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Discussion in 'All About Swinging' started by Lace, 17 November 2016.

  1. Lace

    Lace PV Sprtr

    Ok all I have a small dilemma here, I have had regular playmate in the past who I class as a friend and we keep in touch, we haven't seen each other for about two years now, she married and had children and so on and I got together with my partner so real life has got in the way as it does.
    We have arranged to meet up this weekend with our partners consent and she is coming to mine for the evening.

    Here is the dilemma, I haven't seen this lady in a few years and even though we have the green light IF anything was to happen then we can but will that spark be there after so much time has passed.
    I would hate to be in a situation where we could lose a good friendship by letting sex get in the way.

    I have thought about calling it as I don't want to ruin what we have but when we were together years ago we had an amazing time. It has been some time since I have had a play meet so unsure if it is the right move or should I just go with the flow and see what happens. X
     
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  2. Miss-Sexy-Legs

    Miss-Sexy-Legs Admin PV Sprtr

    Enjoy the evening getting to know her as your friend then see where it leads, if nothing happens at least you have met again
     
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  3. Lovernotfighter

    Lovernotfighter PV Sprtr

    I would say relax and just you know enjoy the evening together. Things always end up disasters when you walk in to them stressed or with an agenda
     
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  4. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport

    I agree with both comments here hun, don't think about it and if there is still a spark there then you know where it will lead too, things will flow and happen if you want them too ;):sneaky:xx
     
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  5. Lace

    Lace PV Sprtr

    I think my problem is making that move if I know it could happen, we have had some amazing times together in the past but I guess I'm just a little rusty :) x
     
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  6. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport

    Rusty :D
     
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  7. Lace

    Lace PV Sprtr

    Just a little ;) X
     
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  8. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport

    I believe you :whistle::whistle:
     
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  9. Good luck, hope all goes well for you both!
     
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  10. Miss-Sexy-Legs

    Miss-Sexy-Legs Admin PV Sprtr

    Dont over think things and youll be fine x
     
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  11. Lace

    Lace PV Sprtr

    I'll try ;) X
     
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  12. Lace

    Lace PV Sprtr

    Thankyou both X
     
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  13. You might find she feels exactly the same way and is just as apprehensive , so relax , enjoy re-kindling an old friendship and Just see how it goes
     
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  14. Lace

    Lace PV Sprtr

    I know where I want it to go but just feel nervous I guess X
     
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  15. Nervousness is only to be expected, I'm afraid, but just go with the flow.
     
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  16. Lace

    Lace PV Sprtr

    Perhaps the wine may help ;)
     
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  17. Absolutely: in vino veritas, remember? :serial_Flasher:
     
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  18. Lace

    Lace PV Sprtr

    This is the problem ;)
     
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  19. Not a problem, at all :)
     
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  20. Lace

    Lace PV Sprtr

    After a bottle ;)
     
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  21. +1 (y)
     
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  22. Admin

    Admin Admin

    Ahh Miss Lace beautiful lady, you are far from rusty :whistle: :sneaky: ... and you will be fine. x
     
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  23. Lace

    Lace PV Sprtr

    These arthritic bones need WD40 ;)
     
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  24. Admin

    Admin Admin

    Too much swinging from the rafters and playing with rope that is kid x
     
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  25. Lace

    Lace PV Sprtr

    It's not good for me you know, hang on it was you that hung me from the rafters if I remember correctly ;)
     
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