I wouldn’t necessarily say so. I enjoy a large glass of malt with one lump of ice.
I wouldn’t necessarily say so. I enjoy a large glass of malt with one lump of ice.That must be a northern thing ice and malt.. bit like cheese and cake ?
True. I find that some malts I can drink room temperature and enjoy. Others I like to drink with a very small bit of ice in it.Glenfiddich web site, interesting that when it comes to single malt you can add water or ice to taste but when i comes to older malt its enjoyed the way you like. ccj
Now when it comes to ice, the question is a trickier one and I know it divides a lot of people. All I can say is you should drink your single malt the way you enjoy it. I've tried it with ice in hot countries and it was very refreshing. Ice can reduce some of the harsher flavours in a whisky and make it easier to drink, although once you're in "connoisseurs' territory" ice can have the same numbing effect as neat spirits, meaning you have fewer flavours in your dram to enjoy.
Good question; I’m not sure whether ‘watching while others fuck at a club, while you’re taking a break, or merely waiting to see what occurs’ qualifies as swinging or not. But I’d say it’s part of the club experience...Ok a question.
Is voyeurism swinging?
And how many of you would want to sit somebody down and just put on a 'show' for them without the third party necessarily interacting?
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Long time ago, my late brother, the man who introduced me to single malt told me “the only fella who gets to tell you how to drink your single malt is the fella who bought you it. You paid for it? You drink it however you choose: with a dash of water, with ice, with a mixer... Your drink, your choice.”you should drink your single malt the way you enjoy it
Genuinely don’t think I’ve ever publicly expressed a fantasy that I haven’t in some way actively wanted to experience at some point. However, there are fantasies that I most definitely have not expressed publicly for precisely that reason…Do these people REALLY want to do these things or are they little fantasies that they feel safe expressing in words on a forum but deep inside know that they'll never actually fulfil?
Ok so serious question now.
I genuinely want to ask somebody about the Sub/Dom lifestyle and more specifically what it involves out of the bedroom when integrated into day to day life.
I have had a quick Google but it's a bit of a minefield out there.
Any articles or links would be appreciated.
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Ok so serious question now.
I genuinely want to ask somebody about the Sub/Dom lifestyle and more specifically what it involves out of the bedroom when integrated into day to day life.
I have had a quick Google but it's a bit of a minefield out there.
Any articles or links would be appreciated.
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Agreed. Some (most) of this you won’t really understand until you’re into it and living it.You can read as much as you like, it will give you an idea but it can't tell you how you would intetgrate into your life. That would only come when you meet your sub/dom and you get to know each other. We have our own set, for lack of a better word, rules. If you want to ask anything specific then pm us or I'm sure any of the other members involved in bdsm would also be happy to help.
Maybe it's not something they want everone to know. There are a few things I have ticked off my list but have no/see no reason to broadcast that to everybody.
Speaking personally, yes I think I would - and I speak as someone who, from past experience, knows that fantasies don't always live up to the mental hype.my question was actually meant to ask people if they would really do the things that they write they'd like to do.
Good question; I’m not sure whether ‘watching while others fuck at a club, while you’re taking a break, or merely waiting to see what occurs’ qualifies as swinging or not. But I’d say it’s part of the club experience...
You can read as much as you like, it will give you an idea but it can't tell you how you would intetgrate into your life. That would only come when you meet your sub/dom and you get to know each other. We have our own set, for lack of a better word, rules. If you want to ask anything specific then pm us or I'm sure any of the other members involved in bdsm would also be happy to help.
Agreed. Some (most) of this you won’t really understand until you’re into it and living it.
I’ve written plenty (okay loads!) of articles and threads about the lifestyle and will gladly help discuss things if you wish. We live it 24/7 as a few people know. Not trashy or stereotypical leathers and collars, but @Pearls is my submissive and I am her Sir from morning until night - 8 days a week.
Do these people REALLY want to do these things or are they little fantasies that they feel safe expressing in words on a forum but deep inside know that they'll never actually fulfil?
And yet I see/hear of very little actual action taken by these same people to pursue their fantasy/desires
Well said @Baldrick couldn't agree more respect n integrity speaks volumes xPersonally speaking alot of the things I say are tongue in cheek, whilst sometimes I'm very sincere and genuine. Hopefully the tone of my posts show which is which.
The thing with expressing fantasies on site, I'm sure people do want to fulfil them but maybe they haven't found the right person/s to fulfil them with. After all its pointless to try and fulfil a fantasy without being attracted to the other participants who might be interested (if that makes sense).
Just because you don't see or hear it, doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Not everybody broadcasts it and some people meet privately through the private messaging feature.
I have had some members privately offer/consider helping me to fulfil a particular fantasy of mine. I'm not going to splash it all over the forums though. That's a private arrangement that you pervs don't need to know about
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Agreed. Some (most) of this you won’t really understand until you’re into it and living it.
I’ve written plenty (okay loads!) of articles and threads about the lifestyle and will gladly help discuss things if you wish. We live it 24/7 as a few people know. Not trashy or stereotypical leathers and collars, but @Pearls is my submissive and I am her Sir from morning until night - 8 days a week.
Just thinking about this, there's more people who can help too. Just quickly responding as am in the middle of something.. Will get back to the rest shortly.So I ask because I tried to read up on the subject and while it's interesting, I found alot of what I read condescending or contradictory to what I already know (or think I know).
I know it's a personal thing to each and every couple but for example 'calling your sub a name if they get out of line' strikes me as not very nurturing and more of an abuse of the power you have been granted.
I'd be really interested on how you both integrate BDSM into your everyday lifestyles. Of course I appreciate this is a deeply personal thing and I don't want to intrude too much either.
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What am I helping with?
So I ask because I tried to read up on the subject and while it's interesting, I found alot of what I read condescending or contradictory to what I already know (or think I know).
I know it's a personal thing to each and every couple but for example 'calling your sub a name if they get out of line' strikes me as not very nurturing and more of an abuse of the power you have been granted.
I'd be really interested on how you both integrate BDSM into your everyday lifestyles. Of course I appreciate this is a deeply personal thing and I don't want to intrude too much either.
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We're always happy to help and our dm is always open if you want discuss personal things away from the thread xxxJust thinking about this, there's more people who can help too. Just quickly responding as am in the middle of something.. Will get back to the rest shortly.
So others who I think can help;
@SteveandDebs @TherLegs @Sammy @acoupleofkinks @Charlia probably some more but am a bit busy so all I can think of for a min.
Will get back to you on the rest later.
Just thinking about this, there's more people who can help too. Just quickly responding as am in the middle of something.. Will get back to the rest shortly.
So others who I think can help;
@SteveandDebs @TherLegs @Sammy @acoupleofkinks @Charlia probably some more but am a bit busy so all I can think of for a min.
Will get back to you on the rest later.
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