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[sthwalescpl]

So, decided to tidy up the diary, and put our next few months shifts in, prompted by an invite to a site social, which we cant make...gutted.
For me its easy, I usually have weekends off, although now and then I do some overtime if the bank balance needs a boost. I also have a random day off every second week.
Jayne has every other weekend off, and only works two days (well, nights) in the week when she's not doing the weekend, if that makes sense.
However, when I plotted this into the diary, I found we have just ONE weekday between now and year end that we are off together, and 6 weekends!
When did life get so bloody complicated lol?

 

[sthwalescpl]

Also... something just occurred to me with regards to planning meets.
We have one rule when we put something in our diary for swinging, be it a social, club meet, party or a more "personal" meet.
Once its down in writing, its solid, unless "real life" forces us to cancel.
We know for a fact that, in the past, we could have had more "fun" if we had dropped going to social when offered a play meet, or we could have "traded up", and we know others have done it to us. But our rule stands.
So, what about you?
Is your swinging life "fluid", do you just go with the flow?
Do you have similar rules, or are we over-thinking it maybe?

 

[Deleted member 6127]

We do our best to keep meets or attend socials but as you say RL pops up to spoil the best laid plans..

Last couple of months had been busy getting the ‘lodge’ completed...end of month should have it done for party times xxxx :0)) T

 

[LizandChris]

If its just going to a club, things may change, one of us may not feel like it on the night, whatever, things change. If we have arranged to meet people, we will be there unless real serious shit has happened, offspring in hospital type stuff.