Couple MF chat or male?

[Lips_Pearls]

So you’re actively engaged with a couple who say they read all messages as a couple, react and swap messages as a couple.... but you know it’s Mr or a single bloke you’re chatting with (PV’d).

Do you engage? Do you have fun?
Or do you tread cautiously and see which way the wind blows?
After all, there’s always a distinction between the way a woman and man talks.
As ever, over to you.... ?✌?

 

[Deleted member 11852]

As we are a couple and are both very active on the profile we do both read all the messages and we both interact with people we chat with always making sure there's an m or a w at the end so people know who they are chatting with.. I think to your answer its a bit of both you can have some naughty chat but being mindful not to give out any personal information.. W..

 

[Jaynerobert]

My best favourite, lol, is when it’s a ‘couple’ profile that’s actually a single person playing the part of both the male and the female in chats! Must have thought that we came down in the last shower!
I mean we were naive to begin with and made enough rookie errors to write a book but I’m quite a good word/punctuation and grammar detective and I know for sure if the same person is writing.
I hasten to add that this was before we found SS so not on here!

As for a couple where it’s just the Mr who is chatting, as a female who drives the account I come across that loads even when it’s ‘advertised’ that the couple will reply together. I’ve found that it is mainly the chaps who do the messaging but is that because I’m a female? Of course I’ll chat and share the messages with R and mostly have felt fine about it.

On the flip side though - as a couple we say that we always read, chat and reply together which we (mostly) do but the replies 99.9% of the time come from me so it’s no different really, is it? J X

 

[GeoffRy]

That is the great thing with the P.V. system , you can tell instantly when it's a single gent trying to appear as a couple. NEXT.
We will chat with any couples and some single gents but be honest , honesty is the most important thing in this lifestyle for us. Xx G

 

[GeoffRy]

(R) Must add to G's response...
I hope that it's obvious to others that we are a proud and extrovert couple (this landscape is where we can be ourselves - escape the grind etc).
We've been stung before, and this has made me (F) cautious in exchanges online. We feel safe on this site.
The Saturday Socials have been so comforting in helping us shed preconceived myths and stereotypes.
Unfortunately there are some that take advantage of this. Hopefully they don't get far enough to hurt anyone.
XxRy

 

[Deleted member 6127]

For us PV is important and when striking up a conversation with people I

 

[Deleted member 6127]

Ahhhh....big fingers small screen???

For us PV is important and when striking up a conversation with people I always suggest them to get PV, explaining why it’s a good thing and gives others confidence in who they are talking to. If they don’t then the fun can begin ???

I do interact with people more than Miss C, but it’s open who the people are chatting to T. Miss C is always told of what’s going on and if does make a guest appearance now and again to spice things up.

I must admit I do like to hunt out the fakes and lead them on....????

Well back to naughty conversations, watch out I’m about ??? xxxx :0)) T

 

[Deleted member 17925]

Some good points !! ?
However, as a single male ...... I don't get such problems ..... But when chatting to a couple, I often think ..... Who am I chatting to ?? ? but couple of rounds of banter usually helps clarify !! ??
Call me naive, but why would a single male, pretend to be a couple ?? ?‍ ..... & whats going to happen if they agree to meet ?? Do they arrive with an inflatable (other half) ?? ?? the mind boggles !! ??
Jeez, maybe I'm just to honest !! ??

 

[Jaynerobert]

@Bobman888 Also sometimes naive and fairly new to this but our perception is that the motivation for someone to pretend to be a couple is that they’re going to get off on some saucy ‘four’ way chat or that they are just a bit not quite right!

I didn’t really think that their intention was to meet anyone ... although I did read something the other day written by someone who had spent the best part of 4 weeks chatting to a ‘couple’ and then when they went to meet for a social at a pub it was just the bloke and he admitted he wasn’t in a couple and never had been throughout their comms! Screwy if you ask me!

Pre SS we also had a female profile chatting to us at the same time as a male and they were clearly both the male.

I’ve only had a couple of issues here which have been very promptly dealt with and which is why we like it here. The PV makes it pretty difficult for someone to be a faker.

 

[Deleted member 17925]

Really, what a diverse range of experiences we've had !! ?
Prior to joining SS I was on a couple of other site (the usual suspects) for a short while, after 2 weeks I had 37 females contact me. Now I like to think of myself as a half decent fella ....... Thought xmas & b'day had come all at once !! ?? ....... Now I might be a little naive but I ain't bloody stupid. It transpires that they bot spam new members & when you pay, you never hear from anyone again !! ?‍
The second site was all fake profiles, scammers & bots. Even had people asking me for a temp loan, to finish building works !! ?? well as you can imagine ...... My response was less than polite !! ??
So far, I like this site ....... If you can put up with my banter !! ? but prefer to meet people, face to face instead of banging away on this keyboard !! ? xx

 

[Lips_Pearls]

but prefer to meet people, face to face instead of banging away on this keyboard !! ? xx

Yes don’t we all. Hopefully once this dreaded virus disappears into the sunset things like the Saturday Socials can continue and whatnot.
Though what goes on behind closed doors and is arranged away from the forums, then that’s a separate matter. ?

 

[Deleted member 17925]

Yes don’t we all. Hopefully once this dreaded virus disappears into the sunset things like the Saturday Socials can continue and whatnot.
Though what goes on behind closed doors and is arranged away from the forums, then that’s a separate matter. ?

What no SS Police behind closed doors or SS Live Coaches ..... "Oooh, you don't want to do it like that, you want to do it like this" !! ????

 

[Lips_Pearls]

What no SS Police behind closed doors or SS Live Coaches ..... "Oooh, you don't want to do it like that, you want to do it like this" !! ????

Not that we condone/condemn anything of course.
To me to you, to me to you..., ??

 

[Panda and shark]

We was warned about false accounts very early on, probably why we have not tried to meet anyone from online and all our fun has been at clubs. We had a long talk about the scene with some friends at our first club. I, Mr, tend to run acc but Mrs can and has seen everything I’ve ever posted or liked. I try to might it clear its Mr posting or messaging. No hiding who I am. If people choose not to reply, that’s fine.

I’ve suggested club events, Mrs has said yes or no she doesn’t fancy that. Mrs said at start that she doesn’t want to deal with loads of messages etc., our dynamic might change over time. Tbh for us if people didn’t believe us it wasn’t an issue as we liked the club anonymity. If clubs don’t open for a while or god forbid do not open then we would have to re-examine how we engage this world.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

We was warned about false accounts very early on, probably why we have not tried to meet anyone from online and all our fun has been at clubs. We had a long talk about the scene with some friends at our first club. I, Mr, tend to run acc but Mrs can and has seen everything I’ve ever posted or liked. I try to might it clear its Mr posting or messaging. No hiding who I am. If people choose not to reply, that’s fine.

I’ve suggested club events, Mrs has said yes or no she doesn’t fancy that. Mrs said at start that she doesn’t want to deal with loads of messages etc., our dynamic might change over time. Tbh for us if people didn’t believe us it wasn’t an issue as we liked the club anonymity. If clubs don’t open for a while or god forbid do not open then we would have to re-examine how we engage this world.

Well it's a reasonable and well articulated response. There's a lot of fake accounts, catfish accounts and spammer accounts.
Even more so now than ever (or perhaps recently).. due to phishing.

That said, PV helps mitigate some of the risks when chatting online and even planning on progressing to a meet/liaison.

Message ping pong can also only go on for so long, but that said, there's also something to be said about forming friendships through those messages which go on to become something else, which then also lead to a further understanding and better dynamic.
I suppose.

 

[Panda and shark]

Well it's a reasonable and well articulated response. There's a lot of fake accounts, catfish accounts and spammer accounts.
Even more so now than ever (or perhaps recently).. due to phishing.

That said, PV helps mitigate some of the risks when chatting online and even planning on progressing to a meet/liaison.

Message ping pong can also only go on for so long, but that said, there's also something to be said about forming friendships through those messages which go on to become something else, which then also lead to a further understanding and better dynamic.
I suppose.

Got to agree with all above.
But.
We liked the fantasy world, going somewhere illicit and having naughty fun. No comebacks, no worries, no let downs etc. perhaps we will change. We still count ourselves as newbies and probably will evolve

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Got to agree with all above.
But.
We liked the fantasy world, going somewhere illicit and having naughty fun. No comebacks, no worries, no let downs etc. perhaps we will change. We still count ourselves as newbies and probably will evolve

Nothing wrong with that.. We all started somewhere. Some love clubs etc.. Obviously given the current situation though it's not ideal. Meh.

 

[Tiger]

When I joined the site it was mandatory to be photo verified, it gave me a certain level of reassurance that I was talking to genuine people!

You don’t get that with anywhere else & it negates the entire “send face pic with first message, so we know you’re genuine” bullshit, trust is a two way street & PV is one of the many things including the First Saturday socials that social swinging offers, that set it apart from the rest!

Tiger xx

 

[Deleted member 19022]

So you’re actively engaged with a couple who say they read all messages as a couple, react and swap messages as a couple.... but you know it’s Mr or a single bloke you’re chatting with (PV’d).

Do you engage? Do you have fun?
Or do you tread cautiously and see which way the wind blows?
After all, there’s always a distinction between the way a woman and man talks.
As ever, over to you.... ?❤✌?

Personally I would call them out, as it can ruin it for the genuine males, be they single or married . Even though I'm new to swinging, I believe its about trust and honesty Pretending to be a couple when chatting is abusing that trust.