How Did You Become Involved In The Scene ???

[Toria]

Well for me I was in a relationship with a guy that was 15 years my senior. He didn't really have an interest in sex it happened if and when he was ever in the mood. It never happened in the comfort of a bed it always felt very loveless and happened on the living room floor. Get your clothes do the deed and put them back on again and get ok with life. I was a very late starter when it came to men and when I discovered them I realised I had a very high sex drive. So I did some research found a rather interesting website and registered. I can't even remember who my first meet was just remember the feelings of nerves and was I actually doing the right thing. It was a little late at that point as I was in the same room with him. The feelings it left afterwards was that of a high and excitement and I needed more. I became addicted and ashamed to say I went off the rails. Meeting 2/3 men a day sometimes arranging meets after 1 message not even knowing the persons name and evening after it was all over not knowing...

When I met my ex fiance I was open and honest with him and explained I was Bi and had an interest in 3 sums with him. He took this quite well and did indulge with me a few times until he over stepped the mark one night and met the fem alone and then tried to blame me for it all.

These days I am in a happy relationship and we met while swinging. At the start of our relationship it was am issue but overtime we have overcome these issues and enjoy the scene together. I love nothing more than playing with a female whole andy watches until invites to join just as much as I get a kick out of seeing him with another fem.

Well now you know how I found this great scene how about you? Look forward too reading your answers xx

 

[Lace]

Wow Toria,very interesting story you've shared with us,I was in a simular situation and being Gay was sick of meeting idiots so joined a site,tbh I had a crap time on it and was even stalked so left the scene until I found this place and have to say Im enjoying very much,It's not like any other and peronally I've never felt safer here,the staff are all amazing and I've met some great guys here xxx

 

[Toria]

Well it's always interesting hearing how people got here. A lot of people come here for the wrong reasons as they think it's just an easy way of getting a quick shag.. I am glad you found us xxx

 

[sexyM&N]

Well my wife and I have have talked about having fun with a lady and or each other in a room with others, but been rather worried about safety. We are very new to this scene and other than sharing pics or vids on twitter and vine haven't done anything with any other people. This site feels nice and comfortable and patience is a virtue

 

[Toria]

Well my wife and I have have talked about having fun with a lady and or each other in a room with others, but been rather worried about safety. We are very new to this scene and other than sharing pics or vids on twitter and vine haven't done anything with any other people. This site feels nice and comfortable and patience is a virtue

Best advice I can give you never commit to anything before you have a social. Meet in a public place never in your home. That way neutral ground and there is no pressure on either party then. If you all get along and what to take it further that night then happy days if not can arrange it for another time. Alternatively it's also easier to run for the hills lol xx

 

[handy andy 70]

Well I met this sexy women on a chat room site who told me about a swinging site so I joined it and I met her for a social and that was that she still hasn't left my house ? Opps that's you Toria pmsl xxxx loves you

 

[blondiexxx]

Awww that's nice umm well Ive only ever had vanilla sexual experiences but always wanted to try things like mmf dp and soft bdsm but none of the guys I was seeing was into it so I joined a site which I never met anyone off because I didnt feel confident or safe on it then a friend suggested another site *ahem* and found a massive community I felt accepted and welcome ive been loving it ever since still quite new but enjoying the adventure xxx

 

[Toria]

The things your looking to explore you have to put your safety first. Any meet that you go on your never 100% certain that your going to be safe. Believe me I know I have a few horror stories under my belt. One so bad that it made me give up swinging. But luckily through all my experience and horror stories in am able to help others by giving them advice xxx

 

[sthwalescpl]

We had been together for a long time, and had always been experimental in the bedroom, we would talk about our fantasies and the one that got us going the most was Jayne with another woman, whilst I watched and then joined in.
We discussed it in the cold light of day, and had a look online.
Found various sites, looked at what was on offer and chatted some more.
We always got turned on and ended up in bed, so the next step was to try it out for real.
We registered on one site, got chatting, and soon had our first meet.
We loved it, and when we found another site, with people a lot more local, we got invited to our first organised social, followed by our first party, and we were hooked!

 

[Admin]

For us, it developed naturally from a friendship with another couple, who we were extremely friendly with lol.
And we've always been experimental and to be fair, the tension between the four of us had been building for some time.
One evening after lots of the usual drinks, meal, fun.. it just happened.

Started off with a bit of stripping fun and before you knew it, it was everything and anything goes.
We had a blast and this continued for about 18 months. Not regular as clockwork, but definitely a regular thing and we all enjoyed.

Sadly one person became very attached and wanted a bit more, but that was because of a distinct lack of compassion, love and care from the partner.
But that's it for us! Quite a few years' back too now.. makes me feel old lol
Good fun, was healthy and a very natural step for us if I am honest...

 

[Admin]

So who else accidentally found themselves in the scene or ventured out willingly looking for it?
Come on don't be shy... x

 

[riccarda]

it started for me back at University i had always had a thing for BDSM but especially female domination so plucked up the courage to go and visit a professional Dominatrix at the age of 19 from there i got into fetish clubs and stuff all very underground and must admit i have had my breaks from the scene but over the years just kept coming back, couldn't stay away. More recently after meeting my Mistress the wonderful Lady Caroline i really have got involved in the fetish and swinging scene just loving to socialise with people i don't have to pretend around anymore

 

[Admin]

just loving to socialise with people i don't have to pretend around anymore

I think this is the most valuable thing for me personally... x

 

[Deleted member 6485]

Bump x

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Bump x

Well? x

 

[Deleted member 6485]

Well? x

I shall reply after dinnerxx

 

[Deleted member 9925]

A female friend kissed the Mrs on a night out that's as far as it went but it unlocked Pandora's box for us within the month we visited our first club
The friend has since kissed the Mr too buts that's her lot she now listens to our stories and feels left out but her hubby would never play he just walked away when she kissed the Mr

 

[Pearls]

I shall reply after dinnerxx

 

[Deleted member 6485]

Im on itxx

 

[Pearls]

Im on itxx

:smackpaddle:

 

[Deleted member 6485]

:smackpaddle:

If you insist...xx

 

[Pearls]

If you insist...xx

Bad girl.

 

[Deleted member 1030]

Never mind being coy @debE - and flirting with @Pearls - tell the story!

 

[Deleted member 6485]

Never mind being coy @debE - and flirting with @Pearls - tell the story!

Okay...
Well, after leaving a very long marriage, and being single with an abundance of offspring, i concluded that my circumstances didn't really make me very good relationship material. So, as we all have needs, i decided to join a swingers site....and eventually got led to this one (thankfully)..and here i amx

 

[BoltonBiFemCpl]

We had hours to kill on a very long road trip and got talking about past lives and i admitted to having been a bit of a lad in my younger days (i was divorced at 23) after telling her all about what i had done she said that sounds fantastic so when we got home i looked up swinging web sites and the rest is history as they say. We ended up here as got invited by another member here. However we do still use other places too.