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Benefits of a Cuckold Lifestyle for Couples

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Coventry, United Kingdom
I've quite recently become involved in a relationship with a lovely couple near to me that grew out of a social friendship in to a sexual relationship. Though at first it began as a threesome arrangement this has recently developed in to a cuckolding situation. Mr enjoys to watch myself and Mrs have sex. My relationship with him is very good and although they never actually went looking for this scenario it has developed from a point of trust. A mutual respect really. His wife and myself text each other all the time but never meet without him being there which I totally respect. One thing that has happened recently (this evening in fact) is that mr actually left the room mid fun to listen to his wife's noises and moans through the door without actually watching. I know he got off on this a lot and wondered if anyone else had ever experienced this? X
 
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peakcouple

Two of our 'regular' couples are semi-cuckold, they invite single men home to play with the women while the men watch. Not something we've done at home but R enjoys single men in clubs while I (G) watch, which I find amazingly erotic. On Saturday we were discussing her Chams experiences on Friday night and R said it's essential I'm there to make her feel 'safe' - she wouldn't be able to let herself go the way she does if she was on her own. At one stage she was in the couples room with someone, but knew I was watching through the two-way mirror. R doesn't like the word 'cuckold' as it seems a bit of an insult to the man involved, maybe swingers need another word?
 
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Coventry, United Kingdom
Two of our 'regular' couples are semi-cuckold, they invite single men home to play with the women while the men watch. Not something we've done at home but R enjoys single men in clubs while I (G) watch, which I find amazingly erotic. On Saturday we were discussing her Chams experiences on Friday night and R said it's essential I'm there to make her feel 'safe' - she wouldn't be able to let herself go the way she does if she was on her own. At one stage she was in the couples room with someone, but knew I was watching through the two-way mirror. R doesn't like the word 'cuckold' as it seems a bit of an insult to the man involved, maybe swingers need another word?
I think that's pretty much spot on. The safety of knowing the partners there. As a single guy I think this is one of the reasons I like the gent to be involved or just there somewhere. The confidence and comfort it seems to bring to the lady (certainly in the relationship I'm currently in with a couple anyhow).
Maybe you could start a new thread for alternate name suggestions for cuckolding!
 

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Two of our 'regular' couples are semi-cuckold, they invite single men home to play with the women while the men watch. Not something we've done at home but R enjoys single men in clubs while I (G) watch, which I find amazingly erotic. On Saturday we were discussing her Chams experiences on Friday night and R said it's essential I'm there to make her feel 'safe' - she wouldn't be able to let herself go the way she does if she was on her own. At one stage she was in the couples room with someone, but knew I was watching through the two-way mirror. R doesn't like the word 'cuckold' as it seems a bit of an insult to the man involved, maybe swingers need another word?
I think that's pretty much spot on. The safety of knowing the partners there. As a single guy I think this is one of the reasons I like the gent to be involved or just there somewhere. The confidence and comfort it seems to bring to the lady (certainly in the relationship I'm currently in with a couple anyhow).
Maybe you could start a new thread for alternate name suggestions for cuckolding!
Indeed and between you guys and the lovely @Bump-n-Grind I am sure you can imaginatively and creatively come up with one?

Informative posts both. (y)
 
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Location
Tijuana, Mexico
I personally like the idea of that @Daddy 4 U - I find the whole three way 'relationship' thing very intriguing and exciting..
Yes very hard to find I should imagine indeed!
We are in a three way relationship that has lasted four years and is great fun.we much prefer it to casual one offs although the excitement of the ocasional unplanned hook up is still fun
 

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Yes agree cuckold is not a good word. We always see it as simply inviting a man into our bedroom. Perhaps "couples extended relationship" would be nice or "three way relationship"
Agreed... Three way relationship is good. TWR. ;) :D
I see the term "Stag & Hotwife" used quite a lot these days
Hmm not sure I personally like that either. Not that it's my place to say or suggest.. but. Stag and Hotwife? :confused:
 
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peakcouple

I see the term "Stag & Hotwife" used quite a lot these days
We like that, hotwife is accurate for the woman and stag sounds good for the man, if it's in the sense of a stag being rampant and getting involved, but maybe not in the old sense like 'stag films' which were porn for men who just watched.
 
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I think the point of the cuckolding, hotwife thing is that the male of the couples is more passive during the act, as it were.
If the male is more involved then we're into 3sum territory.
Don't get me wrong I'm certainly not the last word in this kink just this is what I have been led to believe thus far.
So Stag probably isn't of the rampant variety while the hotwife is at play but certainly is when they share the experience after & the reclaiming happens.
Hope that makes sense
 
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Location
Tijuana, Mexico
I think the point of the cuckolding, hotwife thing is that the male of the couples is more passive during the act, as it were.
If the male is more involved then we're into 3sum territory.
Don't get me wrong I'm certainly not the last word in this kink just this is what I have been led to believe thus far.
So Stag probably isn't of the rampant variety while the hotwife is at play but certainly is when they share the experience after & the reclaiming happens.
Hope that makes sense
Less stag and more of a bambi in our case. :)
 

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Location
Oxford, United Kingdom
I have recently entered into a "cuckold" situation with a couple from another site. It started due to the male of the couple being at a point where he cannot perform the physical side of the relationship as well as he used to. Although I have never met him he is fully informed of everything and actively encourages his partner, something I wanted to ensure before anything happened in the first place.
So far it has been very positive with everyone having a lot of fun, there's no jealously issues and the lady and I have a good, friendly relationship together. Opening my front door to a sexy santa was fun, especially as she had been kept outside for a few minutes, my front door is close to a busy road! :rofl:
 
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