Finish Line

[FitTrainer]

Growing up I often heard about women who couldn't reach orgasm with a partner. This often made me wonder do men have the same problem?
Personally for me I have never got to the finish line with anyone I've been with. I've only been with a few woman (3) but have never made it over that threshold.
It's often frustrating for me because I want to know that ultimate feeling of an orgasm with a partner.
I believe this is why I enjoy giving over receiving pleasure.

 

[Therapon]

Its not all about having the ultimate experience its about both of you enjoying yourselves. If you can do that then the rest will follow.
And to answer your question, yes I have had that problem at times but normally because I was trying to hard to please the lady. Just relax and enjoy those times, it will happen eventually.

 

[FitTrainer]

Its not all having the ultimate experience its about both of you enjoying yourselves. If you can do that then the rest will follow.
And to answer your question, yes I have had that problem at times but normally because I was trying to hard to please the lady. Just relax and enjoy those times, it will happen eventually.

Yes we always enjoy and I agree thats what matters most.
I look forward to that moment

 

[Colin]

I have on occasions been with someone and had sex early morning (1-2 am) and gone the whole hog and then been awakened at 7 for round 2. I have managed the satisfaction of my partner but no matter how hard I/we try I just cant orgasm but say after dinner there is no prob of us both cumming even with a quickie so I personally put it down to late night sex and tiredness but it causes no problems so I don't worry

 

[Pearls]

Just relax Hun and don't think about it. Enjoy the moment and things will happen naturally xx

 

[FitTrainer]

I have on occasions been with someone and had sex early morning (1-2 am) and gone the whole hog and then been awakened at 7 for round 2. I have managed the satisfaction of my partner but no matter how hard I/we try I just cant orgasm but say after dinner there is no prob of us both cumming even with a quickie so I personally put it down to late night sex and tiredness but it causes no problems so I don't worry

Thanks for the info. I've tried all different times and some of those times I get close but just can't seem to hit that peak and cum

 

[FitTrainer]

Just relax Hun and don't think about it. Enjoy the moment and things will happen naturally xx

Thanks love. I try so hard to relax and I can get to the point but can never just release. Everything feels good and it doesn't bother me any more but sometimes it gets to wifey.

 

[Pearls]

Thanks love. I try so hard to relax and I can get to the point but can never just release. Everything feels good and it doesn't bother me any more but sometimes it gets to wifey.

Can you reach orgasm by yourself x

 

[Colin]

Just an off the top of my head thought could it be something to do with your training/gym routine maybe some one at the gym your close to has the same problem might be worth checking out

 

[Pearls]

Just an off the top of my head thought could it be something to do with your training/gym routine maybe some one at the gym your close to has the same problem might be worth checking out

Could be x

 

[FitTrainer]

Can you reach orgasm by yourself x

Yes every time. Sometimes it takes forever but I can alone.

 

[Pearls]

Yes every time. Sometimes it takes forever but I can alone.

Then everything is working. Could have something to do with what Colin said Hun x

 

[FitTrainer]

Just an off the top of my head thought could it be something to do with your training/gym routine maybe some one at the gym your close to has the same problem might be worth checking out

The people I talk with at the gym have the opposite problem.
Training makes me crazy horny and even after training it doesn't happen. The others at the gym pop faster lol but I've had the issue since my first time

 

[Pearls]

The people I talk with at the gym have the opposite problem.
Training makes me crazy horny and even after training it doesn't happen. The others at the gym pop faster lol but I've had the issue since my first time

Perhaps talk to a doctor just in case Hun x

 

[Colin]

Well all I can think of is what pearls said earlier it could be you have it on your mind when your intimate and its subconsciously having an affect try watching porn while your doing it and maybe your mind will be focused else where

 

[FitTrainer]

Perhaps talk to a doctor just in case Hun x

That's the first place I went and it was so awkward when the female dr tell you that lasting isn't a bad problem to have then winks at you haha maybe it is just on my mind and I need to relax more

 

[Pearls]

That's the first place I went and it was so awkward when the female dr tell you that lasting isn't a bad problem to have then winks at you haha maybe it is just on my mind and I need to relax more

Then there is the answer. You train hard Hun and think this isn't helping. What about if you take time out with your wife for a couple of days. Spend time exploring each other, try new things. Sensual massage is great for exploring each other xx

 

[FitTrainer]

Well all I can think of is what pearls said earlier it could be you have it on your mind when your intimate and its subconsciously having an affect try watching porn while your doing it and maybe your mind will be focused else where

We are currently trying other methods of stimulation to try to make it happen but that also takes a lot of relaxation. Maybe I really don't relax

 

[FitTrainer]

Then there is the answer. You train hard Hun and think this isn't helping. What about if you take time out with your wife for a couple of days. Spend time exploring each other, try new things. Sensual massage is great for exploring each other xx

I have 2 rest days a week were I just relax and recover and there are periods of time where I even take a week off to deload. Maybe I'm just to focused and uptight. We have done massage and. Ow we are exploring other forms of stimulation. So far that hasn't worked because you have to be very relaxed. A lot of fun and pleasure though : )

 

[Pearls]

I have 2 rest days a week were I just relax and recover and there are periods of time where I even take a week off to deload. Maybe I'm just to focused and uptight. We have done massage and. Ow we are exploring other forms of stimulation. So far that hasn't worked because you have to be very relaxed. A lot of fun and pleasure though : )

I see the problem here. You are not relaxed enough for sure. Get some good massage oil for starters and tell each other the rules. I would have a no orgasm rule for starters and build up for a few hours. A good champagne and sexy food. Feed each other. Hot bath or shower each other and then start all over again. Holding back will help after teasing for so long and free your mind of everything apart from your wife. Focus on her only xx

 

[FitTrainer]

I see the problem here. You are not relaxed enough for sure. Get some good massage oil for starters and tell each other the rules. I would have a no orgasm rule for starters and build up for a few hours. A good champagne and sexy food. Feed each other. Hot bath or shower each other and then start all over again. Holding back will help after teasing for so long and free your mind of everything apart from your wife. Focus on her only xx

Oh wow!!! Are you sure you don't want to come over lol
This sounds delightful thank you. I never have rules. Anything goes with me I just really need to let go of my scheduled life and enjoy the moment. We are going to Niagara Falls at the end of the month so we can definitely try this. Sounds so hot, maybe I'll build up over the week too.
Thank you : )

 

[Pearls]

Oh wow!!! Are you sure you don't want to come over lol
This sounds delightful thank you. I never have rules. Anything goes with me I just really need to let go of my scheduled life and enjoy the moment. We are going to Niagara Falls at the end of the month so we can definitely try this. Sounds so hot, maybe I'll build up over the week too.
Thank you : )

Yes build up. Sensual texts to each other when you are apart. Have a no sex rule for a week before you go and talk to each other about what you want to do when you are together. I think it will be amazing when you spend that quality time together then xx

 

[Pearls]

Could you offer any advice @The_Bibas here x

 

[The_Bibas]

It is very common actually especially on first sessions and evermore so with another man in the room

All I can say is it usually passes after a couple of meetings
It's all about being comfortable.
Stephen is very good at reading the signs and leaves the room...

XxxBIBAxxx

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Yes build up. Sensual texts to each other when you are apart. Have a no sex rule for a week before you go and talk to each other about what you want to do when you are together. I think it will be amazing when you spend that quality time together then xx

Seeee @FitTrainer guilty as charged ^^^^