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Lovernotfighter

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Ohhhhhh more accurately how sexy do you find proper manners?

A little background fluff,
For the last few weeks I have been chatting with a nice lady online, once or twice our conversation have flowed to sexual and sensual flirting. It was in one of these flirty conversations she admitted that the fact I was always polite to her turned her on, and this got me thinking do people find good manners sexy and if so how sexy.
 
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Louise1970

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Sticks n stones may break my bones but whips n chains excite me so bend me over n spank my ass n show me that you like me.....is it this kind of manners :X3:
 
Respect2017

Respect2017

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Who doesn't like good manners ?

Good manners doesn't mean missionary position always. It shows respect for another person.

Unless someone likes to be treated like "dirt"

In a sexual way that is fine and manners in that "role play " can be disregarded with the consent and agreement of both adults ...or people involved and " safe words" have been agreed

I can't ever imagine someone not liking good manners :confused:
 
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Terryg said:
Turn it round the other way, do we like being treated with disregard, people being impolite to us, discourteous, rude... probably not ...
Not a bad thing to be known as a Gentleman for all the right reasons.. Tx
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Apologies lover not a fighter ..but find this post rather pointless .. though I'm glad you're hitting it off with a woman that likes the fact you're polite :)
 
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It's great people creating threads for discussion .. though nonsensical ones .. I only replied as I felt strongly about thinking people don't respect manners ..it should be normal to like good manners
 
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Lovernotfighter said:
Ohhhhhh more accurately how sexy do you find proper manners?

A little background fluff,
For the last few weeks I have been chatting with a nice lady online, once or twice our conversation have flowed to sexual and sensual flirting. It was in one of these flirty conversations she admitted that the fact I was always polite to her turned her on, and this got me thinking do people find good manners sexy and if so how sexy.
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Yeah, I’ll side with @Lips_Pearls on this one:

Lips_Pearls said:
For me personally, I wouldn’t say I find them sexy as such, but oddly I do find people without them - unsexy. ;)
Hope that makes sense! (y) :)
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Lips_Pearls

Lips_Pearls

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Respect2017 said:
So you like good manners or not ?

Why do people sit on the fence .. what do you think you achieve

Imagine your children ..what would you tell them.?

Bad manners are ok ?
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Not at all. The question is not whether we/I like good or bad manners, but do we find them sexy and as I have already highlighted;
Lips_Pearls said:
For me personally, I wouldn’t say I find them sexy as such, but oddly I do find people without them - unsexy.
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In other words - I do not find manners 'sexy'. Saying please and thank you is par for the course, but I don't find people without manners, sexy at all.
And to answer your intrigue;
Respect2017 said:
Imagine your children ..what would you tell them.?
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We bring our children up with absolutely impeccable manners.
 
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Lips_Pearls

Lips_Pearls

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Respect2017 said:
but find this post rather pointless
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Respect2017 said:
It's great people creating threads for discussion .. though nonsensical ones
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Do absolutely feel free to start your own topics and threads though, there's plenty of areas to choose from and you can discuss so many wide & varied things from swinging to every day humdrum shite if you so wished.
Simply visit a forum of your choice and click 'start new thread' - that's all you have to do and go from there. Will be great to see what thread(s) you wish to create to discuss..... (y)
 
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Sammy

For me I do like a Gentleman without doubt , there's time and place ,

It's not so much a turn on
it is important because I hate ill manners and rudeness and disrespectful people

Sx
 
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Lips_Pearls said:
Not at all. The question is not whether we/I like good or bad manners, but do we find them sexy and as I have already highlighted;

In other words - I do not find manners 'sexy'. Saying please and thank you is par for the course, but I don't find people without manners, sexy at all.
And to answer your intrigue;

We bring our children up with absolutely impeccable manners.
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I never questioned nor doubted the upbringing of your children :)
 
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Respect2017

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Lips_Pearls said:
Do absolutely feel free to start your own topics and threads though, there's plenty of areas to choose from and you can discuss so many wide & varied things from swinging to every day humdrum shite if you so wished.
Simply visit a forum of your choice and click 'start new thread' - that's all you have to do and go from there. Will be great to see what thread(s) you wish to create to discuss..... (y)
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So you're saying that " are good manners sexy " is a good thread ?

Does anyone like bad manners ?

Do you ?

My point was that threads need to
Have a point...otherwise you'll end up with loads of meaningless threads that will denigrate the site. Was not in anyway an
attack on a member ..in this case "lovernotafighter" whom I like to read :)
 
Lips_Pearls

Lips_Pearls

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Respect2017 said:
So you're saying that " are good manners sexy " is a good thread ?

Does anyone like bad manners ?

Do you ?

My point was that threads need to
Have a point...otherwise you'll end up with loads of meaningless threads that will denigrate the site. Was not in anyway an
attack on a member ..in this case "lovernotafighter" whom I like to read :)
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Not at all man... but what I am saying is this, by all means feel free to create your own! I am and I am sure many others are too, waiting to see yours and will gladly engage.
It takes balls to write threads and for someone to rain on your parade isn't a pleasant experience. A thread may seem pointless to you, but it may not be pointless to others my friend. It certainly isn't pointless to the OP else it wouldn't have been written.. Whether I agree with your point or not is not in question here.
If however it is pointless to you, simply move on to the next and be done. (y)
No need to rain on someone else's parade because you find it boring or nonsensical. Is there?


Wow, apt thread or what!
 
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I think good manners are important I was bought up to use them and respect my elders and I have carried it through life. It costs nothing to use them but I wouldn't say sexy just respectful.

Vxxx
 
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