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    Discussion in 'Swinging Chats - Public' started by Lips_Pearls, 28 February 2018.

    1. Lips_Pearls

      Lips_Pearls PV P Sprtr Registered

      What attracts you to swinging? What do you think your favourite thing about swinging is?
      Is it actually having sex with multiple/different people?
      Perhaps it's the thrill of the actual chase, as in our thread The Chase, Or The Catch? and possibly knowing that other/new people may find you attractive?
      Maybe it's the sexual thrill of seeing your partner with someone else?
       
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      • The-Gent

        The-Gent PV Sprtr Registered

        Well its not the chase i never caught any one! haven't had sex with multi peeps, I am attracted bu the idea but still a virgin in these terms of swinging . But great friends here!
         
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        • Leonidas480

          Leonidas480 PV P Registered

          For me it's definitely a thrill, with lots of new experiences e.g. group sex, various fantasies and scenarios that seem almost impossible in the 'vanilla world!'
          But also, getting involved in a type of community of very open-minded people is a big attraction. Being able to freely ask 'awkward' questions or find out that people have the same ideas, thoughts, fears as you is empowering.
           
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          • meandlis

            meandlis Quiz Meister Admin Sprtr

            I couldn't have put it better myself (y)
             
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            • Antogs

              Antogs PV Sprtr Registered

              Meeting new people and the thrill of the prospect of indulging my wildest fantasies :smoking::spank::spankin::boobies::bj1:
               
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              • The_Usual_Horny_Couple

                The_Usual_Horny_Couple PV Sprtr Registered

                The chance to share ourselves with others!
                Offers please!:X3::sneaky::lol: S xxx
                 
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                • Vanezza

                  Vanezza PV Sprtr Registered

                  Ooo yes please! :sneaky:;):p

                  V&N xxx
                   
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                  • The_Usual_Horny_Couple

                    The_Usual_Horny_Couple PV Sprtr Registered

                    You're on the list! Mwwwaaahhhh S xxxxxxx
                     
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                    • Vanezza

                      Vanezza PV Sprtr Registered

                      :mwah::mwah:

                      V&Nxxx
                       
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                      • The-Gent

                        The-Gent PV Sprtr Registered

                        Sexy bloody sexy women x
                         
                      • Yorkshirecpl

                        Yorkshirecpl PV P Registered

                        We love the sex with other people part and really enjoy the social aspect. How often would you go in a vanilla pub start talking to people you've never met before and then have a fantastic night with them?
                         
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                        • Pearls

                          Pearls Site Owner Admin

                          I've gone off pubs now :Dx
                           
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                          • Vanezza

                            Vanezza PV Sprtr Registered

                            Yeah pubs are so overrated :rofl::rofl:

                            Vxxx
                             
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                            • Pearls

                              Pearls Site Owner Admin

                              Boring now :rofl:
                               
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                              • Yorkshirecpl

                                Yorkshirecpl PV P Registered

                                It's all about perspective
                                 
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                                • Lovernotfighter

                                  Lovernotfighter PV Sprtr Registered

                                  The freedom to be yourself and not having to guilty by finding someone sexually attractive. Also not having to worry or hide that I'm a highly sexual person is pretty good too.
                                   
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                                  • DiamondJoe

                                    DiamondJoe PV P Registered

                                    I was thinking about that the other day, hiding your sexuality, not sexual orientation but the fact that sex is something you take an active interest in.

                                    It was kinda in the context of #MeToo, where I thought, I am a very sexual person but have quite easily managed to negotiate 25 years of adult life without inadvertently [or intentionally] abusing, groping, manipulating anyone I ever met at work or in a bar or wherever... unless it was explicitly clear first that that's what we were going to do.

                                    I appreciate that society has standards and expectations, that individuals have total rights to their own bodies - but the fact that I like sex, am passionate about it to be fair - would never be acknowledged in public. I mean, I occasionally scare people with a little inside knowledge but... tip of the iceberg. I just wouldn't start the conversation.

                                    So on a day to day level, my sexuality is largely downplayed.

                                    Freedom to.../freedom from...
                                     
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                                    • DiamondJoe

                                      DiamondJoe PV P Registered

                                      It's tricky when people like to talk about family, work, skittles, the telly... the run of the mill stuff.

                                      Was chatting with a friend last Thursday and he said we hadn't done anything anecdote-worthy recently. And I looked at him and wanted to say, Well I have... but how do you have that conversation?
                                       
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                                      • DiamondJoe

                                        DiamondJoe PV P Registered

                                        The loneliness of the long-distance swinger :D
                                         
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                                        • Lenny

                                          Lenny PV P Registered

                                          The club and party scene is my main draw and I guess my ‘favourite’. I like to be seen. I like to be approached by friendly people. I adore the thrill of the chatter at the bar and the hopefulness of the big bed orgy. I’ve been very lucky to make very good friends in the scene and I’ve learnt a lot about myself, my kinks and my limits.

                                          Please Sir. Can I have some more?
                                           
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                                          • Kwaka_Rider

                                            Kwaka_Rider PV P Registered

                                            Something I've noticed on various threads around the forums on similar topics such as this one, I notice some flirting going on, people telling others that they're on their list and so on but what really jumps out, is anything being done? Are you or have you done anything to arrange to meet or has it stopped at expressing to others that they're on your radar?
                                             
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                                            • Yorkshirecpl

                                              Yorkshirecpl PV P Registered

                                              We've met people off a similar site after talking on the forum and we're hopeful to do the same off this one eventually
                                               
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                                              • Kwaka_Rider

                                                Kwaka_Rider PV P Registered

                                                Good luck to you guys, I'm sure you don't need it but, well you know.... my point was that I read the same things across all the threads and it appears nobody arranges anything and rely on someone organising a social before they possibly venture out.
                                                 
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                                                • Yorkshirecpl

                                                  Yorkshirecpl PV P Registered

                                                  They probably just arrange privately sure people do meet from here
                                                   
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                                                  • The_Usual_Horny_Couple

                                                    The_Usual_Horny_Couple PV Sprtr Registered

                                                    We are one of those couples that have said the above but its difficult to arrange a meet with a young family.
                                                    We would love to meet up with more people from here but the main issue is distance and getting someone to look after the young un. Unfortunately we can't just meet up at the drop of a hat, it takes a lot of planning! S x
                                                     
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