Is there a difference between being Kinky and sleazy? Thoughts ?

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tink79 said:
Hi guys I thought I would open up a debate about if there is a difference between being kinky or sleazy?
For me I suppose it is all on individual taste and preferences. Over to you guys…
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Good question…I guess it depends on who you’re talking ….. you have to get a feel for what they like ….
Now I’m wondering what I’ve said ?…..:noidy:
 
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tink79 said:
Hi guys I thought I would open up a debate about if there is a difference between being kinky or sleazy?
For me I suppose it is all on individual taste and preferences. Over to you guys…
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Yeah I think there is a difference and it's seen quite a bit. Some just don't see the line and don't realise that what they say is in fact quite sleazy and even creepy. I read some posts and just facepalm at what I've read.
 
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tink79 said:
I know, he was so Vanilla. I don’t know how I stayed for 12 years. This is why I now feel totally liberated ?
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My marriage was quite vanilla sexually which was frustrating as she was hot. There were some moments that pushed a boundary a little and the sex was good (vanilla good) but just could not get her to go that step further. Eventually it became boring.
 
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Kwaka_Rider said:
My marriage was quite vanilla sexually which was frustrating as she was hot. There were some moments that pushed a boundary a little and the sex was good (vanilla good) but just could not get her to go that step further. Eventually it became boring.
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It’s hard! As much as people say a relationship is more than sex, it is a big thing in a relationship.
It’s about a physical and mental sexual connection.
 
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Lips_Pearls

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tink79 said:
Hi guys I thought I would open up a debate about if there is a difference between being kinky or sleazy?
For me I suppose it is all on individual taste and preferences. Over to you guys…
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Massive difference. I agree with Kwaks that some are just cringe.
But sexy flirty fun is superb. The sleaze is dreadful.
Rehashed phrases used over and over can make me wince a little too.
Subtlety is key I think. X
 
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Well I don't know what the difference is between kinky and sleazy, but my wife recently has really turned kinky.... Having sex outside, letting men watch us have sex (at Eureka) REALLY enjoying both of us wearing tights..... And she now REALLY does squirt (not sure if that is kinky or sleazy, you decide) :)
 
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I think it all comes down to personal likes, standards and personal preferences.
I quite old fashioned innuendo and things like the good old Carry on Films. I find it kinky to share photos of my body.
Also like to watch and be watched (although not done it yet)
But there are things I’m not into and find that they over my boundaries.
So I suppose what I am saying is what is Kinky to some may be sleazy to others but it all comes down to personal boundaries. ?
 
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tink79 said:
I think it all comes down to personal likes, standards and personal preferences.
I quite old fashioned innuendo and things like the good old Carry on Films. I find it kinky to share photos of my body.
Also like to watch and be watched (although not done it yet)
But there are things I’m not into and find that they over my boundaries.
So I suppose what I am saying is what is Kinky to some may be sleazy to others but it all comes down to personal boundaries. ?
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Everyone is different, some have approaches that others don’t agree with, that’s life. You just need to go with what you feel is right and don’t let others ruin it which they can in certain scenarios. It’s individual choice at the end of the day and your business.
 
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Agreed everyone’s approach is different in this lifestyle,and as we all know jealousy at others can rear its ugly head , we are all here to have fun after all …
I personally love a bit of attention and if giving someone a bit of attention to encourage participation in this fantastic site and become a part of it ….I don’t see that as sleazy, each to their own I guess ….
Which we all know keeping members and getting them involved has always been a challenge you can see by the numbers viewing forums and the numbers actually contributing ….
 
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