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Discussion in 'BDSM & Fetish Forums' started by Charlia, 11 September 2016.

  1. Charlia

    Charlia PV

    Impact play, easily one of my favouritest types of scenes. I love floggers, especially heavy thuddy ones! Though occasionally I practically beg for stingy!

    What about you guys? Favourite impact you, and why? Do you prefer thuddy or stingy?
     
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  2. Lovernotfighter

    Lovernotfighter PV Sprtr

    Stingy for me, for the tingly ummmmm feeling immediately afterwards.
     
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  3. I'm like you and like to go between one and the other, whether it's giving or receiving
     
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  4. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls PV Sprtr

    Thuddy... Love a good old smack/thwack. Oddly, prefer to use lighter toys. (until the carnal side kicks in then out with the heavies) :sneaky: :spank:
     
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  5. Like to think of myself as a thudder with a twist of sting
     
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  6. Colin

    Colin PV Sprtr

    None im a big softy lol :)
     
  7. Prefer to use canes or switches to floggers, it gives me more control of sensations delivered. I prefer thicker to thin ones as less whip and more thud. Recently bought a steel one that overcomes the accuracy issue and wallops like a demon. Nice for those finishing strokes :)
     
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  8. I prefer to give rather than receive. I have received plenty of times but doesn't do a lot for me. I prefer thuddy floggers but I'm quite happy to be fairly stingy as well when the need arises ;)
     
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  9. I've spent a lot of time thinking about pain. I like receiving it. Stinging is good because it lasts. One of the attractions for me is the elimination of other thoughts. My brain is like a hurricane of ideas that swirl around. Pain helps me remove them with distraction.

    I also love heat and burns. In my darker down days I used to cut when I needed to clear my head of emotions. The bruising and soreness is very reassuring aftrewards. Lots of sensory feedback.

    I have a massive bruise on my leg at the moment that I catch myself massaging to give a sensation when I'm daydreaming. I guess stinging but I'm not adverse to thudding.
     
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  10. Stingy and sharp any day xx
     
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  11. Love the profile pic. Xxx
     
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  12. Thank you babe xxx
     
  13. Pearls

    Pearls Site Owner Staff Admin

    You ok :eek::whistle:
     
  14. I often wonder. Hehe.
    I like the extremes I guess. I explained it because a lot of people associate pain with a desire to be punished. With me it's more that the extreme helps me focus on the moment.

    I love really hot dry saunas too. It's like a meditation for me. It removes all my life worries and brings a joyful bliss. And epilating. Wow! I've just shaved my head so about to have a go at my legs with that.

    It gives me a chance to enjoy the arousal of the moment. X
     
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  15. I can totally relate to this (y)
     
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  16. Now I just need to find someone who doesn't mind hurting me and undeestands that yelling out doesn't mean I want them to stop. That's what safe words are for. X
     
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  17. *gets the kink kit out* :cuffs:
     
  18. Oh wow! Really?
    *car engine is running.*
     
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  19. I have a good selection ;)
     
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  20. Just realised where you are in the world. Hmm. Why are there soo many awesome people in the north? Where are all the kinks down south?
     
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  21. Always the same :cry:
     
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  22. I feel a December foray up north coming on. I'll record it in my memoirs as "the road was kinky." :D
     
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  23. Sounds epic! :whipping:
     
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