Are nervous newbies an off-put to more ardent swingers?
How do you feel about it?
Say they are more slower at coming forward, or are hesitant in actually meeting up.
Is this an issue for you? Do you find the community as a whole is more open for newbies to come in and try this or is it too quick to judge and shunt perhaps?
What if any new person(s) want to simply test the waters in the way of just watching here & there, the odd touch, feel, same room type of things?
How do you feel about it?
Say they are more slower at coming forward, or are hesitant in actually meeting up.
Is this an issue for you? Do you find the community as a whole is more open for newbies to come in and try this or is it too quick to judge and shunt perhaps?
What if any new person(s) want to simply test the waters in the way of just watching here & there, the odd touch, feel, same room type of things?