Accidental Meetings

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We are total newbies and not hardened swingers by any stretch of the imagination. But we have both had a few experiences over the years and have a solid enough relationship to discuss fantasies and stuff. We’ve already pushed bith our boundaries further than either of us could ever have imagined. But, they’ve always been unexpected and spontaneous. The thought of pre planning and pre meditated encounters just isn’t the same.

There will be expectations, apprehension and, almost certainly, disappointment.
The thought of ‘accidentally’ meeting people by chance and taking it from there, appeals much more. For instance, sitting having a drink together and striking up a conversation with others, enjoying some laughs and, maybe, risqué discussion, then seeing where it goes, seems a much more natural way of going about things.

What are your thoughts?
 
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Well this is what the site is here for, a place to meet and talk to likeminded folk and those that can help. First step I suggest is to get through all the approval and verifications so you can talk to us all in confidence. VF means you will KNOW those you're talking to are genuine and not pretenders
 
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Lots of people chat and make friends here and then go on to meet each other. At least pre planning means there wont be any misunderstandings as we are all here for the same reason. Xx
 
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But pre planned, all concerned will have preconceived ideas and expectations. Spontaneous is so much more exciting and natural.
For example, if we were having a night in Ipswich on the 3rd of feb and happened to sitting together acing a drink somewhere....and onother couple sat near enough to hear and join in our conversation, or exchange a few glances.....no one is under any obligation and no one will feel let down if it doesn’t work out. But, how exciting if it develops? Does that make sense?
 
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I agree completely with you.

However something I must point out and highlight too because sometimes people do tend to forget this...
Being Photo Verified is not a silver bullet folks. Yes the account may have a green PV badge on it which proves they're a single lady/gent/couple - but that is all it does prove. As mentioned in our FAQ's about this; found here How do I become a photo verified member?
This is to ensure safety for all members on the site.
It does not prove anything aside from the fact that the person(s) using the account are who they say they are.


So while it does assure you that the person(s) you're speaking to are who they say they are, it does not prove anything other than just that.
Still keep your wits about you, still use your own judgement and gut instinct - don't be fooled. If it's too good to be true, it usually is.
 
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