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19 March 2015
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Okay fairly simple..
What fantasies do you have as swingers, in comparison to what you've already achieved?

Example, your fantasies could be DP but so far have only managed soft swing with another gent.. or you could be wanting MFF but so far only had the odd dabble with friends or another couple.
Could be you want to have fun with a couple as a swingle, but only met 1-2-1 so far.

Please - no silliness, let's just try and see if there's fantasies from other people who you have your eyes on, and who knows you may just match each others ideals. ;) :) x
 
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Hmmm lots of things we've been thinking about. For now we are happy doing what we're doing, getting to know people, coming out of our shell.
The next step for us I suppose would be going to a social and getting to know people face to face.

There's a lot of people who use this site who take our fancy and yes we do fantasize about some of you lol. Too many fantasies to list really but most revolve about you lot on SS.

So if you feel your ears burning one night for no reason, it might be cos were talking bout you and your the star of one of our fantasies.

BNK
XXX
 
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well I like the idea of soft swop dabbled a little first time but find big turn on.
Yes I hear ya (y)
A lot on my to do list with @Therapon but time and Patience will get us there as a couple going forward in this lifestyle x
Go for it.. the world is your oyster. You have so much ahead of you both... x
Hmmm lots of things we've been thinking about. For now we are happy doing what we're doing, getting to know people, coming out of our shell.
The next step for us I suppose would be going to a social and getting to know people face to face.

There's a lot of people who use this site who take our fancy and yes we do fantasize about some of you lol. Too many fantasies to list really but most revolve about you lot on SS.

So if you feel your ears burning one night for no reason, it might be cos were talking bout you and your the star of one of our fantasies.

BNK
XXX
Oooh interesting. That sounds about right when on a voyage of discovery. Talking and fantasising adds a surprisingly big sparkle to things sometimes... Can be a lot of fun indeed! :sneaky: x
 
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Okay fairly simple..
What fantasies do you have as swingers, in comparison to what you've already achieved?

Example, your fantasies could be DP but so far have only managed soft swing with another gent.. or you could be wanting MFF but so far only had the odd dabble with friends or another couple.
Could be you want to have fun with a couple as a swingle, but only met 1-2-1 so far.

Please - no silliness, let's just try and see if there's fantasies from other people who you have your eyes on, and who knows you may just match each others ideals. ;) :) x
Same question back at ya. Do you two have desires & fantasies still unfulfilled? Do you look at other members and think... oooh yes please?

BNK
XXX
 
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Same question back at ya. Do you two have desires & fantasies still unfulfilled? Do you look at other members and think... oooh yes please?

BNK
XXX
We've by no means done everything in the almost 14 years we've been involved in this lifestyle, and yes we do have some things we'd like to still fulfil and explore.. :censored: :sneaky: :sneaky: x
 
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I'll come back to this how long have you got! :D x
How long do you need? X
It's horribly cliched but I'd like to have an FFM, one with a lady joining me and @EyesOpening
To be honest I haven't made any attempts to realise this fantasy yet, given that we both have to fancy said lady and she has to fancy us I'm just sort of waiting for it to happen in it's own sweet time - no hurry :X3:
Other than that I am keen to explore BDSM more, again I've not looked much into it but I do have folks in mind for this, one couple know who they are :love:
Oooh sounds interesting x
To (almost) quote the song...'you took the words right out of our mouths' :) Although we have been to a social and we'd highly recommend it; from our experience it's a great way of meeting people.
And yes...there are more than a few of you we fantasise about too :whistle:

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Robin and Pussycat
Rarw you saucy minxes you :yeahbaby:

I've not done that much here yet, met two very lovely ladies and had someone visit, but what would I like? Well, definately echo the FFM idea that my lovely @cinnamon_giggles had, that would be absolutely delicious.
But apart from that, I've been thinking about scene play, roleplaying, a office scene... I don't know, still thinking about possibilities ;)
Delicious you say? A charmer,... :whistle:
 
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We've lots of fantasies, some revolving around people on this site. Our first one is finding that illusive mmff swap, be it a soft swap to begin with or full.
But like @cinnamon_giggles said, they have to fancy you and vice versa.
There's so much to explore, you only live once so we intend on having fun trying to find 'that couple' to fulfill our fantasy x
 
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I have played out l but 1.

To be a bull of a cuckold couple.
Okay fairly simple..
What fantasies do you have as swingers, in comparison to what you've already achieved?

Example, your fantasies could be DP but so far have only managed soft swing with another gent.. or you could be wanting MFF but so far only had the odd dabble with friends or another couple.
Could be you want to have fun with a couple as a swingle, but only met 1-2-1 so far.

Please - no silliness, let's just try and see if there's fantasies from other people who you have your eyes on, and who knows you may just match each others ideals. ;) :) x
 
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Okay fairly simple..
What fantasies do you have as swingers, in comparison to what you've already achieved?

Example, your fantasies could be DP but so far have only managed soft swing with another gent.. or you could be wanting MFF but so far only had the odd dabble with friends or another couple.
Could be you want to have fun with a couple as a swingle, but only met 1-2-1 so far.

Please - no silliness, let's just try and see if there's fantasies from other people who you have your eyes on, and who knows you may just match each others ideals. ;) :) x

Not sure if this is a fantasy-as-a-swinger thing, or whether its just influenced by porn (and whether push come to shove i would do this) but CFNM intrigues me. Im not submissive as such, but the thought of being naked in front of a number of dressed women, who encourage me to satisfy myself in front of them & tease me makes me wonder ...:whistle:
 
19 March 2015
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Not sure if this is a fantasy-as-a-swinger thing, or whether its just influenced by porn (and whether push come to shove i would do this) but CFNM intrigues me. Im not submissive as such, but the thought of being naked in front of a number of dressed women, who encourage me to satisfy myself in front of them & tease me makes me wonder ...:whistle:
Nothing wrong with CFNM ;) it's a kink-cum-fetish I think and it's surprisingly popular too.. The act and thought of satisfying one's self in front of others, is horny as hell let's be honest. :sneaky: :D
 
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