Is it for anyone?

[LouisT96]

So I'm asking this just out of interest as I haven't seen anything about it on here is swinging also for people with autism and/or disabilities and should there carer allow them to do so if they want the experience all points of view and opinions welcome?

 

[Dangerous690]

So I'm asking this just out of interest as I haven't seen anything about it on here is swinging also for people with autism and/or disabilities and should there carer allow them to do so if they want the experience all points of view and opinions welcome?

Every autistic child is not a duplicate another child? Every person with any form of "Special Needs" is a individual mate?

 

[LouisT96]

Every autistic child is not a duplicate another child? Every person with any form of "Special Needs" is a individual mate?

Yh of course but I was just interested if people such as myself 23 years old male but has autism (Asperger's to be exact) how could my self and others work around it who want to experience it

 

[Therapon]

Yh of course but I was just interested if people such as myself 23 years old male but has autism (Asperger's to be exact) how could my self and others work around it who want to experience it

Yes you could, why not. It's a matter of finding someone who is willing to meet you and tbh that is no different to anyone else on the site.

 

[mrbrightside]

So I'm asking this just out of interest as I haven't seen anything about it on here is swinging also for people with autism and/or disabilities and should there carer allow them to do so if they want the experience all points of view and opinions welcome?

Doesn’t make any difference there’s somebody and something for everyone . Not just in swinging but in the wider world .

 

[LouisT96]

Doesn’t make any difference there’s somebody and something for everyone . Not just in swinging but in the wider world .

Good point and I've never swung before haha

 

[LouisT96]

Yes you could, why not. It's a matter of finding someone who is willing to meet you and tbh that is no different to anyone else on the site.

Very true although I can't travel

 

[Dangerous690]

Yh of course but I was just interested if people such as myself 23 years old male but has autism (Asperger's to be exact) how could my self and others work around it who want to experience it

I jumped the gun then LouisT96 mate sorry ?my youngest Jack has Special needs not that you would have known cuz he's good at hiding it,he's the most thoughtful,polite & loving person you could have,I'm very protective of him & others who are dealing with such issues?I'll apologise for my manner?well done to you Louis for showing me how to be calm?so you are an expert then & like my son,courageous & very Special??

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Hello,
Yeah I agree with the points raised; it should have no real effect tbh.
People do look for personality in people so I know that having Aspergers may prove a challenge for you to overcome, but I’m sure that if you are able to express you for you, then you should be okay.
I’ve yet to encounter anyone who won’t get involved with someone else for whatever reason.
As @Therapon said- it’s a matter of finding that couple / person for you and vice verse.

Also as & @mrbrightside rightly stated: there’s someone and something for everyone.
As for carers being involved, now that is a question that certainly opens a can of worms.
Their job is to help keep safe and protect plus also help with immediate care needs.
Does online activity come within the remit of safeguarding? I’d say so.
But the carers involved would have to help you (whoever) make those decisions.
In that sense, the site is more accessible as there’s real people you can turn to for support.
Real time.
Also the photo verification system can help too.
When it comes to vigilance, you can rely on staff to help.
Whether carers should be involved or not ethically, is such a major discussion.
I would love to see how this goes.

So, may I ask, how severe is your Aspergers?
Best wishes
L&P

 

[Therapon]

Very true although I can't travel

But others could travel to you. Remember not everyone here can travel and we have has other members on the site with disabilities, so don't give up, just stay involved in the forums and hopefully you will find a way to find what you want.

 

[LouisT96]

I jumped the gun then LouisT96 mate ❤sorry ?my youngest Jack has Special needs not that you would have known cuz he's good at hiding it,he's the most thoughtful,polite & loving person you could have,I'm very protective of him & others who are dealing with such issues?I'll apologise for my manner?well done to you Louis for showing me how to be calm?so you are an expert then & like my son,courageous & very Special??

Not to worry that's the thing about over the tech it's hard to realise or see what's on the other end and you wouldn't of known with me also it's invisible just small things here and there and of how my mind works good to know people like myself are welcome! ?

 

[Dangerous690]

Doesn’t make any difference there’s somebody and something for everyone . Not just in swinging but in the wider world .

Autism & swinging? Put it out there,might be a good,??Inte

But others could travel to you. Remember not everyone here can travel and we have has other members on the site with disabilities, so don't give up, just stay involved in the forums and hopefully you will find a way to find what you want.

go for it then id like to learn more about this issue???

 

[mrbrightside]

Not to worry that's the thing about over the tech it's hard to realise or see what's on the other end and you wouldn't of known with me also it's invisible just small things here and there and of how my mind works good to know people like myself are welcome! ✌☺?

Great to meet you and welcome .

 

[Dangerous690]

Not to worry that's the thing about over the tech it's hard to realise or see what's on the other end and you wouldn't of known with me also it's invisible just small things here and there and of how my mind works good to know people like myself are welcome! ✌☺?

My son handles it well now,he's got a few issues ADHD,medical anxiety,mild turettes,and some others,won't go out at when all the fireworks are about,do not like things like that but he's my boy and wouldn't swap jack for anythingsorry my friend?

 

[Dangerous690]

Me & Jack in cyprus??

Me & Jack in cyprus??

 

[Dangerous690]

Not to worry that's the thing about over the tech it's hard to realise or see what's on the other end and you wouldn't of known with me also it's invisible just small things here and there and of how my mind works good to know people like myself are welcome! ✌☺?

That's Jack @LouisT96

 

[Admin]

I’m so sorry @Dangerous690 - I’ve had to delete that photo.
It’s a great photo and you both look great together, but given the nature of the site we can’t allow it. I’m so sorry.
Best thing you can do is share that via PM etc.
Public forums we can’t allow that, sorry.
Hope you understand.

 

[Dangerous690]

I’m so sorry @Dangerous690 - I’ve had to delete that photo.
It’s a great photo and you both look great together, but given the nature of the site we can’t allow it. I’m so sorry.
Best thing you can do is share that via PM etc.
Public forums we can’t allow that, sorry.
Hope you understand.

Thank you ?

 

[Dangerous690]

I’m so sorry @Dangerous690 - I’ve had to delete that photo.
It’s a great photo and you both look great together, but given the nature of the site we can’t allow it. I’m so sorry.
Best thing you can do is share that via PM etc.
Public forums we can’t allow that, sorry.
Hope you understand.

It's ok wanted all in us in thread to show them my boy,done now?

 

[Admin]

It's ok wanted all in us in thread to show them my boy,done now?

I know and it’s a great photo. We just can’t allow it in public sorry. It’s not you or your son, but our privacy laws here which are a good thing.
You can share via PM though.
Thank you for your understanding.

 

[LouisT96]

Hello,
Yeah I agree with the points raised; it should have no real effect tbh.
People do look for personality in people so I know that having Aspergers may prove a challenge for you to overcome, but I’m sure that if you are able to express you for you, then you should be okay.
I’ve yet to encounter anyone who won’t get involved with someone else for whatever reason.
As @Therapon said- it’s a matter of finding that couple / person for you and vice verse.

Also as & @mrbrightside rightly stated: there’s someone and something for everyone.
As for carers being involved, now that is a question that certainly opens a can of worms.
Their job is to help keep safe and protect plus also help with immediate care needs.
Does online activity come within the remit of safeguarding? I’d say so.
But the carers involved would have to help you (whoever) make those decisions.
In that sense, the site is more accessible as there’s real people you can turn to for support.
Real time.
Also the photo verification system can help too.
When it comes to vigilance, you can rely on staff to help.
Whether carers should be involved or not ethically, is such a major discussion.
I would love to see how this goes.

So, may I ask, how severe is your Aspergers?
Best wishes
L&P

Tbh I don't really suffer with socialising I do like socialising otherwise people would go mad without other human contact and I agree with therapon and mrbrightside and when I say carer I do mean a member of my own family and yes I will and should verify my photo soon and my Asperger's isent as severe as others but with mine I'm not a person who travels on my own ✌☺?

Autism & swinging? Put it out there,might be a good,??Inte

go for it then id like to learn more about this issue???

Thanks ?

 

[LouisT96]

Great to meet you and welcome .

Thanks ?

 

[mrbrightside]

Thanks ✌☺?

It’s my pleasure

 

[LouisT96]

My son handles it well now,he's got a few issues ADHD,medical anxiety,mild turettes,and some others,won't go out at when all the fireworks are about,do not like things like that but he's my boy and wouldn't swap jack for anything❤sorry my friend?

Yh my mum would say the same thing about not giving me up for anything and no probs ?

 

[SteveandDebs]

There is an organisation called the The Outsiders Trust that promotes sexual freedom for disabled people. From one of their websites:
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The Outsiders Trust also offers support on relationships, sexuality, dating and sexual services,
to all disabled people and a wide range of their therapists and health and social care professionals.
This work is featured widely in Jessica Kingsley’s book Supporting Disabled People with their Sexual Lives.
We offer all this for free: on the Sex and Disability Helpline, SHADA, SHADA International, the TLC website, and the Sexual Respect Tool Kit.
Outsiders runs the School of Sex for Disabled People so that people with disabilities can better enjoy their own bodies and sex with partners.
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Educating carers and other therapists is a major part of their work.