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Discussion in 'Swinging Club Reviews' started by Mingles, 23 September 2015.

  1. Mingles

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    Mingles Swinging Club Essex
    Mingles - The Sexiest Club In Essex!
    Mingles is an intimate and elegant Private Members Club for the over 25’s; with a luxurious and exclusive feel, beautiful decor, mood lighting and sexy music that always fits the mood of the night.

    Applying for membership is simple, just send us your application form online, then if accepted as a member you can then book in to attend an event via our online booking form or text service.
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    Mingles is the perfect place to meet other genuine like-minded adults in a soft, sensual, relaxed atmosphere. You will receive a warm welcome from our fun, friendly and helpful staff. You will be greeted by soft subtle lighting, beautiful decor, music to fit the mood and very sexy play areas.

    The club is a non pressured, chilled out Private Members Club where you will feel relaxed and safe, somewhere you can come and meet a couple for the first time or have fun at one of our themed parties. Mingles has something for everyone so whether you are new to the scene or more experienced we are sure you will have a fantastic time.

    The team at Mingles will always be on hand to make sure your night is extra special, we look forward to seeing you soon!

    You will find that we have gone to extra lengths to ensure that the club is a place where you can relax and enjoy your night. We have several air conditioned play areas which are always kept spotlessly clean, as well as a fantastic bar with different areas for you to sit in comfort and relax, meet new and old friends and have some fun. We also have a VIP area for you to enjoy a more intimate time with friends (VIP area is available on a first come first served basis). Our bar is fully stocked with soft drinks and snacks, available to purchase. All you need to do is bring your alcoholic drink of choice.

    Lockers are provided for you (a small deposit of £5 will be charged and returned to members once the keys are handed back) so that you can lock away any valuables and phones and our bathrooms have been fitted out with beautiful lit mirrors and plenty of space to check your make-up if you wish.

    We have been careful to provide everything we think you will need, however if there is something we have forgotten or not up to the usual Mingles standard please let us know straight away so that we can fix it for you!

    Mingles Club is open to everyone over the age of 25 years old (subject to the application process), and of any gender and sexual preference. We have various theme nights and more so we are sure we will have a night perfect for you! Please check out our events calendar for more details.

    If you would like to discuss anything about the club, our rules or application process with one of the team, please contact us via the contact us page and we will do our best to answer your questions and help you.

    Rebecca & Jason xxx
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  3. Mingles

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    Lovely review received by email yesterday:

    "On our first visit to the club, we were met by a lovely girl on reception who made us feel instantly welcome and at ease. Bex and Jason are amazing hosts and couldn't do more to make our evening unforgettable from the moment we walked in. Mingles is beautifully set out and presented to a very high standard, this felt like a high quality club to meet up and enjoy a fun night together. Everything has been carefully thought through from the quality shower and toilet facilities to the personalised note pads and pens dotted around to exchange details with others if you want to. The bar area is friendly and a nice place to chat and meet others. The play areas are spotless and offer private or more open areas as well as a cage on the landing; we will definitely be returning for more great nights at this special little club, thanks again for looking after us..and sorting out a cab to get us safely home (he was great too) X"

    Love C & D xx
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  4. Mingles

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    Wow thanks you guys! It's certainly been a journey for you both but, myself, Jason and all the mingles staff are so pleased that you are now both enjoying the club together. Thank you again for taking the time to write such a lovely review for us xxx
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  5. Met this fantastic couple for the first time and by the end of the evening felt if I'd known them years.
    Met with a very friendly Bex who went through membership requirements - confirming my picture on Britains most wanted.
    Jason took us on a tour which was an early indication of his great humour, which was then brought out in his DJ spot - note can't book for sons wedding as gran may have heart attach with revised lyrics..
    Great evening loads of fun, dancing, hula hop competition and some more dirty dancing - slipped disk for me...
    If you get the chance I'd highly recommend you visit this fantastic club you'll not be disappointed.
    See you soon xxx :0))
  6. Fetishswingers

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    An OUTSTANDING CLUB in ESSEX & A MUST to Visit!! 10/10

    Fetish Swingers have now been hosting Fetish Taboo for nearly 2 years now at The Sexiest Club in Essex @Mingles.
    Bex's & Jason will always welcome everyone who attends after approved membership like us if you was tempted to attend our hosted fetish event with open arms and we can assure you you will be made to feel part of the family, made to feel comfortable as soon as you walk through the door of reception. Nervous - New? Not a problem you will be given a tour of the club, any questions will try to be addressed if you ask with the aim always for you to feel comfortable straight away, that is the owners aim.

    Mingles Club is open to everyone over the age of 25 years old (subject to the application process), and of any gender and sexual preference which also applies to attending our Fetish Taboo night. (Full FeTiSh Taboo hosted night details feel free to contact us)

    Changing facilities are available for you to change when you arrive at Mingles and leave, for our hosted night and of course All club nights too, shower facilities available as well. The toilets area spotless! neatly folded towels, perfumes, deodorants and soaps all supplied! Attention to detail has been thought of and no excuse for unpleasant smells shall we say of anyone.

    The bar area is friendly and a nice place to chat & Mingle, meet others or maybe a little jenga play Mingles style on club nights to break the ice. The play areas are spotless and on offer private or more open areas as well.
    A cage area upstairs is available on the landing with a nice chair to maybe put someone across your knee, along with our equipment (St Andrews cross , Medical bench, flogging bench & more) we bring along on our fetish taboo night.
    We highly recommend you to visit Mingles Colchester view, explore for yourself, We can assure You that You will be greeted with open arms, along with soft subtle lighting, beautiful decor, music to fit the mood by your resident DJ, Mr Mingle himself - AKA Jason and the Sexy Lady host & owner Rebecca always checking you ok.
    There is never any pressure or a must to play/join in and you will not be pounced on as many think/feel will and or may happen when they walk in the door, even the jenga you could just watch if they get it out, be prepared for just a warm friendly welcoming atmosphere, somewhere to have a drink, chat and be different, play is optional, arrange to meet new friends in a different lifestyle and take a step at a time.
    See you both soon. Big Hugs, Thank you for your continuing support, Been a tough year. Keep up the good work Bex's/Jason. Lots of love Alan & Sam. XX (fetish Swingers)
  7. Mingles

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    Thank you so much for the lovely review, was so lovely to meet you! Fantastic dancing I have to say! Looking forward to seeing you again soon xxxxx
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    Thank you for taking the time to review the club guys.........we really appreciate your continued commitment to the club and the Taboo Fetish night (especially with everything else that's been going on for you guys), The event has been a brilliant and well attended night since the start! Thank you again Alan and Sam xxxxx
  9. Admin

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    Mingles Swinging Club Essex
    Mingles - The Sexiest Club In Essex!
    Mingles is an intimate and elegant Private Members Club for the over 25’s; with a luxurious and exclusive feel, beautiful decor, mood lighting and sexy music that always fits the mood of the night.
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    Our last party will be on Friday 23rd December 2016. Mingles admin will then be closed until Monday 2nd January for all regular events, admin, emails, texts, swingers site messaging and application processing etc. The club will be re-opening on Thursday 5th January 2016, which is our Taboo Fetish event.

    We will however be open on Saturday 31st December for our NYE event, and will be answering all enquiries / bookings etc regarding the NYE event running up to the 31st December - please contact us if you wish to book, pay, or have any enquiries regarding our NYE party only. Thank you xxx
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  11. We have only been to mingles three time and every time went what a welcome we couldn't believe how lovely and friend it was and we can't wait till the 25 Feb when we go back can't wait to see you guys xx
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  12. Mingles

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    Hi guys, thank you! Looking forward to seeing you both on the 25th :) xxxxx
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  13. ThePlaygrounds

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    We have been chatting to Bex & Jason, online for over 2 years, yet either of us had struggled to meet up until last Saturday when we finally managed to venture to there club.

    We were greeted by the elegant, sexy Bex as we approached front door, who recognised us straight away and kindly ushered us into the reception area. Immediately their was a sense of elegance to the club as we signed in. As we entered the main area a beaming, welcoming Jason appeared who then proceeded to show us all the wonderful features of Mingles.

    The two playrooms upstairs looked very inviting, fun and sensual. One room was an open play area with two large beds and an hexagonal bed, the other lockable room also had two beds. The chair behind the iron bars with restraints attached to the wall I particularly liked x. The initial sense of elegance we felt was reinforced as we were show around, the club oozes a feeling that a lot of time, energy had been spent on creating the perfect ambiance in a very contemporary style enhanced by the subtle neon mood lighting. As we walked around fellow guests warmly welcomed us.

    The busy bar severed up a variety of soft drinks from the friendly barman. Music flowed through the main social area at a level that suited that time of the evening enabling all us guests to converse with each other with out shouting that you fine in other clubs. A fabulous, sexy eclectic mix of guests were in attendance this evening all busy chatting and socialising. It was so pleasing to see our hosts taking time in introducing, a new couple to the club, to other guests and immediately putting them at ease, a sign that this club goes that bit further. As the evening progressed the music level was raised, followed by classic dance tunes we all love to dance to, several birthdays were being celebrated this night so the appearance of candles and cake simply added an additional buzz to an already fantastic night.

    We met a lovely couple from Romford who are regulars to the club to the point that Mr of the couple had never been to any other clubs because "its that good here". Our meeting with this couple would of progressed further but unfortunately we had to make our exit due to other commitments. We thanked the fabulous Jason and Bex for a wonderful evening promising to return very soon. And we will.

    We totally enjoyed our visit to Mingles with is welcoming ambiance and guests and would recommend anyone within or new to the lifestyle to visit as soon as you can. Most ladies in this lifestyle claim that "size isn't everything" and in Mingles case this simply means that everyone is mixing with each other and this is what a club should be like.

    If you have been thinking checking Mingles out, then what are you waiting for ? you will not be disappointed xxxx

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  14. Mingles

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    All good things must come to an end . . .
    Mingles is closing forever on the 31st December 2018!

    We only planned for Mingles to be open for about three years but seeing the fun and friendships it bought to so many people it inspired us to keep it running for almost four and half years!

    We have had a lot of fun running the club, a few tears, four weddings and fortunately no funerals! We would love to thank all of you for making Mingles the fun and friendly place it has been.

    Needless to say there are some very special people over the years who shall remain nameless but they know who they are and we thank them for all their help, support and friendships both in and out of the club.

    So the month of December is the last chance you will have to visit Mingles the Final Party will be New Years Eve 2018 and we are going out with a bang!

    Thanks must also be given to the parochial geriatric whose retarded fascination with photographing our bin bags and harassing people minding their own business actually compelled many locals to join the club. So if anyone needs a tramp-like character to advertise their business we know of one who is now out of work!

    Important Information:-
    Anybody with money on their Bar Voucher or Alcohol stored at the club will need to use it (or lose it) during December . . .

    Anybody with Annual Platinum Membership remaining that have been less than 3 times can of course ask for a partial refund of the membership fee please contact us at admin@mingles-club.co.uk and we will arrange this with you individually.

    Other Venues
    Not all is lost . . . we are pleased to see The Members Club in Clacton is going from strength to strength so the swinging scene will still be well catered for in this area. For more information please visit their website

    And of course there are many other great clubs around such as La Boudoir, Our Place 4 Fun, The Vanilla Alternative and JD’s all of which we have been to and recommend . . .

    There are of course other great clubs further afield and we hope to be trying them out ourselves next year!

    Love to you all sexy people

    Jason & Bex
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  15. Meandlis

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    Aww and we never got to visit :( We've heard such great things about the place and it's always sad to see another club bite the dust.
    Still, congratulations for all you've achieved and good luck with any future projects (y)
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  16. Mingles

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    Thank you! We are very much looking forward to not working weekends and enjoy other clubs instead lol xxx
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  17. Therapon

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    Unfortunately I never had the chance to visit Mingles, it was just a bit too far away but all the reports I have seen were excellent. Sorry to hear you are closing and I wish you well for whatever future plans you have, good luck.
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  18. PRG978

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    Good luck for the future
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  19. Stew

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    Never been but all reports I heard about it was that it was a really fun place, enjoy your new found freedom x
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  20. Crezy

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    We have not been but I will take a moment to thank you for giving people a place a d in turn a way of being open with their own sexuality I think a safe non judgmental way, I extend this to all proper club's and we'd site. Thank you
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