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    Discussion in 'Swinging Chats - Public' started by Yorkshirecpl, 16 April 2018.

    1. Yorkshirecpl

      Yorkshirecpl PV P Registered

      Sure some of the gorgeous folks on here have had them but what offers have you had?

      So far we have had a few offering to buy knickers, one wanting to straight up pay to meet us both and just the other day a trip to Spain. We will never accept these for our own reasons but we know couples who would/do

      None of these offers have been on here
       
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      • Kwaka_Rider

        Kwaka_Rider PV P Registered

        I would have been happy if one of my meets had even offered to buy a drink but alas
         
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        • DiamondJoe

          DiamondJoe PV P Registered

          I've been offered all kinds of inducements - money, food, booze, substances - but the one that always made me chuckle was someone who gave me 12 pair of (nice) pants and a haircut :D
           
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          • Carpediem2008

            Carpediem2008 PV P Registered

            Not had anything to crazy... Had ask if I would lend bex out for a fee before but he was told to do one.. In no uncertain terms . .. We have heard of this however... It seems to be very common....bex has class so would never be an issue.. Me on the other hand....£20 quid is £20 hehe
             
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            • Yorkshirecpl

              Yorkshirecpl PV P Registered

              Lol as much as twenty quid ???
               
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              • Carpediem2008

                Carpediem2008 PV P Registered

                Yeah I'm a class piece of ass me...plus mechanics tools ain't cheap. Lol
                 
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                • Pearls

                  Pearls Site Owner Admin

                  Didn't I buy you a drink :whistle::D
                   
                • Jophanie

                  Jophanie PV P Sprtr Registered

                  Ha ha ha it's a standing joke that id be asked for cash back for MrJ.... Love him!!!! (Lucky he is mine for keeps!)
                   
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                  • Jophanie

                    Jophanie PV P Sprtr Registered

                    .....costs me a small fortune!!
                     
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                    • Kwaka_Rider

                      Kwaka_Rider PV P Registered

                      Nope
                       
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                      • No longer with us..

                        No longer with us.. PV P Registered

                        Constantly asked if they can be my sugar daddy, pay for knickers, pay to shag me, pay to get me to them with hotel meal and drinks.

                        Im very independent so for my meets I will always pay for my own travel, offer petrol money or buy drinks in return.
                        I had an overnight meet and did let him buy us a takeaway but I did spend more on travel to get there so I think that was pretty fair.

                        I cant understand people who dont offer to buy a drink on a social though. If its one brew and then you go thats ok but in a bar for a few hours then you damn well get your hand in your purse.
                         
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                        • Looby&Lew

                          Looby&Lew PV P Sprtr Registered

                          Ahem.....
                           
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                          • Looby&Lew

                            Looby&Lew PV P Sprtr Registered

                            Ahem
                             
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                            • Kwaka_Rider

                              Kwaka_Rider PV P Registered

                              Notice I said "one of" and not "all" :whistle:;):p
                               
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                              • Lips_Pearls

                                Lips_Pearls PV P Sprtr Registered

                                We always buy plenty of drinks at any one of our events. Always offer too, but not always accepted. ;)
                                 
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                                • Lips_Pearls

                                  Lips_Pearls PV P Sprtr Registered

                                  Nothing of the sort really to be fair. (y)
                                  Mind you, when we were last on any other sites (4+ years ago) it was far from like what it is now.
                                   
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                                  • Yorkshirecpl

                                    Yorkshirecpl PV P Registered

                                    Yeah bring honest we're pretty sure these offers will turn to dust if someone actually accepts
                                     
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                                    • Pearls

                                      Pearls Site Owner Admin

                                      Swingers who now go on adult work are not swingers
                                      Swingers who insist on charging for pics
                                      Swingers who have amazon wish lists
                                      This is simply a few and in my eyes its no different to prostitution, not that I'm against it but don't hide behind anything else to make yourselves look good.
                                       
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                                      • Yorkshirecpl

                                        Yorkshirecpl PV P Registered

                                        Yeah it's not for us either these people are just not wanting to admit to themselves they're being prostitutes
                                         
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                                        • Pearls

                                          Pearls Site Owner Admin

                                          There was a couple we knew a few years ago from another site, beautiful couple. They were extremely popular swingers and enjoyed the scene very much, then they opened a twitter account and started with the Amazon wish lists, so if you buy me something then I will send you a personal photo that no one else will have. Her wish list started from a simple pair of stockings then gradually rose to thousands of pounds worth of gifts.
                                          Now still actively swinging as a couple they realised that if they can share a man then why not charge him, with her husbands consent she is now a full time prostitute but still is actively advertising on this other site as a swinger but I can assure you she will not do anything for nothing.
                                          If this is the career path she has chosen then great and good luck but advertising as a swinger and then sending a price list out to potential meets in my eyes is wrong.
                                          This couple went from respected, discreet swingers with a family and now all you see is photos of her at Buquakke parties covered from head to toe..
                                          Amazes me how greedy people can become in this life style and convince themselves that charging for meets is innocent swinging.
                                          Sorry but in my eyes these people ruin the scene for genuine people who want the respect of being a swinger.
                                           
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                                          • Carpediem2008

                                            Carpediem2008 PV P Registered

                                            I think this is a bigger issue than anyone cares to admit. For us it will never be something we will even entertain.we have had lots of requests and in all honesty we did consider paying for our first experience ..but choose not to because we wanted to be with people who actually found us attractive and wanted to be with us... As it would feel alot more natural ... I think that it gives swingers and alike a bad name. X
                                             
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                                            • Pearls

                                              Pearls Site Owner Admin

                                              It certainly does and we see more and more of this happening but what will the future hold?
                                               
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                                              • Lips_Pearls

                                                Lips_Pearls PV P Sprtr Registered

                                                This was actually really very sad to see and witness happen. Granted she’s making a huge amount but it’s sad to see that it stemmed from and continues to be the chosen course from - Swinging as a whole.
                                                Good luck to them, but was a shame to watch it all happen.
                                                 
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                                                • Therapon

                                                  Therapon Senior Staff Member Staff Sprtr Registered

                                                  I have no issues with anyone making money from sex without causing any harm but the link to swinging is just another way that gives swinging a bad name. This I think is no different from, for example, the single guy posing as a couple or those playing the honeytrap game.
                                                   
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                                                  • Baldricknkaz

                                                    Baldricknkaz PV Sprtr Registered

                                                    I'm quite surprised I get sex for free as it is without thinking of charging for it :rofl:. No-one's offered me as much as a Tic-Tac let alone a holiday to Spain :unsure::rofl:

                                                    B x
                                                     
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