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MOTM

18 July 2015
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As staff here we are pretty spot on with fake profiles which is usually couples sadly

But after reading many profiles about fakes it got me intrigued to know..
How do you guys spot a fake profile or know the person you are talking to is not what the profile says it is?
 
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meet_the_fockers

Guess PV is the most secure way..of making sure they are actually who they say they are.
Failing this i go with my gut, which hasnt failed me yet.. im not as daft as some may think ...if its to good to be true, it usually is..
 
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The whole reason Mrs 666 doesn't come on the sites without me is the endless fake profiles ( not here hasten to add but if anyone is interested I'll happily list the sites to avoid)) , she's useless at spotting them and after an episode a few years ago where we shared face pics and personal details it has unfortunately shaped the way we are going about this , and has caused us to give up on this more than once.
The easiest way we've found is a phone call or ****** call early on , the real profiles are usually happy to do this , like you say it's quite often couples profiles that are fake so it proves to everyone concerned they are talking to genuine people .
Spotting them prior to that is a bit hit and miss , usually for us we find the fake female profiles are too full on at the beginning , wanting sex talk or pics is a classic . Sometimes it can be the language they use , anyone who types "mmmmmmmm" gets dropped like a hot stone
it's unfortunate these sad twats exist and if they didn't piss me/us off so much we might feel sorry for them but it's the nature of the beast
 

Admin

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Mmmmm nice profile pic.

Sadly they're everywhere.
Might explain why no one is interested in us on the " other site"
Been on and off there for years and never had a verification as never met anyone
Yes but you and pretty much, well, over 80/90% of the swinging world are seeking a niche.... needle, haystack my friend.
 

Therapon

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Might explain why no one is interested in us on the " other site"
Been on and off there for years and never had a verification as never met anyone

Thats always a problem, friends verify friends so unless you can get a meet its a vicious circle.
 
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meet_the_fockers

@First3some666 if you find it hard to get verifications, hop along to a club

There's always friendly people there, and if you asked nicely I'm sure you would get verified by some regulars.
Could they not just walk? Hail a cab? Go down the usual route.. making them hop is a little over the top.
 
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Could they not just walk? Hail a cab? Go down the usual route.. making them hop is a little over the top.

Yeah sounds too much like physical exercise .....
Mentioned a few times on here that we aren't going to be visiting any clubs for various reasons, it is something we've thought long and hard about and decided against .
So yep it's a bit of a vicious circle but there ya go , we know a lot of what we do or more accurately don't so is making this harder than it needs to be , but no point in us whinging about it
 

MOTM

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Clubs are a great way to socialise x
 
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We have come across many fake profiles over the years (not on here ). They have been a mix of fake females and couples. Fake female profiles, as already been mentioned are to full on too quickly asking questions regards sex and wanting pictures. Couples are a little harder to spot, but again we ask for a telephone call between the females. That request normally makes fakes go away.
 

MOTM

18 July 2015
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Couples are getting harder and becoming a big problem to spot, we push for verification as much as we can xx
 
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Nope never been .
Unfortunately one of our faces will be going national soon and although you can can vouch for everyone at a social you guys arrange the same can't be said for a club
 

Admin

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15 September 2014
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But this is it, it's not just about club meets.
Sorry to those who have mentioned club meets, but @First3some666 have made it clear - they are not interested in club meets.
Yes I know it's been mentioned about going to clubs, but it's not all about that.
It's also about making 'meets' at home, or hotels or w/e. Not just clubs.

With that, as you're looking for the elusive bi-female, it is even harder again because they need to have total trust not just in you for their own safety, but you as a couple and as a partnership.
So the issue is several fold then.
You need to find that someone, who then clicks with you both and you/her.. Then she needs to trust you explicitly with her safety, then on TOP of that she needs to trust you that you two are solid enough and stable enough to allow her into your marriage/relationship and that she won't be the scapegoat for any breakdown some point in the road.

Sadly and rightly so, though no bearing on you two ofc - a single lady has a lot to consider and it's not just about jumping between the sheets for her I guess.
Add this to the mix and it makes it even more harder to find what you seek.
You'll get there. She will find you both when she's ready.
 

Admin

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15 September 2014
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Couples are getting harder and becoming a big problem to spot, we push for verification as much as we can xx
Couples accounts are the hardest and are definitely becoming a wider problem. Not so much single gents as they generally are more than happy to PV, single ladies - well they will too, but usually we spot the fakes and quickly.
But couples' accounts are increasingly becoming difficult, and won't get PV'd for all sorts of reasons (so we're told). x
Yes again the couples are harder to spot - some really go the extra mile too....
Make no mistakes mind, we've had them here... one in particular was so utterly convincing you would never have thought otherwise.
But eventually they do get found out.. 99% of fakes run a mile when we ask for a photo verification.
 
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meet_the_fockers

Yep @Pearls , fully agree , and we know it would make all this 10x easier . Unfortunately tho we can't risk it .
Ok guys, i have taken a peek at your profile.
You have limited media. Take time out get some more media, elaborate on your profile, what do you have to offer a single female?
Most single ladies, who are looking to play with a couple do prefer from my experience, to talk to the female half of the couple, and then eventually the male.
The hardest part is gaining their trust. Coming into the middle of an already established couple can be daunting..
Make sure she knows it is the female half of the couple thats wanting to really play, and not the the couple just playing out the males fantasy.
I could go on forever.. but most importantly get yourselves out there.. get chatting.. If a lady is interested she will let you know..
Re clubs yes socials are excellent..
But we rarely play in a club..
And have had quite a few first meets at home...
So it is do-able.. unicorns btw a lot despise the term
Are not as rare as some may think..
Good Luck..
Expand on your profile. X
 
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Being a bi_female and having been a scapegoat in a relationship breakdown makes any situation in a private meet so much harder to Judge for everyone concerned , I would only meet a PV cple now I'm afraid and only having spent a lot of time getting to know both
 
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