A matter of trust

SteveandDebs · 29 May 2018

Anyone that has read our stories will know that a lot of them start with Debs not having a clue what is going to happen. We have decided that we want some of them to come true but that leaves a problem. How the hell do I (Steve) organise anything when the first thing any sensible guy is going to want to do is speak to Debs to make sure she really exists and is happy to go ahead?

If anyone has any ideas on which would be easiest to arrange please let me know

I think this is going to take a lot longer than I first thought lol

For anyone that hasn't read the stories they are here (in no particular order):

Debs' birthday
48 hrs
A Night Away
24 Hours
F'n'g
Debs' Fantasy

Pearls · 29 May 2018

What about doing a video call through chat and popping up a meet x

Deleted member 1030 · 29 May 2018

Surely you could arrange a 'verification' chat, via phone or through our video chat, without revealing what might happen? The 'sensible guy' could even remain anonymous, if Debs is OK with that.

SteveandDebs · 29 May 2018

There are a couple of the stories where the guy remains anonymous and in one of them that is a central part of the story (F'n'G). Also in the biker one, certainly in the ending she would most likely choose, the fact that the biker is anonymous is central. In most of the others it's the fact that she doesn't know for sure what is going to happen. In those she obviously sees the guys concerned. This is partly why I asked on another thread about socials. These would be a great setting to meet people. They could tell that she was happy for these scenarios to happen then I could talk to any potentials on the QT afterwards

Like I said, I can see this is going to be a long game

Pearls · 29 May 2018

SteveandDebs said:
There are a couple of the stories where the guy remains anonymous and in one of them that is a central part of the story (F'n'G). Also in the biker one, certainly in the ending she would most likely choose, the fact that the biker is anonymous is central. In most of the others it's the fact that she doesn't know for sure what is going to happen. In those she obviously sees the guys concerned. This is partly why I asked on another thread about socials. These would be a great setting to meet people. They could tell that she was happy for these scenarios to happen then I could talk to any potentials on the QT afterwards

Like I said, I can see this is going to be a long game

Plenty of socials coming up and more to be announced, I think fantasy has to have some reality to make things happen and I would try and make the effort to attend, most people here do and travel some distance to have a good time and meet new friends

DiamondJoe · 29 May 2018

It is really tricky - your issue is, as you sum up in the title, a matter of trust - how far can you go without consent and consulting versus preserving the fantasy?

If I were you, I'd start a thread about it and see if someone pliable replies

SteveandDebs · 29 May 2018

Pearls said:
Plenty of socials coming up and more to be announced, I think fantasy has to have some reality to make things happen and I would try and make the effort to attend, most people here do and travel some distance to have a good time and meet new friends

Oh we'll certainly do that

DiamondJoe said:
It is really tricky - your issue is, as you sum up in the title, a matter of trust - how far can you go without consent and consulting versus preserving the fantasy?

If I were you, I'd start a thread about it and see if someone pliable replies

Of course if someone replied and we were out of their age range we could only wait for them to contact us. It's only polite

DiamondJoe · 29 May 2018

SteveandDebs said:
Of course if someone replied and we were out of their age range we could only wait for them to contact us. It's only polite

I would say that would be a wise course of action

SteveandDebs · 1 June 2018

meandlis said:
Surely you could arrange a 'verification' chat, via phone or through our video chat, without revealing what might happen? The 'sensible guy' could even remain anonymous, if Debs is OK with that.

We've been talking about this and I reckon it would work.

If the guy(s) spoke to Debs on the phone and just asked which of the stories she would be happy to do in real life they wouldn't have to reveal who they were and would have confirmation that she was;
A. Real
and
B. Up for it

How does that sound?

A matter of trust

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