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    Discussion in 'Swinging Chats - Public' started by Lips_Pearls, 20 May 2018.

    1. Lips_Pearls

      Lips_Pearls PV P Sprtr

      Do you get it? Is it for you?
      Do you like the idea of men wandering around swinging clubs while wanking? Does it turn you on?
      What about these 'wank clubs'? Your cup of tea, or not?
       
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      • debE

        debE PV P

        Not my cup of tea.
        At the club i went to last year, i'm sure there was a viewing area where men could go to do this...overlooking a room.
        It's off putting thinking that they're walking around wanking x
         
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        • R300z

          R300z PV

          That seems a bit weird to me, men can’t multitask either so surely they have to sit down first
           
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          • Therapon

            Therapon Senior Staff Member Staff Sprtr

            Not my thing. I do know when we were at a club, playing in their dungeon, @Miss-Sexy-Legs had to ask some guy to back off as he was wanking and getting closer to me whilst I was tied to some of the bdsm furniture. I wasn't aware at the time but found the whole thing a bit creepy when she told me and to make things worse he seemed to be following us every time we went for some play in the dungeon. So not my thing but it didn't seem to bother others when they were playing. Each to their own I guess.
             
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            • Lips_Pearls

              Lips_Pearls PV P Sprtr

              Err... wow... o_O
               
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              • No not our thing at all and it just makes you unpopular with people if you are doing it walking about, there were some guys at a club last year that were creepy and one of them had to be told a very firm no in the end because he would not back off.

                Vxxx
                 
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                • Sammy

                  Sammy PV Sprtr

                  Think I'm with Debe on this one
                  Sx
                   
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                  • Oh lol.

                    Just... really??!

                    That's a "no" from me, Bob.
                     
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                    • The Wanking Dead...

                      ...as a wise person once said
                       
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                      • Colin

                        Colin PV Sprtr

                        Sounds creepy to me its a no no from me
                         
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                        • Nigel&Julie

                          Nigel&Julie PV Sprtr

                          We have seen this at the VA on a Friday night, when people are playing and blokes are just standing there wanking, very off putting. N&J xx
                           
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                          • When me and charlia went to the VA a guy was wanking so close to a couple having sex I thought he’d joined in..
                             
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                            • Lips_Pearls

                              Lips_Pearls PV P Sprtr

                              Seems to be on an increase then? x
                               
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                              • We've seen it and don't like it they literally have no chance with the Mrs after doing tjis
                                 
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                                • The-Gent

                                  The-Gent PV Sprtr

                                  worrying !!!
                                   
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                                  • Honestly think it would put me off. If theyre standing that with a pole in their pants, understandable with all the gorgeous bodies floating about, but not actually tugging the boat!:palm:Sx
                                     
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                                    • Ahabs

                                      Ahabs PV Sprtr

                                      While I'm not familiar with what a "wank club" is if there is an official term, I am aware some people are into "wank meets" (as one guy put it: "Everyone invited, just put a dvd on and we just have a chilled time wanking, if you want mutual that's cool too") to which I thought "no thanks".

                                      As for blokes walking around wanking, sadly this is neither new nor isolated to any one club, it's been going in for years and is down to a few people walking around d completely oblivioushiw their behaviour comes across to others as they are too busy thinking what they can get. And it's not just single guys either (though most common) as I've seen makes halves of couples do the same when their partners aren't about.
                                       
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                                      • that's just plain creepy....would be very off putting but each to their own i guess....but not for us :)
                                         
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                                        • SexyS

                                          SexyS PV P

                                          If you go to a club like the VA especially on a single guy night or the milf club then it seems par for the course... Especially with it being an open play club.. I guess there are no rules to stop them, it’s more about them understanding some form of etiquette.. I’m not saying every guy does this, most are respectful and move away if asked too... Certainly not a turn on for us at all but I guess a lot of guys are getting some form of satisfaction so it doesn’t really bother them... each to their own
                                           
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                                          • But with there being no rules shouldn’t rules be put into place to avoid things. Especially if the general opinion is “it’s not for us” I’m not talking about stopping people from doing it but more about getting people to be more ‘polite’ i guess.
                                             
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                                            • Ahabs

                                              Ahabs PV Sprtr

                                              I don't think its so much as "no rules" but more of "but we're not hurting anyone", as osme of these guys would say. And while they would technically be correct, they fail to see that its off-putting. I dar say, I am yet to see any woman go "Wow, check out that guy wanking over there, is he coming closer? I might as well fuck him", and yet, many more guys continue :)
                                               
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                                              • Some clubs do have very specific rules about single male etiquette because let’s be honest a lot of single guys (not all men whatever) are there to get their rocks off and don’t really care about how they do it. Like consent is a big thing in the swinging community and I think that should be thought about but it isn’t. Having clear guidelines with clear “punishment” for not following the guidelines had lead to much more pleasant experiences in clubs, in my opinion
                                                 
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                                                • A club that shall remain nameless had a real big problem at 1 time with some sections of our comunity not respecting women in the club. it got to the point if a half decent woman went to the play area she was followed by a gang of cock in hand morons who stood as close as possible to the woman whilst doing it or even crowding her if playing. It all came to a head when 1 gobby Yorkshireman lost the plot and shoved 1 of them over after telling him to back off many times. The door staff and the manager got involved and chucked the offender out. The regular couples then got angry and told the manager to do something about them or we would all vote with our feet. So guys if a club limits numbers of men who can enter on any given night this could well be the reason
                                                   
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                                                  • SexyS

                                                    SexyS PV P

                                                    I think there are options in place for people to take to handle this, there are couples areas etc. If someone doesn’t understand no then I’ve found they are dealt with swiftly in most reputatible clubs..
                                                     
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                                                    • Pearls

                                                      Pearls Site Owner Admin

                                                      Gross comes to mind for a start..
                                                      I had a message on Twitter this week asking about joining here and he wanted to start a Wank club and get promoting here, this is becoming popular :rolleyes:
                                                       
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