I believe as Dom/mes this is of critical importance. Or Clients, subs, slaves and play partners put their trust and submission in Us as their Superiors. They trust us to stick within their agreed limits and respect their safe word, to push them to their limits, but again respect their consent and safety. Also I believe an important part of TIDOC is aftercare. I will not let a client drive away if I do not believe their mind is in a stable enough grounded space to do it safely. I will let them hug my legs after the session. We look after them, sometimes in a similar way as our cars, or dog. It is The Ironic Duty Of Care that separates us from abusers! We are here to be worshipped, we expect submission, devotion and in return we offer them a safe consensual place to be the people they truly are inside.