoting. (for want of a better word?) x

But saw something and it got me thinking about anyone who has possibly experienced being involved with a person who has both sexes, and if not would you...
x
 
D

Deleted member 1402

I have met somebody who was intersex. Had full vagina, but also a small (like one inch) cock, but only had the internal organs of a woman. She had boobs too, but had a masculine physique and was quite hairy. She liked to be referred to as a woman, but chose to dress as a man.
 

Admin

Admin
15 September 2014
39,136
95,612
I have met somebody who was intersex. Had full vagina, but also a small (like one inch) cock, but only had the internal organs of a woman. She had boobs too, but had a masculine physique and was quite hairy. She liked to be referred to as a woman, but chose to dress as a man.
Oh... very interesting. So she identified as female yet portrayed herself as a man.. :)
 
D

Deleted member 3411

Actually something I've been wondering may be linked to this although if it is not just shout and I'll start a fresh thread for my question. How does everybody feel if they turned up at a club and one of the sexy ladies turned out to be a ladyboy? I've never heard of any being at a club and I'm not even sure how a club with class them single woman, single man? Personally I have no interest in men and I'm slightly curious as to what my reaction would be in that situation. (Ste talking).
 

Admin

Admin
15 September 2014
39,136
95,612
Actually something I've been wondering may be linked to this although if it is not just shout and I'll start a fresh thread for my question. How does everybody feel if they turned up at a club and one of the sexy ladies turned out to be a ladyboy? I've never heard of any being at a club and I'm not even sure how a club with class them single woman, single man? Personally I have no interest in men and I'm slightly curious as to what my reaction would be in that situation.
In which context? As you have TV's, but then also TS ladies.. :)
 
D

Deleted member 1402

Actually something I've been wondering may be linked to this although if it is not just shout and I'll start a fresh thread for my question. How does everybody feel if they turned up at a club and one of the sexy ladies turned out to be a ladyboy? I've never heard of any being at a club and I'm not even sure how a club with class them single woman, single man? Personally I have no interest in men and I'm slightly curious as to what my reaction would be in that situation. (Ste talking).
I go to a particular club meet pre-op and post op TS's. So they range from starting hormone treatment, but only just growing breasts and have a cock, to having fake breasts, had laser treatment, hormones and cock, to post op, full transition (and had an aweseome pussy). I also meet TVs (my sub is one). They all prefer to be called a woman, they live as a woman full time, although some don't change their birth certificate. Lady boy can be offensive to them, it's more of an East Asian term for those in places like Thailand.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Pearls and Admin
D

Deleted member 3411

I go to a particular club meet pre-op and post op TS's. So they range from starting hormone treatment, but only just growing breasts and have a cock, to having fake breasts, had laser treatment, hormones and cock, to post op, full transition (and had an aweseome pussy). I also meet TVs (my sub is one). They all prefer to be called a woman, they live as a woman full time, although some don't change their birth certificate. Lady boy can be offensive to them, it's more of an East Asian term for those in places like Thailand.
In which case I stand corrected and I'll never use the term again, I meant no offence by using the term. So how should I refer to someone who is in transition and has breasts and a penis? Because transitional doesn't always work because I have heard of some who want to stay at that stage.
 
D

Deleted member 1402

In which case I stand corrected and I'll never use the term again, I meant no offence by using the term. So how should I refer to someone who is in transition and has breasts and a penis? Because transitional doesn't always work because I have heard of some who want to stay at that stage.
yes I've met a few who stay at that stage. Most refer to as a woman, but always ask, I do. Better to know than to offend them
 
  • Like
Reactions: Pearls and Admin
P

PandMp

This is a great topic and something that I don't think many people would have really thought about. However myself and M don't think of anyone in a pigeonholed way so just because I'm bi-curious and M is straight doesn't mean that we would definitely only meet bi women. Also if we were to meet a couple with bi male but straight female that to doesn't mean we wouldn't play as you can set boundaries between you. As for people with dual sexual organs we both agree that it would depend on the person and also the situation at the time xxx
 
25 July 2016
2,499
6,641
I dont intend to insult anybody but in my opinion I think most people would go with a intersexual person just out of curiosity or even bragging rights I personally wouldn't go with one for my own private reasons but as VoluptuousVixen says they had a full vagina and a small cock. is this always the case and just out of curiosity would the cock work if full penetration was happening? I think that would feel very strange having a cock rubbing against you
 
  • Like
Reactions: Admin
P

PandMp

I
Tbh a lot of people could have been with an intersex person without even knowing, for men who have ovaries they never know usually until they are trying to children same with someone women.. So would never be a fetish and I think with the problems it causes them its really not fair to try and turn it into that

Absolutely well said. No one should be made to feel like that at all x
 
  • Like
Reactions: Admin

Admin

Admin
15 September 2014
39,136
95,612
Tbh a lot of people could have been with an intersex person without even knowing, for men who have ovaries they never know usually until they are trying to children same with someone women.. So would never be a fetish and I think with the problems it causes them its really not fair to try and turn it into that

I


Absolutely well said. No one should be made to feel like that at all x
Completely agreed... (y) x
 
27 May 2016
347
3,494
City
Grimsby
I very much doubt you would even know if you had met a true hermaphrodite. A colleague of mine has a grandchild born with this most distressing of conditions. Can you imagine carrying a child to term and not being able attribute a sex? The parents, (who were told they were expecting a girl) with expert help & guidance from the medical field, had to choose whether they wanted to bring the child up as a girl or a boy. I don't know the finer, more intimate details, but they chose to bring the child up as a male.
Much heartache, surgery, more surgery, later they have a beautiful little boy....
My point being, in this day & age a hermaphrodite is highly unlikely to be left with both male & female genitalia.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Admin