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19 March 2015
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Is it important that others interact with you?
Could be quoting your OP, liking it or rating it..
After all, this is a "social" site yes? So if peeps aren't interacting with you, is this down to you... even though the thread maybe hot topic, or down to them and their loss?

Why do some people choose to ignore the OP but respond like fanboys to perhaps some others who post in certain topics, yet ignore everything else?

Fanz. x ?
 
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Skippy01

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18 September 2020
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I'm not used to it, I struggle responding appropriately and I know I have a marked tendency to offend people.
I wouldn't worry about it.Have you seen this months media of the month winner? He can't even say hello without offending someone ?.It's part of the forums.Just say what you think at the time and pretend you didn't see any other comments, if you annoy someone ? x
 
12 July 2019
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Is it important that others interact with you?
Could be quoting your OP, liking it or rating it..
After all, this is a "social" site yes? So if peeps aren't interacting with you, is this down to you... even though the thread maybe hot topic, or down to them and their loss?

Why do some people choose to ignore the OP but respond like fanboys to perhaps some others who post in certain topics, yet ignore everything else?

Fanz. x ?
OK FWIW here's my £2.73p worth

Yes I think it is important that others interact with us, even if they disagree with what I've posted, it still shows that they have read what we typed, and 'like' or rate the comments.

But there are 2 sides to this....

If what we type upsets someone, then rightly it may get ignored... or worse, a comment back!

For instance, we had a mesaage very late last night with just 4 words...we tend to ignore these sort of messages as we know its just a random bloke wanting a wank over some sex talk.

We (ok mr) may come across sometimes as being a bit brash, but in all honesty if you was to meet in real life you would see that I am the most friendly person you will ever know.

Sometimes feel a bit downhearted with a few core members here as I'm sure they are also very friendly in person, but their interaction with us on here does sometimes come a cross the wrong way.

As the original post says, this is a 'social swinging' group ... let's all be friends and hopefully when we can meet up again, have a laugh and interact with each other in a respectful manner.

Love to all ?
 
17 September 2020
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Is it important that others interact with you?
Could be quoting your OP, liking it or rating it..
After all, this is a "social" site yes? So if peeps aren't interacting with you, is this down to you... even though the thread maybe hot topic, or down to them and their loss?

Why do some people choose to ignore the OP but respond like fanboys to perhaps some others who post in certain topics, yet ignore everything else?

Fanz. x ?
????? because all they carr about is getting their end away
 
17 September 2020
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I wouldn't worry about it.Have you seen this months media of the month winner? He can't even say hello without offending someone ?.It's part of the forums.Just say what you think at the time and pretend you didn't see any other comments, if you annoy someone ? x
Love that you call me media of the month winner ???
 
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17 September 2020
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OK FWIW here's my £2.73p worth

Yes I think it is important that others interact with us, even if they disagree with what I've posted, it still shows that they have read what we typed, and 'like' or rate the comments.

But there are 2 sides to this....

If what we type upsets someone, then rightly it may get ignored... or worse, a comment back!

For instance, we had a mesaage very late last night with just 4 words...we tend to ignore these sort of messages as we know its just a random bloke wanting a wank over some sex talk.

We (ok mr) may come across sometimes as being a bit brash, but in all honesty if you was to meet in real life you would see that I am the most friendly person you will ever know.

Sometimes feel a bit downhearted with a few core members here as I'm sure they are also very friendly in person, but their interaction with us on here does sometimes come a cross the wrong way.

As the original post says, this is a 'social swinging' group ... let's all be friends and hopefully when we can meet up again, have a laugh and interact with each other in a respectful manner.

Love to all ?
Can i dm mrs marms ???