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Things You Do & Don't Do As A Swingle..

Discussion in 'All About Swinging' started by Lips_Pearls, 19 May 2019.

  1. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls PV Sprtr

    On the back of this; Things You Do & Don't Do As A Couple.

    Sounds so bloody obvious doesn't it?

    But it's not. :D

    What are the ultimate things you will do and will not do as a swingle in the scene?
    Yes we know that most will stick to certain rules and limits, but we thought why not have a little thread to chat about these kind of things.
    Could be no kissing, could be no anal, could be no full swap - or it could be have to kiss, have to full swap, have to enjoy anal.
    I know there's similar threads around, but this is specifically what you will and will not do. ;) x
     
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  2. Tiger

    Tiger PV Sprtr

    That’s a hell of a good question, I’m going to have to think long & hard about it (pun intended)
    :tiphat:
    Tiger xx
     
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  3. Lace

    Lace PV Sprtr

    I’m doing the same. :lol:
     
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  4. fincon

    fincon PV Sprtr

    OK, even with the ‘usual caveat’ aired… I genuinely don’t think I can answer this question without merely saying “erm, what I’d do and not do anyway”, my pretences about sex, I mean. There’s nothing I would/wouldn’t do sexually while swinging that I wouldn’t/would do as part of an outside sexual relationship.

    OK, yes, swinging leaves open what I’d do with a coupleand yes, of course there are things I will and won’t do… no same bi- stuff with another man, for example.
     
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  5. Stew

    Stew PV Sprtr

    What I don’t do is try and collect notches on bedposts with kinda meaningless sex, if I’m doing it without a connection I may as well not bother !! And it’s not what swinging is about tbh
    What I do is like to get to know someone and make the experience a good one for both parties!
    My likes are pretty well known or are on my profile !
    Dislikes are inflicting extreme pain, anything illegal and beetroot :tiphat:
     
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  6. Welshcouple59

    Welshcouple59 PV Sprtr

    Beetroot pmsl xx
     
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  7. Stew

    Stew PV Sprtr

    :censored::notworthy::sick:
     
  8. superking1981

    superking1981 PV Sprtr

    Things I will do: lots of flirtatious foreplay, take control, go with the flow and be adventurous in exploring

    Things I don’t do: Anal, pain beyond a gentle limit.
     
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  9. Colin

    Colin PV Sprtr

    That beetroot sure is a bugger. Takes ages for the stain to wear off your dick :D
     
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  10. Stew

    Stew PV Sprtr

    Colin what the fuck are you doing to that beetroot !!
     
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  11. Welshcouple59

    Welshcouple59 PV Sprtr

    Omg, you guys are cracking me up :lol::lol:
     
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  12. Stew

    Stew PV Sprtr

    It’s not me it’s him up there ^^^^ blooming bonking beetroot !! Dirty bugger lol
     
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  13. Tiger

    Tiger PV Sprtr

    Just read this whilst having my lunch, genuinely laughed out loud, had a few funny looking in Waitrose :whistle:
     
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  14. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls PV Sprtr

    Agreed, that's funny shit right there! :D
     
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  15. Welshcouple59

    Welshcouple59 PV Sprtr

    He might not be bonking it, wonder if @Colin is going to enlighten us lol xx
     
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  16. One thing I've learned since I started swinging is that "any hole is not a goal", to put it crudely. I have, with a little regret, played with a few people I was not particularly attracted to... merely to fulfil a physical need. Afterwards I felt slightly depressed about it. Not particularly recommended.

    On the back of that... I've also played with people without much chat / build-up / foreplay... while it's a slightly better scenario than the one above, it can still often result in an empty experience.

    So while I'm not in anyway against playing with people on a 'one-off' basis, the experience is normally so much better if I make an effort socially and there is some chemistry and a build-up.
     
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  17. This is so true. Really know where you are coming from with this x
     
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  18. Ahabs

    Ahabs PV Sprtr

    1. Don't actively try to break up a couple you are meeting in a hope to pair off with one of them.
    2. Don't actively use a swing site as a means to find a life partner: if it happens, it happens.
     
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  19. superking1981

    superking1981 PV Sprtr

    Well said bud
     
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  20. Colin

    Colin PV Sprtr

    Only bonking the beetroot becouse i cant find a melon lol
     
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  21. Stew

    Stew PV Sprtr

    You wanna be careful with melon don’t want any seeds down the japs eye :tiphat:
     
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  22. Welshcouple59

    Welshcouple59 PV Sprtr

    Omg lmao :lol::lol:
     
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  23. Stew

    Stew PV Sprtr

    You wait the kinky bugger will be adding cream to his warm apple pie next :whistle::whistle:
     
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  24. Welshcouple59

    Welshcouple59 PV Sprtr

    Oooh but bet it’s a nice cream eh @Colin xx
     
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  25. Antogs

    Antogs PV Sprtr

    Will do:
    Be polite
    Be honest and upfront
    Be respectful of the wishes of others
    Cater to any sexual preferences (including the kinky stuff)

    Won't do:
    Go behind any partners back
    Have sex with another man

    Antogs xx
     
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