Sexual Preferences

[Lips_Pearls]

On the back of my other thread about preferences: what about your sexual preferences?
Do you stick to them? Do you bend them a little, given any situation?

What about other people? Do they try and negate or get you to bend your sexual preferences?

It could be you won’t kiss but someone tries it and pushes for one during a liaison.
Could be full swap when your preferences are soft.
Maybe it’s deeper than that and you find some of it offensive when someone tries to convince you otherwise?
As ever, over to you x

 

[StokeChoke]

I only have a couple of things I’m not comfortable doing........

1. I won’t kiss men
2. Won’t be getting married again

 

[Lips_Pearls]

2. Won’t be getting married again

Oh dayamn that’s that sorted haha!

I only have a couple of things I’m not comfortable doing........

1. I won’t kiss men

I hear you

 

[StokeChoke]

Oh dayamn that’s that sorted haha!

Twice was enough for me

 

[Deleted member 11094]

I have no sexual preference, I'm a celibate fridged lady and only joined here as I thought it was a page about people who like to socialise & play baseball.. ?

 

[Lips_Pearls]

I have no sexual preference, I'm a celibate fridged lady and only joined here as I thought it was a page about people who like to socialise & play baseball.. ?

Well some of us definitely enjoy playing around with our balls x

 

[Deleted member 11094]

Well some of us definitely enjoy playing around with our balls x

Two balls and a bat

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Two balls and a bat

You got it. Just need good keepers to catch them when they’re being thrown about the place x

 

[Stew]

Two balls and a bat

Hope you are a good “fielder” x

 

[Deleted member 11094]

Hope you are a good “fielder” x

I'm good at whacking balls with a bat

 

[Stew]

I'm good at whacking balls with a bat

Shrinks away in horror ! “It’s ok boys I won’t let the naughty girl near you !! “

 

[StokeChoke]

Well some of us definitely enjoy playing around with our balls x

Not all of us have 2

Well not 2 real ones anyway

 

[StokeChoke]

I'm good at whacking balls with a bat

 

[Deleted member 11094]

Baseballs not willy-balls

 

[StokeChoke]

Baseballs not willy-balls

Thank god for that!! I’m very protective of my real one

 

[fincon]

On the back of my other thread about preferences: what about your sexual preferences?
Do you stick to them? Do you bend them a little, given any situation?

What about other people? Do they try and negate or get you to bend your sexual preferences?

It could be you won’t kiss but someone tries it and pushes for one during a liaison.
Could be full swap when your preferences are soft.
Maybe it’s deeper than that and you find some of it offensive when someone tries to convince you otherwise?
As ever, over to you x

I don’t think I’m alone in having:

- things I actively like
- things I’m ok with
- things I’ve never really thought that much about, but when suggested by the right person…?
- things I don’t like/things that are fixed and no-nos.

(Example of the third would be D/s, which I’d never thought about until I was ‘topped from the bottom’, and taught about it…)

Related: a few years ago, entirely unrelated to swinging, I was involved in a discussion about what you do when you hook up with someone whose preferences are different (but not mutually exclusive) to yours…

This was suggested as the answer… and I have to say, I still kind of agree with it.

 

[fincon]

1. I won’t kiss men
2. Won’t be getting married again

My list is quite a bit longer, but yeah, agree with both of those…

 

[Tiger]

I'm good at whacking balls

I can testify to that, Wolfie has some incredible ball skills, she was able to down two balls in one, when she was playing with me on the pool table!

That came out all wrong.
We were playing pool you dirty minded lot

Tiger xx

 

[Brumcouple2013]

Not sure how to answer this one. Either continue with the banter or answer the question. Will come back to it I think.

 

[Deleted member 11094]

I can testify to that, Wolfie has some incredible ball skills, she was able to down two balls in one, when she was playing with me on the pool table!

That came out all wrong.
We were playing pool you dirty minded lot

Tiger xx

very true, I have some skills what can I say
x

 

[Leonidas480]

I like your idea of the categories @fincon

I guess for me, I have things in each category, some of them might move if I have a good / bad experience of them.

 

[fincon]

some of them might move if I have a good / bad experience of them.

That’s fair, more than fair.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Glad to see so many getting involved in our threads, such as this one.

 

[Stew]

Over the years I’ve done most things and on the whole I have enjoyed most of them ! From soft n sensual to what oh fuck really ! 97% I would repeat in a heart beat, a few I could be persuaded on and odd one or two, never ever again !

 

[Pearls]

We did have a rule of no kissing but that went out the window straight away three way kisses are the best