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Fab.swingers

MOTM

18 July 2015
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So agree but people just don't get it. Support the rich man xx
 
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Deleted member 1402

I've always said that people just don't like change. They're so used to the dated site that is not so Fab, yet they complain all the time and the site owner does nothing about it.
 
26 July 2016
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We don't support the site we just remain on it at no cost to us. Once we get verified and sorted on here then we will look at leaving all together. And for anyone that knows us from Fab then yes we did spend a short while as part of the in crowd but only by default however we soon backed off once we realised how bitchy and clique the group became and thus soon ended up like everyone else.
 

MOTM

18 July 2015
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It's lovely to have you here both
 

Admin

Admin
15 September 2014
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It's lovely to have you here both
It IS lovely having you here and I will say I think you've settled in lovely.. x
 
11 August 2016
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We still have a profile on "that other site" and can agree with nearly all the posts in this thread. I (M) joined about 9 years ago after being told about it by a couple I met from another site, (F) joined about a year later after also being told about it by a guy she met in the "real world". Back then it seemed ok, I did reasonably well as a "dreaded single bloke" meeting some great people and attending the odd club social etc. She did well as a single female (only to be expected) until the trend for the single guys to turn out like sycophantic bellends who would tell a gal her poopoo was better than toothpaste if there was a chance of seeing real life chesty bumps and lady its, hence her block list rapidly grew longer than Rapunzels hair.

Looking back on it now as a couple it seemed like back in the day people genuinely wanted to meet and have fun whereas nowadays on there it seems full of dreamers and time wasters who really don't know what they want........ Friends invite before any real comms?.... Really?? Email ping pong usually from the male of a couple who want to meet, then when his Mrs finds out what he has been promising all contact is stopped. The list could be endless

As for the forum, they used to be a good place to waste time when you should have been doing other stuff, until certain people thought they were gods gift and a clique formed as a mutual appreciation society that wanted to blow smoke up each other's arses (pooh err Mrs) and certain people got false ideas of their own non importance, nowadays it's all kiss/fuck/avoid/ play sudoku with type posts and posts designed to provoke a reaction . If you ever upset the "great and the good" then your days were seriously numbered on the forums and in chat and you faded faster than a 90's boy band

So yeh it wasn't as fab as it made out
 
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Deleted member 2610

SS is the one and only site I've joined so have no idea what the other world is like and from reading here and talking with the lovely @Miss-Sexy-Legs have not missed out on anything at all.
Here I've chatted and met lovely people. Respect is paramount and we have it here, yes the idiots do appear but are soon found out and dealt with accordingly.
@Admin and @Pearls are creating a site which we can feel safe and secure in how we want to live our lives safe in the knowledge that the security @Admin has put on place will protect our privacy.
We as members must help in reporting 'dodgy' posts or people.
Let's make this site work, help each other, promote the site, get the right people here and most importantly respect each other
A happy SG xxx :0))
 
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Deleted member 1030

Just a thought on cliques.... all sites I've been on have had a hardcore of regular users, an in-crowd if you like. However the difference shows: When we've posted on the forums on F*b to go to a social, we've had barely an acceptance, hardly an acknowledgement from the regulars... they hardly even broke their conversation with each other.... when we joined here, however, we were welcomed with open arms and now, when newbies ask to come to a social, they are encouraged!

That's
the difference
 
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Twickerman


Beautiful phrasing truly made me laugh out loud
 
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9 January 2016
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The above is my only experience of the site really, didnt stick around long enough once it became apparent what you get 'for free'.

Did meet a couple at The VA once, who are on FS, and they are genuine people so i know there are some on there.
 
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mrclouse

I am Batman ?
28 March 2016
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Fab seems to be from exp 40% fakes, 30% timewasters/dreamers about 20% pro-services maybe 10% genuine?
This place is nice and friendly with caring admins so it is better for making friends ~
 
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peakcouple

We've been on several swinger sites over the years but have dropped them all after varying success (some with absolutely no success!) except Fab, which was the first we joined. Our profile there has the same name as here. It seemed great at first, we met some very nice people and have been regular players with a few for a long while, but in the last few years we've had many more time-wasters than successes - two in the last two months, for example; one couple arranging to meet us at a naturist campsite then not turning up, and another couple disappearing when we wanted our women to talk and set up a meet. Also rather fed up with 'couples' who turn out to be single men when you try to arrange a meeting "my girlfriend can't make it but I can, I've got a massive cock so I'll keep you happy" sort of thing!

It's not just personal time-wasters either, you can see some people set up two profiles then verify one another, some even use the same photos in both profiles. Some of the public pics are obviously photo-shopped or stolen from porn. The attitude of management is irritating - we were temporarily banned for mentioning another swinger site once. But we're still there as we have plenty of verifications and it's still useful for arranging club meets and home parties with our friends and their friends. The whole atmosphere of Fab seems very different to SS, although we've yet to meet anyone new from here (that will change next month at Chams!) SS is so much more friendly and entertaining. Have suggested to our best friends that they join.
 
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MOTM

18 July 2015
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Spot on guys and good point about couples. This is becoming a huge problem and to be honest gents pretending to be a couple is on the increase. Thank you also for the kind words. It's lovely to feel appreciated sometimes and we all work very hard here to keep it real. Xxxx
 
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meet_the_fockers

I was banned.after joining this site... no idea why
I have another profile on drab mingers.. mainly to say ban me?? Haha sit on this!!
Do i use it very rarely..
We where members for years.. met many.
I took a step back and watched new people join..
I saw them being ostracised and being treated.. like imbecials and ridiculed/ bullied. I saw them asking staff for help.. i saw that it fell on deaf ears.
It was then i decided it wasnt for us..
And traipsed about and found these heathens... xxx
 

MOTM

18 July 2015
55,114
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Meant to happen though Hun. Look at us now eh xx
 
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The_Bibas

Although we are still on there I let Stephen deal with everything now..
I am the worst person to ask about that site and I still have flashbacks to the last social. We still get constantly attacked by the admins and everything we do is monitored..

XxxBIBAxxx
 

Admin

Admin
15 September 2014
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No way? Still?
Unbelievable... so sorry about that
xx
 
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The_Bibas

No way? Still?
Unbelievable... so sorry about that
xx
It won't go away hun
We even went to an out of town small social last weekend and they got lots of abuse for letting us attend.
Even though we have changed our profile name 4 times since that night.
And Google image my new fab name and all my face pictures from the original profile still come up.. So much for breaking the links

Xx
 
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The_Bibas

And don't even get me started on the blowjob corner at the next social..
Xx
 
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Admin

Admin
15 September 2014
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Terrible to be honest. I remember the whole event like it was yesterday and of course the aftermath.
Awful and abhorrent. Simple as that.
And it's left scars.. no need for any of it. The Green eyed monster can be an evil thing on times. x
 
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The_Bibas

Terrible to be honest. I remember the whole event like it was yesterday and of course the aftermath.
Awful and abhorrent. Simple as that.
And it's left scars.. no need for any of it. The Green eyed monster can be an evil thing on times. x
And now they are openly promoting trouble with this latest idea.
They are a dangerous bunch as is the club they all attend
Xx
 
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