What Keeps You Swinging?

[Lovernotfighter]

The is tread somewhere about what got you swinging and your first swinging adventure (sorry I couldn't find it to post a link), and I got to thinking since living a swinging lifestyle isn't the easiest thing in the world to manage (with the relationship pressures, misunderstandings and what nots it can come with).

What is it that keeps you swinging?

 

[Deleted member 7954]

Its the friendships, the excitement and of course the naughty stuff too. Its all part of the package. Xxxx

 

[Lovernotfighter]

Its the friendships, the excitement and of course the naughty stuff too. Its all part of the package. Xxxx

I'm very much the same and expect most people here to be aswell.

 

[Pearls]

The sex is good.

 

[Louise1970]

For me it meeting and making friends wether it's on the site or at socials plus the fun the excitement and forfiling your sexual fantasies and seeing what the swinging side brings

 

[Purple Mamba Club]

Social life and sex life - it enhances both xxx

 

[Deleted member 1030]

The conversations. On here, at parties, at clubs, on meets - the conversations range from anal sex to Landrovers to sounding rods to Jaffa cakes to bisexuality to cooking to cuckolding to cheese to vibrators to politics to..... etc. etc.
I love it!

Oh, the sex is pretty horny too

 

[Admin]

The sex is good.

Oh yeah! x

 

[Pearls]

Oh yeah! x

Le tarte

 

[Pearls]

We have been on other sites especially drab mingers like we all have and if I'm honest it almost put us off for good, the fakes, the cost (not a free site as everyone claims) but most of all the fear of speaking your mind, god forbid... So this is why we
created a place that we enjoy, has it worked for us on a personal level? Damn right it has. Do we enjoy keeping everything alive? Yes we do and @meandlis have it right, everything from talking sex to a jaffa cake, it's what keeps that banter alive. You will not get that anywhere else for fear of incriminating yourself. Can you get this from a whats ap group or other Apps that by the way are easily hackable, No you can not. Having the freedom to be yourself is the best way of keeping swinging alive.

 

[The-Gent]

well all the things I havent done but the times I have its a fantastic buzz

 

[Lips_Pearls]

We have been on other sites especially drab mingers like we all have and if I'm honest it almost put us off for good, the fakes, the cost (not a free site as everyone claims) but most of all the fear of speaking your mind, god forbid... So this is why we
created a place that we enjoy, has it worked for us on a personal level? Damn right it has. Do we enjoy keeping everything alive? Yes we do and @meandlis have it right, everything from talking sex to a jaffa cake, it's what keeps that banter alive. You will not get that anywhere else for fear of incriminating yourself. Can you get this from a whats ap group or other Apps that by the way are easily hackable, No you can not. Having the freedom to be yourself is the best way of keeping swinging alive.

Couldn't agree more!
Keep it fresh (no not just that... ) keep it fun, keep it interesting. When the fun stops, stop.


Aside from having bits n bobs though.... I mean darling, without those too - we'd be well and truly fucked. Or in fact, not.
So that helps too. x

 

[Pearls]

Couldn't agree more!
Keep it fresh (no not just that... ) keep it fun, keep it interesting. When the fun stops, stop.


Aside from having bits n bobs though.... I mean darling, without those too - we'd be well and truly fucked. Or in fact, not.
So that helps too. x

I still have me bits and bobs thanks

 

[BoltonBiFemCpl]

Its that massive boost of nerves and the tension before and after. Nothing nicer that sat having a chat and thinking wow this is gonna happen tonight - It never gets less you just learn how to enjoy the feeling more

 

[DiamondJoe]

I fear the last time I have sex more than death itself.

Truly

 

[Wkd n whisky]

We have just had our first experience and cannot wait for next time its the anticipation and cout down to the meet x

 

[DiamondJoe]

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Its that massive boost of nerves and the tension before and after. Nothing nicer that sat having a chat and thinking wow this is gonna happen tonight - It never gets less you just learn how to enjoy the feeling more

Couldn't agree more. Whether it's a single gent, a single lady or fun with another couple - that buzz of sharing your partner is something else. There's nothing quite like it actually.
Also as you say, the boost of nerves and tension, before - during and after, can be exhilarating.
For me as an example, that sheer intimacy between three people is really amazing. There's nothing quite like it and gives you a natural, sexy high. Especially when you see how sexy, fun and passionate your wife/husband/partner is towards others.
The experiences we've had (aside from the one who wanted to kill us and our kids, and another bunny boiler ) have all been amazing fun and something we're looking forward to doing again.
It's been a little while for us, but we've both had some things on IRL which sadly, has had a direct impact on things.
However, that cloud is beginning to lift again and it's almost time for the VA too.... so say no more