So the answer is simple... solution maybe not so.Its taken me all day to read all these posts and in the main its very interesting reading. I always thought that it was a bit of a side lined subject tbh but it seems a few here have an interest in it as do we but as we have read folks often want very differing things from it and I would say ours is once again different from what we have read here. I would say we have a passing interest in it as we would not want anything more than the sexual side of it and I would say it would have to be very much on our terms and as and when we wanted to play that way. We have toe dipped in the past but have had very poor results to say the least ranging from a guy who had no clue what to do sexually to a guy who got stage fright and left. we have only gone in this direction a couple of times and both times have been a sheer waste of time. The bull type guys are not what we are looking for at all as I (Steve) am a very manly man and so a guy who wanted to come be in charge would soon be on his way home.
Maybe we are going about it all wrong or something but we are a very laid back couple who want to try most things except man love shall we say
Yes would go with that - Want a bloke who can have a damned good time with Mrs B but leave the macho BS at the door. Mrs B is running this gig and I am only here as the insurance lolSo the answer is simple... solution maybe not so.
@Bump-n-Grind are within this niche and can probably help elaborate more..
From what I am reading, you would like a gent to be sexually adept not bull-ish as there'd be too much dominance from both sides.
So someone who knows what they're doing but is capable of understanding that you yourself are not a humiliated cuck etc, but within the same realms as a 'bull'.
Someone who is educated enough to grasp that you're almost equal within this position but he's actually there are your request too as well as Mrs B's.
I hear you.. and totally understand this.Yes would go with that - Want a bloke who can have a damned good time with Mrs B but leave the macho BS at the door. Mrs B is running this gig and I am only here as the insurance lol
That would get the guy a golden ticket to my driveway. Lol hell I am in the room to watch and enjoy so aint gonna be no squirming going on. Unfortunately I look at this a bit like I do work and would say you can do this 2 ways. My way or my way.I hear you.. and totally understand this.
No need for this "I am the bull and want to f... your missus while you squirm.." yeah okay mate..
But yes totally understand that.
It is achievable and there are guys around who will listen and take on board your ideas/plans and suggestions plus rules.That would get the guy a golden ticket to my driveway. Lol hell I am in the room to watch and enjoy so aint gonna be no squirming going on. Unfortunately I look at this a bit like I do work and would say you can do this 2 ways. My way or my way.
The nice thing is we can take it or leave it so either way is no problem to usIt is achievable and there are guys around who will listen and take on board your ideas/plans and suggestions plus rules.
But! Almost unicorn realms no doubt. Like rocking horse shit; impossible to find.
Am sure you will though.
Some people can't grasp the concept while others really can. It all depends on what levels of trust and companionship you have I suppose.
Which is brilliant. It's not the be all and end all.The nice thing is we can take it or leave it so either way is no problem to us
We as a couple have a very strong level of trust. However we have always said that neither 1 of us would ever do anything without the other present as its something fun we do as a couple. Now when I say present I would stretch that to mean in the same building kinda thingIt is achievable and there are guys around who will listen and take on board your ideas/plans and suggestions plus rules.
But! Almost unicorn realms no doubt. Like rocking horse shit; impossible to find.
Am sure you will though.
Some people can't grasp the concept while others really can. It all depends on what levels of trust and companionship you have I suppose.
People very often forget this..... usually it's all about the single ladies or the couples. So many people forget that single gents are just as vulnerable.but as a single male i can be just as vulnerable,
Exactly!People very often forget this..... usually it's all about the single ladies or the couples. So many people forget that single gents are just as vulnerable.
This is also why we did this;
Safety On Meets
https://socialswinging.com/forums/safety-on-meets.145/
It is achievable and there are guys around who will listen and take on board your ideas/plans and suggestions plus rules.
But! Almost unicorn realms no doubt. Like rocking horse shit; impossible to find.
Am sure you will though.
Some people can't grasp the concept while others really can. It all depends on what levels of trust and companionship you have I suppose.
I am meeting someone this week, should i add it here @AdminPeople very often forget this..... usually it's all about the single ladies or the couples. So many people forget that single gents are just as vulnerable.
This is also why we did this;
Safety On Meets
https://socialswinging.com/forums/safety-on-meets.145/
Haha what are you like..I am meeting someone this week, should i add it here @Admin
Bobbie, unfortunately they've not been on for over a year.Lovestruckcouple:-Every single male must think that he would be the perfect man to join you and I am no exception.
Bobbie.(Oxford)
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