How Long Before You Know Youve Been Stood Up?

[mtechstevo]

sat in car waiting for a girl I arranged to go on a date with. She let me know she was running late so took a slow drive to pick her up. That was an hour ago I last heard from her. Now her phones off and not getting replys to my messages. How long do I wait?

 

[Admin]

sat in car waiting for a girl I arranged to go on a date with. She let me know she was running late so took a slow drive to pick her up. That was an hour ago I last heard from her. Now her phones off and not getting replys to my messages. How long do I wait?

If she's off here and is messing you around, let us know.
If not, unlucky.. seems your time could be up and you've been let down.
Good seeing you again of course.

 

[mtechstevo]

If she's off here and is messing you around, let us know.
If not, unlucky.. seems your time could be up and you've been let down.
Good seeing you again of course.

no not anyone off here. It's a lass I know through work. Gonna give it till half 7 then go get some tea. Will be gutted as driven nearly an hour to get here. Hate being messed around.

 

[Admin]

no not anyone off here. It's a lass I know through work. Gonna give it till half 7 then go get some tea. Will be gutted as driven nearly an hour to get here. Hate being messed around.

Hmm not cricket old bean, hope you can continue to be professional. She's bombed you out mate, esp after an hour + with no replies.
Go and get something to eat and a pint. She's obviously messing you around. No need for it, but it happens.

 

[mtechstevo]

the fact that her phone is off says it all i think, sorry chap

sadly that's what I thought. Well she won't get a second chance I can tell you that much

 

[meet_the_fockers]

PFFFt yeah right...what lady allows that to happen these days lol

Me

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Standing the poor boy up tut tut :spank:

Haha phone stew phone, i no stood him up

 

[Pearls]

Think you been stood up hun xx

 

[Nigel&Julie]

Are you still waiting ??

 

[Miss-Sexy-Legs]

One thing I've never ever done stood anyone up its so very wrong to the other person and just down right disgraceful

 

[mtechstevo]

thanks for the support guys. Ended up at a mates and we lost a bottle of cihanti. Currently sat at work shaking like a shitting dog with a hangover of epic proportions. Good night though

 

[Pearls]

One thing I've never ever done stood anyone up its so very wrong to the other person and just down right disgraceful

me neither

 

[BoltonBiFemCpl]

We would never stand anyone up that's so disrespectful. Have never been stood up whilst swinging but it happened a couple of times when I was a lad lol. We have had the phone die thingy on a couple we met and also ours has done it once too so it can happen

 

[Admin]

We would never stand anyone up that's so disrespectful. Have never been stood up whilst swinging

Agreed. Hugely disrespectful. If you don't fancy that person or aren't really interested, just be honest. It saves heartache and frustration.

 

[Pearls]

Agreed. Hugely disrespectful. If you don't fancy that person or aren't really interested, just be honest. It saves heartache and frustration.

You stood me up

 

[BoltonBiFemCpl]

Agreed. Hugely disrespectful. If you don't fancy that person or aren't really interested, just be honest. It saves heartache and frustration.

I don't know if its me being blunt or its the right thing to do but we are always very honest with folks on sites like this. If we get some mug shots through of some potential victims, Sorry that should say lovely pics of some playmates. We both look at them and the profile in depth and then decide what to do then we mail back and say either sorry we would not want to take this further or a nice message saying lets talk about things. we feel whilst its not nice getting knocked back but the people can then waste no more time on us and go find someone who wants to meet them

 

[Miss-Sexy-Legs]

You stood me up

What he didnt just throw you down and ravish you

 

[Pearls]

What he didnt just throw you down and ravish you

Nope he had other things to do, I looked amazing too, posh frock the lot

 

[Miss-Sexy-Legs]

Nope he had other things to do, I looked amazing too, posh frock the lot

Awe bless well you got him in the end x

 

[Looby&Lew]

Awe bless well you got him in the end x

Yes he's tied to the chair too afraid to move...

 

[Miss-Sexy-Legs]

Yes he's tied to the chair too afraid to move...

Ooo is pearls under that table again ,geez poor bugga he must be well drained by now

 

[Deleted member 1030]

Ooo is pearls under that table again ,geez poor bugga he must be well drained by now

Poor bugga? He deserves everything he gets, standing a gorgeous lady up like that!

 

[Miss-Sexy-Legs]

Poor bugga? He deserves everything he gets, standing a gorgeous lady up like that!

Hey she nabbed him didnt she and as him tied to a chair for his sins

 

[Admin]

I've never stood the good lady up. Don't know what she means. X

 

[mtechstevo]

well an interesting thing happened tonight. The young lady in question works in the petrol station where my depot is. I pulled in for fuel and she ran over to the truck in tears and give me a big hug. She dropped her phone texting me and it exploded. So when she went to put the sim in her old phone was a different size. She was full of apologies and begging me not to hate her. Felt a bit guilty myself if I am honest. So we are going out on the 19th. I think one more chance is worth a go.