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My partner (at the time, ten years ago(!)) who, having had a fairly vanilla life thus far, had suspicions of her bisexual side and wanted to experiment.
If it hadn't been for her, I suspect I'd never have even discovered the existence of the scene.
Must remember to thank her.
If it hadn't been for her, I suspect I'd never have even discovered the existence of the scene.
Must remember to thank her.
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peakcouple
Soon after we got together we admitted both of us enjoyed variety when it came to sex. Neither of us had been exactly faithful to our exes. We were in bed one night a few weeks after, watching a porn DVD shot in La Chambre, Sheffield, featuring ordinary people having 4somes, 3somes and a big orgy (think it was called "Swinger 2" there was a series of DVDs filmed at the club). We decided we'd like to give the club a try and went the next Saturday night. Although we didn't swap on our first visit, we loved the scene and we went every month for about 2 years. We had our first soft-swing on our second visit and a couple of visits later had our first full swap. That was 12 years ago and we've been swinging happily since.
Both of us think it's a lot more health for our relationship to have sex with other people openly, rather than have hidden affairs. Works for us anyway!
Both of us think it's a lot more health for our relationship to have sex with other people openly, rather than have hidden affairs. Works for us anyway!
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My bi side I discovered some years ago , the swing scene I discovered with a former partner ,we started off at the 3club as voyeurs on the first cple of visits then went to soft play same room swap eventually full swap same room had my first greedy girls there with partner holding my hand and have never looked back since in this lifestyle had some ups and downs but on the whole some excellent meets with great people most have become fantastic friends too in real life xx
Married 37 years when we started and it was just to liven things up......and it did
MOTM
Is it too blunt and overly simplistic if I just say, because I like sex and experiencing new things sexually.
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The_Bibas
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bbwsoiree
I came across a swinging site,mentioned it to husband to add spice to long relationship of 27 years, we met 3 couples a few times,it didn't work to help relationship but we had good fun,split after 6 months in scene,not because of swinging
That was over 4years ago,when he left I went wild lol single and free as a bird enjoying meeting men,couples ladies,n.s.a I loved it and enjoying the club scene,it took a couple of years to settle down and enjoy the social side too,making friends
Couple years ago started hosting/organising parties,absolutely love it,I try to make some time for me if can,but mainly I'm the host nowadays,which suits me,and will be for the forseeable future
Think it was all so overwhelming when first came on the scene and have settled down now lol enjoying the occasional fun meself x
Sheri
That was over 4years ago,when he left I went wild lol single and free as a bird enjoying meeting men,couples ladies,n.s.a I loved it and enjoying the club scene,it took a couple of years to settle down and enjoy the social side too,making friends
Couple years ago started hosting/organising parties,absolutely love it,I try to make some time for me if can,but mainly I'm the host nowadays,which suits me,and will be for the forseeable future
Think it was all so overwhelming when first came on the scene and have settled down now lol enjoying the occasional fun meself x
Sheri
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Deleted member 3657
I suppose I should mention why considering I started this thread. I have stated why in a different thread but can't find it. Was a while ago. Anyway....
I have always been a sexual person, a massive flirt (which has got me in trouble on a few occasions) and quite sociable. In all my relationships something was always missing sexually. Yes most of the time the sex has been great, but after a while I just felt it needed something more. Never knew what it could be. When my marriage started to break down about 3 years ago (we stayed together because we were married I suppose) I realised I needed more sexually. I went to a couple of gang bang parties as I had always been interested and found I really enjoyed the liberation. Got chatting to a few couples who went and they mentioned swinger sites. At the start I thought it was all about sex, and now I know how wrong I was. I have realised that what I want to be a part of is the whole experience, not just for myself. To share experiences with friends. Not only help my own sexual needs and desires but to possibly help others achieve theirs. To be a part of a community, an adult more carefree lifestyle. Yes I love sex and hope it comes with the territory. If it's just sex, then great, but the friendship and being part of something sexual and special is why I am here.
I hope one day to find a love to share all this with her.
I have always been a sexual person, a massive flirt (which has got me in trouble on a few occasions) and quite sociable. In all my relationships something was always missing sexually. Yes most of the time the sex has been great, but after a while I just felt it needed something more. Never knew what it could be. When my marriage started to break down about 3 years ago (we stayed together because we were married I suppose) I realised I needed more sexually. I went to a couple of gang bang parties as I had always been interested and found I really enjoyed the liberation. Got chatting to a few couples who went and they mentioned swinger sites. At the start I thought it was all about sex, and now I know how wrong I was. I have realised that what I want to be a part of is the whole experience, not just for myself. To share experiences with friends. Not only help my own sexual needs and desires but to possibly help others achieve theirs. To be a part of a community, an adult more carefree lifestyle. Yes I love sex and hope it comes with the territory. If it's just sex, then great, but the friendship and being part of something sexual and special is why I am here.
I hope one day to find a love to share all this with her.
MOTM
more by chance than any other reason , never having been good meeting people or making friends ,i don't consider myself interesting or attractive but SS has helped my self-esteem ...
i have tried various types of sites without any success , i stumbled across SS just over a year ago
i looked and thought it would never be for me so left it ...i think i got an email to do with non active accounts
at a not so good time ..so i looked again and became a little more involved , its taken a long time to get to know people and have met just two lovely couples who have made this such a great experience ..
2017 ...who know where it will go ......
i have tried various types of sites without any success , i stumbled across SS just over a year ago
i looked and thought it would never be for me so left it ...i think i got an email to do with non active accounts
at a not so good time ..so i looked again and became a little more involved , its taken a long time to get to know people and have met just two lovely couples who have made this such a great experience ..
2017 ...who know where it will go ......
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Deleted member 3411
Is never easy when you are not the most confident of people that's always been my problem I think. I believe I'm a nice guy but not the most, how should we put it ?pushy? But after starting to go to clubs when I was single I found a very liberating thing instead of worrying about being rebuffed by girls I tried to talk to here I am surrounded by women even with their partners and husbands who welcome my attentions.
If you've not been to an event yet or visited a club I'm sure you'll find a liberating experience MP
This is a serious insight Mr K and you sum everything up in the latter few sentences,in my opinion personally.
I agree with you and it's about being liberated, being free, being yourself without being judged, criticised or questioned.
If you like gangbangs, so what. If you're bi, so what.. if you're straight, so what.. If you love 3sums, so what. Fact is, you're (generically) - we're, human beings and there's nothing wrong with enjoying ourselves for who we are and the beautiful people we are.
'Nillas don't understand, but most fantasise about it... Ironic.
I'd rather be open and free about my lifestyle choice and sexuality, than hidden away and always wondering = "What if"
Like being caged....
Ahh Mr MP. Yes I recall you leaving then coming back. Like a lil hermit you were. Quietly floating around in your shell.. Popping out now and again.
Now look at you! Talk about a confidence boost! Initially your pics were pants, - literally I hasten to add
now look at your Bob The Builder ones! Epic! 
You've added humour, sarcasm, friendliness and will talk with anyone (God help them
) and it's for the best.You know, from my point of view, working this site day in day out, 7 days a week morning till night - I see people. I learn about people.. I understand people.
You see accounts.. Then you see accounts become people. Seeing accounts become people with personalities, with laughter, humour, sadness at times, challenges and success stories - is like the warmest and fuzziest feeling you can ever imagine.
And it's all this that I see. I see accounts become members, become real people and then shine through when their confidence is boosted.
To me? That is what it's all about.
Before anyone says I'm rambling, I admit it. been on the vino. It's Christmas I'm allowed
Here's to you all!
x :beer:
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MacMermaid
I've spoken about this before on another thread, I found through Twitter that there was a whole other side to sex and sensuality.
My husband doesn't have a great interest in sex, and even less interest in my response to it.
I wanted to find out whether I could enjoy sex, and after a frank discussion we agreed to see other people.
My husband doesn't have a great interest in sex, and even less interest in my response to it.
I wanted to find out whether I could enjoy sex, and after a frank discussion we agreed to see other people.
MOTM
Thanks ... sums up my SS year and a bit .... it's been a welcome distraction from normal life which is quite dull all my fault , this time of year for more years than I care to remember I tell myself I need to make changes but do I ...This is a serious insight Mr K and you sum everything up in the latter few sentences,in my opinion personally.
I agree with you and it's about being liberated, being free, being yourself without being judged, criticised or questioned.
If you like gangbangs, so what. If you're bi, so what.. if you're straight, so what.. If you love 3sums, so what. Fact is, you're (generically) - we're, human beings and there's nothing wrong with enjoying ourselves for who we are and the beautiful people we are.
'Nillas don't understand, but most fantasise about it... Ironic.
I'd rather be open and free about my lifestyle choice and sexuality, than hidden away and always wondering = "What if"
Like being caged....
Ahh Mr MP. Yes I recall you leaving then coming back. Like a lil hermit you were. Quietly floating around in your shell.. Popping out now and again.
Now look at you! Talk about a confidence boost! Initially your pics were pants, - literally I hasten to add
You've added humour, sarcasm, friendliness and will talk with anyone (God help them
You know, from my point of view, working this site day in day out, 7 days a week morning till night - I see people. I learn about people.. I understand people.
You see accounts.. Then you see accounts become people. Seeing accounts become people with personalities, with laughter, humour, sadness at times, challenges and success stories - is like the warmest and fuzziest feeling you can ever imagine.
And it's all this that I see. I see accounts become members, become real people and then shine through when their confidence is boosted.
To me? That is what it's all about.
Before anyone says I'm rambling, I admit it. been on the vino. It's Christmas I'm allowed
Here's to you all!
x :beer:
I have met and chatted with some lovely people here it's been good for me ... so I can only thank everyone for being nice to me. ...
I can be sarcastic...which I can only apologise for but it's me ...
I do wind the lovely Mrs
@meet_the_fockers up regularly which I shouldn't but she makes me smile... I have never felt as comfortable being on a site as much as i do here ...
Thanks Everyone ...
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As has been said it isn't all about sex sometimes its nice just to have someone to talk to discuss things with even ask for advice on. I used to go to a club where I would spend time chatting to an Asian couple it was fun to talk about sex with the wife of the couple even though I never saw anything on her body and play was out of the question some of those conversations where invigorating.
MOTM
Promise I won't go on it's 4am just woke up with this in my head ...
for people that are single this time of year it can be lonely even if you are with family ...
it's having that extra special person to share with .... so if some of us don't feel it or seem Grinchy ... there's probably a reason ..
that's enough from me ... Have a Great Christmas everyone ..
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no reason to use this one other than it makes me laugh ..
for people that are single this time of year it can be lonely even if you are with family ...
it's having that extra special person to share with .... so if some of us don't feel it or seem Grinchy ... there's probably a reason ..
that's enough from me ... Have a Great Christmas everyone ..
and no reason to use this one other than it makes me laugh ..
MOTM
Thanks gorgeous ....Muppet
I'll be getting called a Numpty by Her next as she agreed with you ...
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No longer with us
U know ur a numptyThanks gorgeous ....
MOTM
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Why....well I've watched this life style from the fringes for a while but never took that step forward. So being twice divorced and single for a while I thought what the hell lets have a go and see what it's really like..next question how, where do I go and then by chance or madam fate I saw SS. I suppose the name Social Swinging attracted me the most, maybe there would be more...
So grabbing the bull by the horns or balls I signed up and it's been the most rewarding experience I have had in such a long time.
Yes, as an SG it's taken a while to gain the trust, respect and confidence of the lovely people on SS but if you want something badly enough you put the effort in...
Since joining I've met people who I now consider as good friends, yes without a doubt sex has been absolutely fantastic but it's not a just the sex it's everything that goes with it, the social meetings, that first meet, are you going to click and then the fun. These to me are not just one offs but more...hopefully.
For me I've now done the ultimate and told my son and now my daughter of my lifestyle. I feel free liberated and here no one judges you and in the wider lifestyle I hope it's the same..
Thanks to each and everyone of you that have helped me on this journey xxxx
So grabbing the bull by the horns or balls I signed up and it's been the most rewarding experience I have had in such a long time.
Yes, as an SG it's taken a while to gain the trust, respect and confidence of the lovely people on SS but if you want something badly enough you put the effort in...
Since joining I've met people who I now consider as good friends, yes without a doubt sex has been absolutely fantastic but it's not a just the sex it's everything that goes with it, the social meetings, that first meet, are you going to click and then the fun. These to me are not just one offs but more...hopefully.
For me I've now done the ultimate and told my son and now my daughter of my lifestyle. I feel free liberated and here no one judges you and in the wider lifestyle I hope it's the same..
Thanks to each and everyone of you that have helped me on this journey xxxx