Can submissives have limits?

[Lilixdomnatrix]

One of my subs asked me this question earlier today and my response was Yes absolutely. Submissives have just as much right to boundaries and preferences as dominants. Healthy dynamics are built on mutual respect and clear communication of each person’s needs and limits.

What do you all think?

 

[sandholme63]

Yes it's incredibly important that the sub and Dom have set boundaries at least for the first few weeks, personally after trust is gained i prefer no boundaries and no safeword otherwise we'd never push boundaries and experiences.
In my past as a submissive man I've found that everyone can mentally and physically prepare for the first few hours but it's after four or five hours that both participants relax and it's then that the real fun can be had.

 

[sandholme63]

I'm still searching for a true dominant assertive woman

 

[Ragdoll]

One of my subs asked me this question earlier today and my response was Yes absolutely. Submissives have just as much right to boundaries and preferences as dominants. Healthy dynamics are built on mutual respect and clear communication of each person’s needs and limits.

What do you all think?

Hi Lili,
I think when you start on the dom /sub path you talk so much and the only way it can work is to be completely open and honest with each other, what you expect the relationship to look like, what you both want and how you both are going to work to make it successful.
You don’t go from zero to one hundred overnight. Even if you know each other well it takes time.
We have rules, which I follow, they are very important and I am obedient.
We do have a safe word but I trust my dom with my life, that might sound dramatic but this has developed over a long time.
Next month we celebrate two years of my being collared and we are both very happy 🫶

 

[Lilixdomnatrix]

Hi Lili,
I think when you start on the dom /sub path you talk so much and the only way it can work is to be completely open and honest with each other, what you expect the relationship to look like, what you both want and how you both are going to work to make it successful.
You don’t go from zero to one hundred overnight. Even if you know each other well it takes time.
We have rules, which I follow, they are very important and I am obedient.
We do have a safe word but I trust my dom with my life, that might sound dramatic but this has developed over a long time.
Next month we celebrate two years of my being collared and we are both very happy 🫶

That's beautiful dear

 

[Zeus2512]

Oe sub I know, was told by her dom what her limits were. When I heard this, I told her, "He is no dom, dump him." She did so, and we haven't heard from him since. By the Way, she still isn't MY sub, and possibly never will be, although we do chat regularly.