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Discussion in 'All About Swinging' started by Lips_Pearls, 26 May 2019.

  1. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls Admin PV Sprtr

    Be honest, have you ever bigged yourself up to make sure, somehow, you get that meet* no matter what?

    I.E are you professing to be a Concord pilot but stack shelves at your local Sainsbury's for example?
    Not that there's anything at all with either..... but am sure you know what we mean? ;)


    *liaison :D ;) x
     
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  2. debE

    debE PV Sprtr

    No....xx
     
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  3. Stew

    Stew PV Sprtr

    Nope never, I am what I am
    And what I am needs no excuses
    I deal my own deck sometimes the aces sometimes the deuces
    It's one life and there's no return and no deposit
    One life so it's time to open up your closet
    Life's not worth a damn till you can shout out
    I am what I am

    Xx
     
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  4. Welshcouple59

    Welshcouple59 PV Sprtr

    No, we are who we are. What’s the point in bigging yourself up, you will be found out eventually. People should take you for who you are. If they can’t that’s their problem xx M
     
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  5. fincon

    fincon PV Sprtr

    Heh.

    haha.

    Bwah-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha.…

    Erm, no. Really not my style.
     
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  6. Tiger

    Tiger PV Sprtr

    No, I’m Tiggs, The cat with the hat, I am what I am!
    :tiphat:
    Tiger xx
     
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  7. Horny_Essex_Pair

    Horny_Essex_Pair PV Sprtr

    Nope don't want to mislead anyone just to get a liaison, I am who I am, crude, rude but bloody good :rofl: (P)
     
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  8. Brumcouple2013

    Brumcouple2013 PV Sprtr

    No. Not ever in the past not ever in the future.
    We are what we are. We take people as we find them and offer the same. Would rather not have a meet.
     
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  9. fincon

    fincon PV Sprtr

    I try to draw the line for myself, so I’m sometimes crude, and often rude… but never crass.
     
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  10. Horny_Essex_Pair

    Horny_Essex_Pair PV Sprtr

    Lol it's an old saying I've used for years, I'm always respectful and try not to be crass just me!
     
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  11. fincon

    fincon PV Sprtr

    We all have our favourite ways of behaving. Heh.
     
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  12. MP386

    MP386 PV Sprtr

    As I’m the spitting image of Brad Pitt I don’t need to big myself up :D...:tiphat:
     
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  13. Stew

    Stew PV Sprtr

    No mate she said Pitt bull !!
     
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  14. Welshcouple59

    Welshcouple59 PV Sprtr

    Knew I had seen you somewhere before xx
     
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  15. MP386

    MP386 PV Sprtr

    Now you mention it ... Pitbull the rapper :rofl::p
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  16. Stew

    Stew PV Sprtr

    F3C4DC56-9BA3-4E9C-95DE-DCB624FF9E13.png :whistle::tiphat:
     
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  17. Welshcouple59

    Welshcouple59 PV Sprtr

    Brad Pitt mmmmm, Pitbull the Rapper mmmm. I don’t mind which lol xx
     
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  18. MP386

    MP386 PV Sprtr

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  19. Welshcouple59

    Welshcouple59 PV Sprtr

    Thought everyone was ignoring me until I realised all the old choices are back lol xx
     
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  20. Therapon

    Therapon Admin Sprtr

    No it's not something I'd do, I'm possibly just the opposite.
     
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  21. WolfieGray

    WolfieGray PV Sprtr

    I do my best to convince people I am human, so I avoid meeting anyone on the full moon as this will give away I am a big bad wolf. Also don't want to eat them, so if I make sure I am fed they might be safe:whistle:

    But back to the human bit, I share things with those I talk to, this will include what I do, what am up to, what I like to do, work stuff, study stuff, hobbies, and also being real about the hard times/bad days.
    Some deeper stuff is saved for when there is more trust and understanding built, and that is something that doesn't need to be rushed.

    Not everyone needs to know it all, the ins and outs of personal life, so I can see why people save it for those they are close to & comfortable with. Also, not everyone wants to know all these things, and some people don't want to share all this stuff for whatever reasons. But I respect honesty, kindness, and openness, over bigging oneself up. Material things/objects, Job titles, status, it doesn't really matter, they are only impressive for so long. Nothing wrong with a shelf stacker in a supermarket, who drives an old banger:sneaky:, if you have a good heart & connection/chemistry that will be enough for the right people:love:.

    However, sometimes people are swept off their feet by these material things, and it then means that people feel they need to impress folk in order for them to have a chance. Fair enough, as often this can work, but adapting oneself to suit others so much probably takes energy and if you're not being the real you then it must take its toll on the soul, & at some point there'll be consequences
    x
     
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  22. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls Admin PV Sprtr

    Have to say, that’s extremely well and very eloquently put! X


    That said.... We will bring out our Ferrari next time! :D
     
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  23. mrclouse

    mrclouse PV Sprtr

    I don't think I do?
     
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  24. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls Admin PV Sprtr

    Never. I’ve never ever seen you do anything of the sort. :) (y)
     
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  25. WolfieGray

    WolfieGray PV Sprtr

    Nooo that is too fast! am happy with a 1990s Peugeot 106:lol:

    and thanks, I can talk :whistle:, time for me to shush now
    x
     
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