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24 November 2015
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There is nothing more I'd like to do than to be pleasuring another woman, touching her body and making her cum hard and enjoying her juices, licking and nibbling her breasts and make her moan for more mmmm. Never going to happen but I want it


Vxxx
Never say never hunni xx
 
Pearls

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18 July 2015
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Because truth is i am not attractive enough that another woman would look at me it is just a fact thats all

Vxxx
Ok Miss V, first it's pointless me saying you are wrong or flood you with compliments because you won't believe it or listen ;)
So what I will say is this, at any point do you feel attractive and confident? This could simply be after a nice bath, hair done and wearing something that you feel good in.
I don't feel attractive all the time and there will be people out there that don't find me attractive enough to meet, facts of life, but the people we do meet are attractive in so many ways.
Don't ever knock yourself Miss, there are so many out there that can do that for you.
Find that little something that makes you feel good and your insecurities will soon change for the better.
I also find playing around with different poses for the camera helps, nine times out of ten I delete 90% because of silly things like my tummy showing or my boobs look shit, once you have the right angle then boom, you can look at that photo and know you are attractive.
So new approach, positive mental attitude and you will feel attractive ok #feelthelove #promise ;)(y)
 

Vanezza

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11 May 2017
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Ok Miss V, first it's pointless me saying you are wrong or flood you with compliments because you won't believe it or listen ;)
So what I will say is this, at any point do you feel attractive and confident? This could simply be after a nice bath, hair done and wearing something that you feel good in.
I don't feel attractive all the time and there will be people out there that don't find me attractive enough to meet, facts of life, but the people we do meet are attractive in so many ways.
Don't ever knock yourself Miss, there are so many out there that can do that for you.
Find that little something that makes you feel good and your insecurities will soon change for the better.
I also find playing around with different poses for the camera helps, nine times out of ten I delete 90% because of silly things like my tummy showing or my boobs look shit, once you have the right angle then boom, you can look at that photo and know you are attractive.
So new approach, positive mental attitude and you will feel attractive ok #feelthelove #promise ;)(y)
Vanessa has that thing that makes her feel attractive. It's me! I constantly tell her she is the most beautiful woman in the world and we love each other so much it's amazing we ever move anywhere. There isn't a confidence issue here, it's honesty. We have been trying to meet other people for 3 years and nobody we have asked directly or indirectly has responded aside from 2 nice men. Most just ignore us if it's sexual but enjoy our banter and silliness, this has made both of us feel ugly. We are not good enough to meet on our terms ever apparently.
Swinging has been the most disappointing thing I have tried but then I am fugly too ;)

Neil xxx
 
24 November 2015
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Vanessa has that thing that makes her feel attractive. It's me! I constantly tell her she is the most beautiful woman in the world and we love each other so much it's amazing we ever move anywhere. There isn't a confidence issue here, it's honesty. We have been trying to meet other people for 3 years and nobody we have asked directly or indirectly has responded aside from 2 nice men. Most just ignore us if it's sexual but enjoy our banter and silliness, this has made both of us feel ugly. We are not good enough to meet on our terms ever apparently.
Swinging has been the most disappointing thing I have tried but then I am fugly too ;)

Neil xxx
The winner is for the first part of your post and as for the second itll happen when you least expect it ,i never have any illusions about myself ,im big build and missing a part but heyho it happened for me
 
Pearls

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18 July 2015
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Vanessa has that thing that makes her feel attractive. It's me! I constantly tell her she is the most beautiful woman in the world and we love each other so much it's amazing we ever move anywhere. There isn't a confidence issue here, it's honesty. We have been trying to meet other people for 3 years and nobody we have asked directly or indirectly has responded aside from 2 nice men. Most just ignore us if it's sexual but enjoy our banter and silliness, this has made both of us feel ugly. We are not good enough to meet on our terms ever apparently.
Swinging has been the most disappointing thing I have tried but then I am fugly too ;)

Neil xxx
Ok I have @Admin who tells me I am beautiful every day, trust me it doesn't work, you have to feel good for yourself (it's a woman thing that men will not understand)
As for swinging then you are just lucky they haven't responded because they are too up their own arse to meet. Everyone has had issues in this scene including us and I'll tell you now, there was a stunning lady once on here, gorgeous pics and very sexy, when we started chatting to her we quickly realised she was not beautiful, she also displayed this ugliness across the site and ended up being banned. Would we have met this sexy stunning lady? Hell no, way too ugly.
Beauty is within you, all you need is the confidence to show it on the outside. ;)xx
 
Pearls

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18 July 2015
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The winner is for the first part of your post and as for the second itll happen when you least expect it ,i never have any illusions about myself ,im big build and missing a part but heyho it happened for me
You only need one anyway :whistle:;) And your not big built :Dxx
 
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can assure you the beast hidden beneath is as handsome as the horse himself (y)
 

Vanezza

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11 May 2017
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Thank you for the lovely responses and I can truly say I am not feeling unattractive myself I don't have any issues with the way I look but it the feeling I get when approaching ladies that I'm just not good enough not all women no but the majority yes. And that's in all walks of life I just have the kind of face ppl want to slap lol. We have things that hinder us from traveling so that makes this lifestyle much more difficult for us oh well it is what it is :D

Vxxx
 
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Pearls

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18 July 2015
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Thank you for the lovely responses and I can truly say I am not feeling unattractive myself I don't have any issues with the way I look but it the feeling I get when approaching ladies that I'm just not good enough not all women no but the majority yes. And that's in all walks of life I just have the kind of face ppl want to slap lol. We have things that hinder us from traveling so that makes this lifestyle much more difficult for us oh well it is what it is :D

Vxxx
You will find in this scene single females are selective (I have to careful with words here) but not all, just most. We see it all the time but I can assure you, it isn't you ok. Are you coming to Xtasia and/or our social in October? xx
 

Vanezza

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11 May 2017
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You will find in this scene single females are selective (I have to careful with words here) but not all, just most. We see it all the time but I can assure you, it isn't you ok. Are you coming to Xtasia and/or our social in October? xx

Thank you hun I also know that too. No tbh we just can't it's just not do able atm

Vxxx
 
6 October 2015
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Ok Miss V, first it's pointless me saying you are wrong or flood you with compliments because you won't believe it or listen ;)
So what I will say is this, at any point do you feel attractive and confident? This could simply be after a nice bath, hair done and wearing something that you feel good in.
I don't feel attractive all the time and there will be people out there that don't find me attractive enough to meet, facts of life, but the people we do meet are attractive in so many ways.
Don't ever knock yourself Miss, there are so many out there that can do that for you.
Find that little something that makes you feel good and your insecurities will soon change for the better.
I also find playing around with different poses for the camera helps, nine times out of ten I delete 90% because of silly things like my tummy showing or my boobs look shit, once you have the right angle then boom, you can look at that photo and know you are attractive.
So new approach, positive mental attitude and you will feel attractive ok #feelthelove #promise ;)(y)

Hey I tend to just observe more now and do not comment BUT! Gulp Here goes armour on lol x

Due to my illness if any consolation... I know too well how people judge and especial me and my appearance although I am 52.5 kilos now HOORAY! cos I am SLIM but they use the word that I hate SKINNY. IT's not my choice my quality of life due to my Kidneys is what it is and with a wonderful man supporting me to I have been able to gain self esteem and more confidence and not forgetting my family and close friends here on SS. (Thank You & sorry if I get it wrong and or jump in debates wrong lol xx)
Oh by the way he the (Partner Mr Lets) is good at the camera angles too .... Some times... bless him Oh and amazing how he talks people through things on the fetish side too for the newbies. He wonderful but may have to delete this so he doesnt see or unable to get head through the door lol x

I Echo to All and compliment on a well said piece from @Pearls .
New approach, positive mental attitude and you will feel attractive ok #feel the love #promise ;)(y)

Lots of love Sami-Jo X.
 
Pearls

MOTM

18 July 2015
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Hey I tend to just observe more now and do not comment BUT! Gulp Here goes armour on lol x

Due to my illness if any consolation... I know too well how people judge and especial me and my appearance although I am 52.5 kilos now HOORAY! cos I am SLIM but they use the word that I hate SKINNY. IT's not my choice my quality of life due to my Kidneys is what it is and with a wonderful man supporting me to I have been able to gain self esteem and more confidence and not forgetting my family and close friends here on SS. (Thank You & sorry if I get it wrong and or jump in debates wrong lol xx)
Oh by the way he the (Partner Mr Lets) is good at the camera angles too .... Some times... bless him Oh and amazing how he talks people through things on the fetish side too for the newbies. He wonderful but may have to delete this so he doesnt see or unable to get head through the door lol x

I Echo to All and compliment on a well said piece from @Pearls .
New approach, positive mental attitude and you will feel attractive ok #feel the love #promise ;)(y)

Lots of love Sami-Jo X.
I see you have gained a few pounds, looking good ;)(y)xx
 
6 October 2015
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Thank you for the lovely responses and I can truly say I am not feeling unattractive myself I don't have any issues with the way I look but it the feeling I get when approaching ladies that I'm just not good enough not all women no but the majority yes. And that's in all walks of life I just have the kind of face ppl want to slap lol. We have things that hinder us from traveling so that makes this lifestyle much more difficult for us oh well it is what it is :D

Vxxx
Your not alone hun xx I have meds I on too, and travelling is a advance logistical operation lol x
 
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