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Why Is It So Difficult?

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by TheBrunetteandtheSexToy, 22 June 2016.

  1. Ok so why is it so difficult to find a man exactly how I want? Cultured, intelligent, funny, kind, sexy, cheeky. Just all that, including a spark? It's like they either don't exist or they're repulsed by me. All the guys I seem to attract are usually way off from being my type or they're just fucking boring. Or it's one of those little twats who just parties and drinks all the time and they're a complete manchild.
     
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  2. Not exactly looking for one. But when I get to talking to people, it just annoys me when they're not what I really want, if that makes sense
     
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  3. If you find one fancy sharing? lol
     
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  4. You'll never find one while youre looking for one. Its always happens when you least expect it. Just keep talking to people and making friends and Mr Right will come along. Until then....enjoy the peace lol xx
     
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  5. Sound advice :)
     
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  6. Nope :p
     
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  7. I'm struggling to find another buddy. All my previous ones just happened when least expected, but with such a huge decline in health, nobody is interested, but I totally get that.
     
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  8. Lovernotfighter

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    Someone will turn up I'm sure from what I can tell you're an incredibly lovely and sexy person.
     
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  9. Lovernotfighter

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    Hugs, if I was only I the other side of the pennines
     
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  10. Pearls

    Pearls Site Owner Staff Admin

    @Admin and I had a conversation a couple of weeks ago about dating and meeting perspective partners, now in our day it was easy, you get glammed up with the girls, boys the same and head off to town, hit the pub and on to a night club where you would dance and enjoy. You would have gents come up to you offering a drink or a dance, you could leave your bag and drink on the table while doing this. Then of course come the last dance of the evening where all the girls and boys join and smooch, if you fancied each other then home numbers were exchanged or you were offered a bag of chips and a lift in a taxi.
    Now if you were lucky then a second date would be made and hey ho, start of something special...:love:

    So what do we have now for this generation of dating, computers, risk of rape, drugs, drink, now if you go to a club then men only want a shag and thats it....:rolleyes:

    I feel for you hun as today is not a safe place to meet a genuine guy but they are out there, now you would never chance getting in a taxi or take a drink for too many risk factors.
    Very sad that we now live in a world of technology to get a date, I'm glad that I met my man at the right time and he is a true gent, I never go to a bar, he always walks on the outside of the pavement, opens the door, Finding this now is rare but they are out there looking for that special lady like yourself..
    You will see it when you least expect it and bang.. You'll never look back :love::love:
     
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  11. Like bloody buses sweetie, must agree with muffet up there..
    The harder you look, the less likely you are to find. And the more frustrated you'll become.
    Enjoy your youth and your freedom...to do exactly as YOU please.
    You have ample time, youll fall in love when you least expect it.
    Yes i know you want someone to share your life with.. but its not 'always' a bed of roses..
    At the moment you are free to dally with whom, you choose.. just enjoy doing so. :) xxx
     
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  12. Aww thank you :)
     
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  13. Pearls

    Pearls Site Owner Staff Admin

    They do exist hun, I had the fairy tale, sounds corny but true, when you least expect it, love will show itself in a weird and wonderful way :love:xxx
     
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  14. Lovernotfighter

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    How many fairy tales end with Prince charming and his princess founding a swinging site?
     
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  15. Pearls

    Pearls Site Owner Staff Admin

    Tis true and you have it here :D
     
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  16. Pearls

    Pearls Site Owner Staff Admin

    As I said previously it is difficult in today's society and hard for me to comment as I have no experience, all I can say is hang on in there hun xxx
     
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  17. Lovernotfighter

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    Ohhh the "how are you single?" question is always hard and trust omost men don't want bimbos from TOWIE
     
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  18. Ooh all of them, just gotta look for the signs :p
     
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  19. I hate that question. The person asking knows why but yet they still ask lol
     
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  20. Lovernotfighter

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    Exactly my thinking, especially when used as a hint, hint, wink, wink way of asking you out but that might just be me and my inability to notice subtle advances when focused at me.
     
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  21. Not all ladies sound like ladies from TOWIE. But getting back on thread, surely it's normal not finding THE ONE, then all of a sudden she/he appears. It will happen when you least expect it
     
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  22. Or that question guys ask to see if I'm single or a way of asking me out. You ready for it? "How's your boyfriend?". Fucking wow man. -_-
     
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  23. You obviously don't like that approach and I accept that, but just stream it back a little. A guy sees you, finds you attractive and wants to chat but doesn't want to tread on anyone shoes...
     
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  24. Lovernotfighter

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    I can say I have never asked that one. I did get asked once of I still had a girlfriend
     
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  25. There isn't a guy on this earth I would date if he asked me that question. The guys I've ever been interested in, have never asked something like that
     
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