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So if we look forward in time and now the site is 100% PV and the new folks only get limited access to posts, photo's and the like. How do you feel it would change how you go about things on the site and would you alter your profile to reflect the improved security of the site.

We would if only verified people could access the pic area move all our photos so they could be seen by anyone (thinking
 
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The_Bibas

So if we look forward in time and now the site is 100% PV and the new folks only get limited access to posts, photo's and the like. How do you feel it would change how you go about things on the site and would you alter your profile to reflect the improved security of the site.

We would if only verified people could access the pic area move all our photos so they could be seen by anyone (thinking

We have also discussed that... The problem is unfortunately annoying..

As an example you meet someone outside the site and nothing happens..
Next you get messages from friends and family to say WTF are you doing posting your pictures all over the Internet..

This is a true scenario..
This dickhead outed us because we said no..

For that reason and the fact you can save an image or screen shot one means we would never show our faces... We used to when we first started but some asshole roofer from York was a total twat.. Let's not go there..

Conclusion..
Even though the people are all PV does not mean they are trustworthy

XxxBibaxxX
 
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The_Bibas

However.. Pv is something that I have pushed for from day one.. I still believe it is essential..
Having come from another site that is bigger but has untold numbers of fakes and wasters.. It will eventually make this site the place to be..
I feel safe here on the whole..
Most people will know my trauma from the other site, which in turn caused me to panic and doubt myself..

Pv is absolutely essential.. At least then we can make the decision to be more relaxed and open... Something that you cannot get anywhere else..... Even with membership fees...


No other site will react as fast to a problem as the admins do here..

XxxBibaxxX
 
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The_Bibas

However.. Pv is something that I have pushed for from day one.. I still believe it is essential..
Having come from another site that is bigger but has untold numbers of fakes and wasters.. It will eventually make this site the place to be..
I feel safe here on the whole..
Most people will know my trauma from the other site, which in turn caused me to panic and doubt myself..

Pv is absolutely essential.. At least then we can make the decision to be more relaxed and open... Something that you cannot get anywhere else..... Even with membership fees...


No other site will react as fast to a problem as the admins do here..

XxxBibaxxX
Seeeee
@Admin sees all
 
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The_Bibas

So in answer to your question.. Fast forward...
I would like to see a clearer members list..
Categorised maybe.. Or specific chat rooms
Singles
Couples
Darkside

Right now we have a list of members and we do need to trawl profiles to find what we are looking for..

I know we have search buttons bla bla... But let's have specific meeting rooms..

XxxBibaxxX
 

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On that note, have been brainstorming and thinking on this and think we have a decision too..
Will let everyone know on the thread when ready. :) x
But great post of course all, would be interesting seeing where the site progresses from here. (y)
 
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The_Bibas

On that note, have been brainstorming and thinking on this and think we have a decision too..
Will let everyone know on the thread when ready. :) x
But great post of course all, would be interesting seeing where the site progresses from here. (y)
Don't you dare steal another one of my ideas
Omg seriously again?
Not an original bone in his body...

XxxBibaxxX
 

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So in answer to your question.. Fast forward...
I would like to see a clearer members list..
Categorised maybe.. Or specific chat rooms
Singles
Couples
Darkside

Right now we have a list of members and we do need to trawl profiles to find what we are looking for..

I know we have search buttons bla bla... But let's have specific meeting rooms..

XxxBibaxxX
As in the chatrooms specifically? x
 
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The_Bibas

Na
Not telling...

Imagine signing up to the site as a couple looking for couples..
And you are automatically in a room with everyone who are interested in couples...

OK you get the idea..
Steal it away

XxxBibaxxX
 
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So in answer to your question.. Fast forward...
I would like to see a clearer members list..
Categorised maybe.. Or specific chat rooms
Singles
Couples
Darkside

Right now we have a list of members and we do need to trawl profiles to find what we are looking for..

I know we have search buttons bla bla... But let's have specific meeting rooms..

XxxBibaxxX
Monica is right. I am sure all is doable once the PV is embedded completely. There is still the danger of not being 100% despite the PV, only time can tell that.
 
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For that reason and the fact you can save an image or screen shot one means we would never show our faces...

XxxBibaxxX

Im sure theres a way to stop pics being copied when you right click it maybe admin can sort something
 

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Im sure theres a way to stop pics being copied when you right click it maybe admin can sort something
That's, sadly, a false sense of security.. Once you have the image on-screen, you have downloaded it.
 
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We absolutely love this site. We appreciate the hard work the staff put in and love reading and contributing to the forums.

If we were to have a wish list for improvements it would be as follows:-

1. The use of the same emoji's in status updates as there are in the forums. Baldrick finds these very useful in conveying how to emotionally read his text (as we all know text is easily misinterpreted) :p

2. A better system for seeing who is online or who is active at any given moment (we realise this is difficult when some members such as ourselves are always logged in).

3. The ability to edit a post after a couple of minutes has passed. Baldrick really wanted to edit one today in the forums.

4. Would love to see more social gatherings in the chat rooms. Bibas suggestion above is a good one.

@Admin we appreciate this is all hard work for a limited number of staff and our wish list is not at a criticism of the you guys and gals or the site.

BNK
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Sammy

As baldericknkaz have said I am so thankful for the fantastic site that we have , being a true technophobe the reality is that I have not got a clue what is involved and I can only imagine

However on my ikkle bitty. Wish list would be

On joining
A folder with important links n guidelines regarding expectations and what's available

Restricted accesses to media until you are PVd


In the madhouse

A generic thread where you can talk nonesense , have craic n banter - this might stop including me being a huge culprit - spamming the threads

I agree our main chat rooms are under utilised and it would be nice to have something on on another night - personally I struggled following and I prefer the Friday night party threads
Anything goes n just laugh a minute

Personalised chat space
Would love the have a click of a button and have a space where 3/4/5 folk might wanna go and hang out on private


Maybe even a 6 monthly event
On site a way of gathering old n new members together

But please let me reiterate Im criticising what we have
Just idea that may or maybe be possible - as I said technophobe no idea how easy or difficult it would be

Sx
 
26 July 2016
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Following on from some of the points made above I would whole hartedly agree in the edit comments as my original post was twice as long as what ended up being posted hence it ended in thinking. Not too sure as to the breaking up of the chat rooms as its rather divide and fail in our eyes as what would happen is a few would be left on the outside and that's just not right. As for little groups being able to go off into a private room we have been on a site that had that idea and it killed chat within days as folks entered a few such chat rooms as so did not give any full attention leaving folks hanging all the time. Wow Bibas what a thing to have happened to you, Maybe a lesson for us all to be learned about our own security here and generally on line. Given me much to think about this has so thanks for that as I am a great believer in more heads that think about something the better the outcome normally is. Cant expect admin to have all the bright ideas lol.
 
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Personalised chat space
Would love the have a click of a button and have a space where 3/4/5 folk might wanna go and hang out on private
You do have that option in a PM. When you start a new conversation you can specify who the participants are. And invite others in later on if wanted.
 
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The_Bibas

Following on from some of the points made above I would whole hartedly agree in the edit comments as my original post was twice as long as what ended up being posted hence it ended in thinking. Not too sure as to the breaking up of the chat rooms as its rather divide and fail in our eyes as what would happen is a few would be left on the outside and that's just not right. As for little groups being able to go off into a private room we have been on a site that had that idea and it killed chat within days as folks entered a few such chat rooms as so did not give any full attention leaving folks hanging all the time. Wow Bibas what a thing to have happened to you, Maybe a lesson for us all to be learned about our own security here and generally on line. Given me much to think about this has so thanks for that as I am a great believer in more heads that think about something the better the outcome normally is. Cant expect admin to have all the bright ideas lol.
No comment in public hun
Xxxx
 
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You do have that option in a PM. When you start a new conversation you can specify who the participants are. And invite others in later on if wanted.
I agree we do have this in messaging but imagine 5 people all sending a message at the same time, then 5 people all replying at the same time to different messages. It would become incomprehensible.

I also agree with @BoltonBiFemCpl that a group chat room where the same people disappear to each night might be detrimental to the site.

Difficult one this. Double edged sword?

B x
 
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On that note, have been brainstorming and thinking on this and think we have a decision too..
Will let everyone know on the thread when ready. :) x
But great post of course all, would be interesting seeing where the site progresses from here. (y)

Don't you dare steal another one of my ideas
Omg seriously again?
Not an original bone in his body...

XxxBibaxxX
Before I reply to everyone else's posts - to clear something up here, my post above was in relation to PV and what we've decided regarding the other thread and discussion. (y)

We absolutely love this site. We appreciate the hard work the staff put in and love reading and contributing to the forums.

If we were to have a wish list for improvements it would be as follows:-

1. The use of the same emoji's in status updates as there are in the forums. Baldrick finds these very useful in conveying how to emotionally read his text (as we all know text is easily misinterpreted) :p

2. A better system for seeing who is online or who is active at any given moment (we realise this is difficult when some members such as ourselves are always logged in).

3. The ability to edit a post after a couple of minutes has passed. Baldrick really wanted to edit one today in the forums.

4. Would love to see more social gatherings in the chat rooms. Bibas suggestion above is a good one.

@Admin we appreciate this is all hard work for a limited number of staff and our wish list is not at a criticism of the you guys and gals or the site.

BNK
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Hi both,
1, Sadly can't do it. Well I can but am not going to. ;) :D
Imagine status updates on profiles like this continuously;
:gimp::spank: :surprise: :serial_Flasher: :bondage_buddy:

Morning peeps :threesum: :spank::whipping: :doggy:

Would make the site and status updates look awful. So while I hear ya - it's been discussed before and can't happen, sorry..

2, everyone online has a green online dot marker. We can also add who is online on the map at a further point in time. Currently you can view list of online members, use chat as a guide of who is online too.

3, everyone has 4 minutes to edit posts. This is more than sufficient and we don't wish to extend it for some reasons, which are hopefully obvious.

4, That is a member driven situation.
The chatrooms and them being busy has always been an 'issue' - many people complain they're busy, I never see ANY members try and organise anything in the chatrooms to try and get them busy. Ever...
So that in honesty, is a member driven thing that should be organised by members.

On joining
A folder with important links n guidelines regarding expectations and what's available

Restricted accesses to media until you are PVd


In the madhouse

A generic thread where you can talk nonesense , have craic n banter - this might stop including me being a huge culprit - spamming the threads

I agree our main chat rooms are under utilised and it would be nice to have something on on another night - personally I struggled following and I prefer the Friday night party threads
Anything goes n just laugh a minute

Personalised chat space
Would love the have a click of a button and have a space where 3/4/5 folk might wanna go and hang out on private


Maybe even a 6 monthly event
On site a way of gathering old n new members together
Hi Sammy,
With this we have discussed some things regarding PV on another thread - which explains my post earlier in this thread (the one I have quoted above) and we have a decision about PV but will explain on that thread later.
RE Spam threads, there's threads like this;
Spam!!! Thread!! Knock Yourselves Out ;) Mwahhh Xxx
And an area just for off topic stuff here;
https://socialswinging.com/forums/off-topic-bit-of-fun.75/

RE the chatrooms, please see #4 in my response above.
Chatrooms and the use of - are purely member driven. We have tried until we're blue in the face..

We did consider allowing member made chatrooms, but right now and due to the lack of use in chatrooms in general, it's not worth setting up.

Peeps the fact is some of this is member driven. We already provide everything requested above, aside from some additional ideas for PV etc. But the main fact is - we have them, but it's down to members to organise things, down to members to create situations where others wish to join in and participate.
It's great saying 'we'd like to see them busy, they're under utilised' but why aren't members doing anything about it?
We organise a weekly quiz, but where's everyone else's input? Why aren't members organising these things and contributing towards such ideas rather than asking us to do them?
Please don't think I am being insulting - I am not, but when you already have the tools there - why ask us to do things when members can already do it themselves?

Can take a horse to water and all that.


You do have that option in a PM. When you start a new conversation you can specify who the participants are. And invite others in later on if wanted.
Exactly, you can invite up to 5 participants in PM's. The only thing currently not available is creating your own chatrooms.

Who'd monitor them? How would we prevent spammers coming in, inviting 20 people and spamming them?

I agree we do have this in messaging but imagine 5 people all sending a message at the same time, then 5 people all replying at the same time to different messages. It would become incomprehensible.

I also agree with @BoltonBiFemCpl that a group chat room where the same people disappear to each night might be detrimental to the site.

Difficult one this. Double edged sword?

B x
This would be no different to member based started rooms?

Anyway there's some of my thoughts and direct responses so far.
Thanks for your input all. If I see anything that's not already there or is easy to implement and manage then I will consider it.
Right now, most of this is either there already or there already and not being used - which is down to members to do not us.. I know that sounds harsh or unfair, but that's the truth. :)
Admin x