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Hi sophieh80,Hi all,
First post here, please be kind!
Hubby and I have been together for a long time now, we have had various 'sexperiences' with both male and female. However, we are a hotwife/stag type couple, so I am allowed to play - mainly with men to be honest, but have been with women - he is allowed to watch and join in when he wants.
Now, we have never been to a club before. Mainly if I am honest because we are both worried that it will be couples who want to swap and that isn't what we are into. We only live up the road from VA and have often talked about going, but have never had the guts to for what we have just described.
If anyone has been, or even if you have been to other clubs, are there plenty of single guys that go? And, I know this sounds odd, but how would you go about saying no thank if a couple wanted to do something? We just don't want to get ourselves into a situation and/or offend anyone.